I had plenty of these in high school and tended to make a fool out of myself because I never understood I was gay and pursued a lot of them...
I agree, time. You have to keep reminding yourself that this person will never have reciprocal feelings, no matter how much you believe they will....
Hopefully this doesn't offend anyone, I am genuinely confused/curious. I'm starting to open up to the idea of dating women, but because it's...
I can relate to this too. I had my aha moment about 4 years ago and to this day I'm still like ?????? I think the process can be slow, it's hard...
I'm in the same boat. I've been questioning/in the closet for a few years and I finally was so sick of hiding that I joined a dating app and now...
thank you guys :)
Hi guys, I'm graduating college soon. My straight roommate and close friend of 4 years has lived her whole life on a beautiful island. She has no...
Straight off the bat I had all of the same worries as her before going out. I'm interested in reading more tomorrow, thanks for sharing!...
So I finally worked up the courage to secretly venture to NYC to go to some lesbian "nights" at different bars. I was hoping that going to the...
So I am in the closet. I met a girl from Hong Kong on a blogging site over a year ago and we message frequently (just friends) and she is the only...
Hey y'all thanks for the feedback. I'm overly sensitive to this whole coming out process. It's interesting for me to see how often gay jokes are...
I went to the most beautiful wedding for a longtime family friend last night. The best man's speech was so touching and funny..and then it got to...
Honestly I relate to this and I'm using the label "lesbian." I know I find women sexually attractive, but I would need feelings to want to...
Thanks for the words of reassurance :) They really did make me feel better about my situation. I can't wait until the day I am comfortable in my...
I thought I would just share what happened to me yesterday for anyone who feels like reading. (This might belong in physical health, but I think...
Yup yup yup. I do get overwhelmed with sadness, but I've tried working on my thoughts. I try to picture a happy future, even if I have no idea how...
Yup it's tough feeling too old or late to come to terms with everything. But I'm realizing it doesn't matter, everyone has their own journey and...
I did the same thing on HER:lol: so you are not alone. Putting yourself out there is a scary process, especially if you don't feel ready. Id say...
I really like this idea, and I guess that's what I've been doing for quite some time now, waiting for an authentic attraction. I think when I am...
That's so refreshing to hear. Sometimes I see people I don't know as blank slates to start anew with because if they reject you, it can't hurt...
