Hello, haven't posted here in a while. I'm still married and love a woman. I've loved her for several years now.. Since I met her, my...
I'm a female, still questioning but I doubt I'm completely straight. Any time I go for massage I ask for a female therapist because I don't...
The last one suggested focusing on marriage and identifying issues. I don't see anything out of ordinary there to work on.. I honestly feel...
This is a great deal of useful info - thank you all! To clarify, they both had LGBT listed under areas of expertise, and I verified they're...
I've tried therapy sessions to help me deal with my strong, long term trigger crush. Now seeing if another therapist's approach/perspective can...
'Strings attached to her' - good analogy. Yes, I definitely feel this way..
Yes, a game play for sure.. It's been a fair exchange in my friendships usually, most of the time. This one is just so bizarre. Can't...
Hey, so sorry to hear you are feeling so uncomfortable next to your partner.. Do you feel it is related to your orientation only, or is it...
Slowly but surely.. I really wish we could stay friends without all the tension. I am trying to keep it all together, being at peace with myself,...
Thank you all - sorry it has taken a bit to reply.. I really couldn't choose what to respond with, as there is just too much unknown. I've...
Thank you @LostInDaydreams.. I do need a hug. It's been a foggy few days and my mind is going back and forth as it looks like I'm at the...
She is single, and I don't know what she feels for me. You may be in a similar boat, although I really hope you won't let it get to the point...
I've been undeniably in love with a woman for 3 years. In my early 40s, married and have kids. This love has not faded as I was hoping....
These are all very valid questions, I think it is a really good sign that you have a clear picture of the situation, grasp so to speak. I find...
I wonder if that's the case.. All I know is that my desires and what I pay attention are completely different from 3 years ago. Prior to that,...
Glad your husband is understanding to your situation and is open minded. It is awesome that he wants to keep going with marriage and to...
Interesting analysis and stories from all.. I think my switch (if I am for sure what I think I am :) ) is a clean switch with about 3 year...
Oh sorry you are missing her.. Why did you freak out? Do you mind clarifying?
Thank you for all your responses. It is useful to learn how each of you came to realization / sexual orientation change. What I wonder is: Do...
Totally agree that I wouldn't want to hear it in more than friendship.. I guess it depends on people and factors - I get it. I'm probably...
