I get how you feel. There are a couple of moments from my college days that still scream of "What Ifs". If you're having thoughts about it and...
I see we are just going to differ on things, and it sounds like these differences are stemming from our different life experiences and who we...
Nobody said disclosing to a spouse is easy. You are right there are many things that become difficult once you open Pandora's box. But...
I smoke week pretty regularly. It's something I only started doing the past 2-3 years. It helps me relax in the evening after a crazy day at...
Hey Locker220, Welcome to EC. You've found a nice safe place to share your feelings, get information and advice and yes, vent. You'll find...
Hang in there, Man. We all have bad days, but remember good ones are out there too. Take a deep breath, and remember there are others out here who...
P.S. Here's the other blog I found the other day: Laughing, Loving, and Living With Pride
(I'm adding this after writing everything below... You haven't identified yourself as gay or bi, and my writing was in a tone as if you had, so...
Hey Canesyes, You're taking the first steps in becoming a truer and more authentic person. It's a scary road, but I applaud you for taking the...
Very nice! How wonderful that you've come to accept who you are and start this next big journey in your life. Your post is inspiring as well.
Fuck, what a shitty feeling! Hope it felt better to pour it all out to us. Couple of thoughts: Don't trash all your stuff. It must have come as...
OK, you win! Would like to see how that one would be explained.
Good for you! I have to say, as much as you beat yourself up, I feel like you are taking actions to try and figure things out.
HA HA HA HA. Now all I need is an 8-year-old long lost cousin named Oliver to show up at my door.
I saw this on Facebook today and laughed out loud. Thought it was something a lot of us on this forum could relate to. "Do you ever feel like...
Maybe this has been said elsewhere, but I just had a thought.... What if you forget the whole notion that you're gay... if having sex with a guy...
DAY ONE HUNDRED FIFTY-ONE NOTE: So my plan was to do a little update of my life on the six-month anniversary of coming out to my wife. Nothing...
Dude! This is so amazing to hear! I'm so happy for you... and I admit a little jealous. How wonderful that you finally got to explore this...
Ugh.. sorry it was one of those days for you, Srbimom... they won't all be like that. Your wife just needs some time to accept her new reality as...
Hey Stewie, Welcome to EC. You took a great step in the right direction. It's so scary making yourself vulnerable and opening up to the one...