I’ve been posting here a lot the past few months, and I thought I’d share how I feel after some reflection. I’ve had sex with 3 guys now, and...
To the guys who identify as bisexual - how often do you feel like you’re faking it or just confused and need “straightening out”? I’ve always...
I saw it mentioned in another thread that it can be easy for people to confuse what they’ve been conditioned into being, versus who they really...
I think all I want is for the uncertainty to go away. I envy people who seem to have a strong and steady hold of who they are. I seem to loose...
Both. I've done it once - I did it on a whim one morning. I haven't managed to get the courage to do it again, mainly because I'm afraid I'll...
I think people listen to what I say, and already have me pegged. It makes me feel like they're not listening or taking me seriously if they...
Ii just feels like people want me to be gay. It makes me easier to digest for them. But I just don't think I am. I'm just not attracted to guys in...
Thank you for saying that - that makes me feel better.
I don’t like the uncertainty. I don’t like that I’ve opened my mind to the possibility of being gay, and now I can’t seem to either get an answer...
Yes - a lot of what you've said rings true for me as well. It's nice to hear from someone going through something similar. Honestly, I wish...
For those of you who had trouble accepting their same sex attractions, but ultimately did...what was the straw that broke the camel's back? And...
For those of you who discovered/accepted your same-sex attractions later in life, were there memories that you repressed that, once you accepted...
Feelings can be difficult to categorise, and they can often be easier to access (and easier to act on) if you don’t try to analyse or categorise...
I have to say that the second one was with someone I had a strong friendship with already - but for whatever reason, it didn't translate at all...
I've heard a lot about people who fantasised or had sex with the same sex, but didn't develop romantic needs or desires until later on. Can those...
I'd be very interested to hear about what you did to change your orientation.
I really do wish I could experience what gay guys do. But it feels like I’m trying to force something that just won’t happen. I just don’t feel...
If that’s true, then I’m not looking forward to the depression stage!
How’s this for a controversial idea? Most men are attracted to women. Female sexuality, by its nature, is deeply consequential (ie they have...
It's interesting to hear people who self-identify as gay relate to what I'm posting. But when I try to self-apply the label "gay", it just doesn't...
