Too funny, I haven’t been on in years and came back today for some reason. I remember chatting with you back then!
I think this is case for many folks who come out late in life- friendships are already formed. There should be a welcome wagon for homos! In my...
Someone talked about self acceptance opening the window to same sex attraction outside of sex. I can say that was totally the case with me. I...
From one Upstate Nyer to another - don't give up. I meet my soon to be husband online 6 years ago. We lived less than 20 mins apart but would...
Great story. What I love about it is that he was comfortable enough to say exactly what he was thinking and what he would have said pre-coming...
I can totally relate. At one point I said to my FWB -"I am just tired of having to struggle for everything". His response "funny, I don't view you...
It how I spent my late 20s and early 30s.
It is now a 3 day event. There is the ladies dance, the dance on the pier, the main parade. Search for Hertiage of Pride - that's the official...
You may - but then again if you do - I guess they weren't that good of a friend
Don't give up. I had the same goal for 2013 but it took me until mid 2014. Good luck
Congrats on the weight loss! You are in your journey to self acceptance but it is a journey. And it takes time. I know as I went through the same...
So not alone! Another child of an alcoholic, gay late in lifer, product of the 80s homophobia! Wow can I add that to my business card? You will...
Quietman I could have written your post a few years ago. I had been between 250 and 320 lbs my whole life. I got down to 170 lbs and actually...
I always thought I had everything I needed- until, I had someone I could truly be 100% myself with. At this point you may feel no need to be out...
I think you have a few choices: 1. Do nothing - that's going to result in no new friends that much is assured. 2. Open the group on a test...
Please do not give up. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to get a prince but it can (and does). You are selling yourself too short.
1. My make or break moment came at a friends wake. She died way too young but the thing about my friend was that she made a decision and lived...
While I am only a few years older than you - I also came out late ( mid/ late 30s). I had lost both of my folks in my teens, long before I...
I totally get it - 10 years ago I could have written your intro. I think there is some value in therapy but it's a fishing game - you have to try...
Welcome. Here's what I will say - after knowing myself for years, ( although I didn't experiment in college) I came at at 36 and it was the best...
