So, once again I find myself typing about something I have no business commenting on. I was reading an article a few says ago about marital...
All I have to offer is that sexuality is a really sticky thing to figure out. (Unintentional pun.) I'm straight but am just now even beginning to...
Yeah, it sucks that people get hurt. But I'm not gay and I've had to make decisions based on who I am and what I need that "hurt" the ones I...
ok, so I'm totally not the girl to ask on this one because I'm straight, married, and haven't been in the dating scene of any sort for many years....
So, I know it's weird, but when I told my husband that I wanted a divorce because our marriage wasn't working it was sort of like my version of...
Hey! Good work writing a letter that has so many hard things to say. You know your wife and none of us do. So, you know best and you should...
It's not your fault you got raped. I'm sorry they did that to you. I think working through your assault experience may lead you to lots of...
Hi Craig, I'm an ex wife of a potentially gay husband. We didn't have much sex but a lot of love. We have a daughter. If you handle the...
YES! That's huge Zoe. Envisioning the life you want will lead to the right answers. I believe that for all of us. I was willing to risk...
Yay! I fell deeply in love 2 years ago while leaving my then husband and I'm still as in love as then. Those "early days" feelings can hang...
I know it's not easy. It sounds like you're pretty sure that your feelings for this guy make you happy, and your relationship w your wife is not...
Small things: I was almost always the initiator of sex. Gay men were frequently and openly attracted to him. When gay men flirted he seemed...
Both to GW and Zoe: Yep. I struggled for a few years with the lack of sex problem and would feel like I was bad for wanting better sex. I...
Hi there, You might've read my post about my ex-husband and how I suspect he's gay but I don't really know. I understand how it feels kind of...
I agree w BiAnnika in that most people are never honest with themselves much less their judgmental families and I think the bravest thing you can...
Filip, that makes a lot of sense. Thank you. Especially the part about how admitting to being gay after marriage and a child might seem to say...
Hello everyone. I just found EC and am inspired to explore what some things might mean in my life. I'm a straight female and recently divorced a...
