I'm a female, still questioning but I doubt I'm completely straight. Any time I go for massage I ask for a female therapist because I don't feel that I can completely relax and be comfortable with male therapist. I do feel comfortable being massaged by a female. This is not a sexual comfort level I would think, but it makes me wonder what any of you prefer.
Hmmm... I never thought about this in regards to sexual comfort but I have always preferred a woman for anything related to my mind or body. This includes massage therapist, Obgyn, midwife, dermatology check, and mental health therapist. When I ask for recommendations for any of these professionals I always go for them women. I never thought of it in terms of sexual comfort but the thought of a guy belong in any of Jose areas makes me feel uncomfortable.
I need male for gyn/massage anything touchy - personal. I learned long ago my attractions get the best of me with women - Back in my 20's I actually had a gyn tell me she couldn't be my doctor any more. I should have known then I was full on lesbian, but was still in denial.
I generally prefer female too, once I had a male massage therapist and he was so rough I had bruising afterwards! I generally feel more comfortable with females even before I knew I was lesbian, not sure why that is.
I get massages, I don't have a preference and I'm not straight, I don't think that has anything to do with your sexuality, it's what your comfortable being massaged by. Now if your turned on by a woman massaging you or thinking sexually when a women is massaging you then that's another story.
