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Life begins at 40.

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Sundara, Jul 13, 2018.

  1. Sundara

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    Hi, I didn't believe to the quote that Life begins at 40. But this is happened to me and I realize that the impact of the quote is really explosive, makes me suffer and lost control.
    Married with a woman with 2 kids, I can't find what is the meaning of love and I never tried to find it.
    When I was at 42 and I was away from my wife, it happened to me and all the things in my life become questions.
    I never know what is love but when I am now at 40s I realize that I need love really, I want to, that I deserve to get a love.
    I was, I hate to hear gay wedding inside and outside of my country. In my country it is a scandal and black history of human civilization. But now, I really want to marry a hot older Caucasian guy.

    It changed 180 degrees.
     
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    I know after my divorce and once I hit 40; I really started to question myself
     
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    Congrats! Internalized homophobia is an SOB. Stay strong:slight_smile:
     
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    Maybe life can begin at 61
     
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    Thank you Noname87.
    I just want to be myself, and when I realized dreams at my childhood that I wanna be with guy from West (I am from east), I should get it one day.

    Now, I am ready for all possibilities to face the world, more brave and show this is I am.
    Thank you