How’s this for a controversial idea? Most men are attracted to women. Female sexuality, by its nature, is deeply consequential (ie they have babies). Men feel the allure of women, are deeply attracted to their sexuality, but don’t want to suffer the consequences of their involvement, nor the highs and lows of the emotional connection it generates. Therefore they turn to men, who offer easy NSA sex. There is no emotional connection, no deep psychic fulfilment...but it’s an exciting outlet that actually promotes something that men don’t usually share with each other - vulnerability. Some may even choose to take the female role, just to see what it’s like and to pretend that a female is present in the act, increasing the excitement. The question I now pose to you all is this: how deeply and painfully in denial of my sexuality am I to be able to cook this up? Or is there even a grain of truth to any of this?