Wow, I just wrote the most significant post yesterday and not one reply or measure of interest. I am done here, this site is not for me, and I am...
So the plan was to go to the lesbian meetup. I felt kind of bad this morning, not sure why, and did yoga, but still felt bad. I went to the...
You are welcome. And today is my get together with the lesbian meetup. First lesbian meetup in about a year. Compared to my participation in...
Rana, The way to stop a crush is to stop giving it attention. From everything you have wrote about this crush, you are ambivalent, you do not...
Luke, I think you are confused with good reason. I am sorry you are experiencing this. She told you she was bi at the beginning of the...
Sonata, I never thought of this in this way, how her crossing the boundary of friendship is damaging to the friendship. But it really is. And,...
Zumbaqueen Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, a thousand times. This is what I talked about in another post yesterday, more or less. This is the...
I am looking forward to meeting potential friends at a lesbian meetup this weekend. And, I think online dating is next. This is such an...
I just finished watching a season of Gypsy on Netflix. This is a story of a well off, married woman who is a therapist, even has a transgender...
Dreamingfreely, it just seems that you are putting out more gay/bi/lesbian energy and various people are picking up on it in different ways. Do...
I think you need to recognize that this internalized homophobia is a collection of thoughts about yourself that you have taken in from others, our...
This was the way it was with my former boss (it was a real informal small business). She never discouraged flirty comments and she kept it alive...
I started a thread in the Older thread about easing into this with coworkers. For me, I kind like to nibble at the edges to get an idea of where...
Ha, ha, today a short lunch conversation turned to diversity in people, how open minded or liberal people's relatives are, and how one of my...
Yes, thanks, my immediate colleagues are open individuals, but at this point in time, I really am not overly concerned with what people think. I...
It was just simply so refreshing to make a comment among some of my coworkers that alluded to the fact that I am lesbian. I got a few interesting...
Not sure if this answers your question, but there is a website called gaychurch.org that lists over 8,000 gay and gay affirming churches, many...
This sounds great! I hope you also use this time to get out in the lesbian community, in addition to thinking things through. Guess I am also...
Hi Beagle, I actually have a download of this from Kindle. Yes, it is an older book, but most everything still applies to now. If you are...
I just wanted to update on my progress to being more out and being more myself. My road map for the coming out process continues to be a very...
