Perhaps it would be helpful to explore the issue from a different angle. Instead of analysing your sexual experiences, you could try focusing on...
It's a tricky one. When I first came out (at the age of 55), I felt (and still sometimes feel) a desire to go absolutely mad, and live my life the...
Hello again, baristajedi, We came out around the same time, and I don't come here a great deal these days either. When I read your post, I...
Yes, most definitely. The difference was unbelievable!
I found that I could climax regularly with my husband, as he was very considerate and prepared to put in the time it takes for me to come....
Hi Baristajedi, I'm so glad you have reached a good place to be. You and I came out round about the same time, and I can relate to so much of...
Hi baristajedi, I don't come on here very often, but I seem to remember we joined about the same time. I'm glad you and your daughter are in a...
It took a year for me to feel comfortable enough to tell my therapist I was gay, and it was from that point on that progress really started to be...
We have just started talking about it over the last few days. Up until now, she has been angry whenever I have suggested it as a possibility,...
It was exactly the same for me. When I met my first and only female partner almost two years ago (we are both in our late fifties) we were ripping...
As Shorthaul said, it doesn't cause you to gag, so I therefore found it lot easier. Plus I felt more in control, due to no pushing inside from my...
It's not good. If it wasn't for our son, my ex-husband would be happier writing me out of his life completely and pretending I didn't exist....
Likewise!
This sounds exactly like me! I had a series of friends who were more important to me than my husband emotionally, and I was devastated when each...
I think there are two questions that need to be answered. Firstly, can I put up with unfulfilling sex or no sex for the rest of my life, and if...
I can totally relate to this. I had so many people telling me that me and my husband were the perfect couple, we never argued. However it took me...
" I'll always remember something my therapist said to me: You can have it all. You just need to realise that you are allowed it!"
I haven't posted here in quite a while, but me and my girlfriend are having a similar problem. We are both in our 50s, and both been married....
Based on my own experience, I've usually found that understanding comes later. In the moment, the most valuable thing, in fact often the only...
