I truly wasn't my "true self" in the closet. In ways, I was partially but I hid myself very thoroughly from myself and everyone else
Hi John, I'm sorry to hear of your suffering. I'm 61 and have struggled with depression all my adult life but have reached a place where it is...
Good luck to you. Facebook is tricky for me. My friends list is a conglomerate of family, friends, acquaintances , friends of my kids, and co...
Well, I'm waiting and unfortunately everything has gotten worse and worse. I'm sorry folks, I am supportive of people coming out and being their...
Maybe life can begin at 61
Hi Fidget, You don't mention how old your kids are but these days, in my experience, in most places, the kids are far less uptight about...
I’ve only wronged myself
I’m only homophobic to myself. Sadly, coming out to my wife and kids has turned my life upside and inside out without any satisfaction. I’m lonely...
In some ways, extroverts are exciting but I usually prefer introverts because it's easier for me to connect with them. I'm an introvert and when...
Sexuality is fluid and ambiguous. Nothing is absolute. Sexual fantasy is on a continuum. Over time, despite love for my wife, my sexual interest...
I'm sorry to hear of your rejection...although I very much have wanted to write and have not been able to get far so I think it's great that you...
Nothing the OP said has any indication of Aspergers.
My situation was different all though I was married 22 years with a17 year old and a20 year old. It was different because when my wife and I meet...
That is really unfortunate news and I sympathize because I know it can be hard to find someone you feel comfortable with. I don't know how long...
What you say is true if you are an adult and of equal power to the other. However, for younger people, who depend on others, it is truly possible...
Your sexuality itself is not something that will be harmful to your girls, let alone kill them. How others react to it will be important to their...
When I think too much, I get caught in the vicious cycle of regretful thinking but then I realize that if I had not done exactly as I had done,...
Hi Sonetto, My situation is not like yours, as I'm coming out of a 25 year marriage and haven't lived alone since I was in my early thirties....
What did my beloved Bette Davis say,"Old age ain't no place for sissies" Faust sold his soul to Mephistopheles, the devil, to regain his youth,...
It's unfair to suggest that men who discover they are gay at a later point in life entered marriage deceitfully. The dynamics are really...
