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Who made you question your sexuality?

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  1. confusedbubble

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    Shania Twain.... Wow just wow
     
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    It was my childhood friend.
    I have a foot fetish and have always loved feet.

    I thought to myself for a lot of years: I'm straight I just love man feet so what.
    But then when I started thinking of being in a relationship with a man, especially my friend, i really started questioning myself.
     
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    no one really made me question it..i just noticed i didn't feel the same way about guys as my friends did so i started wondering if i was demisexual or just asexual...eventually figured out i was gay. Buuut right now I have celeb crushes on Tegan and Sara lol
     
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    My friend. One day I just noticed how good her butt looked and I was stressing about it for like 2 weeks. Then sometimes she'd hug me and I'd get butterflies in my stomach and that freaked me out too back then (it was in 8th grade.) :slight_smile:
     
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    Tegan and Sara are awesome. My favorite duo!
    Tho I'm not in love with them since I'm a guy. xD They are still cool gals. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    My friend was making a big deal over the female wrestler Paige saying how sexy she was and I was thinking "wait, what?" Then I thought oh am I gay? But I didn't find guys sex either.
     
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    I knew I wasn't straight since as young as I first fell for someone..

    I've had sexual attraction to women, but never love. Therefore, my first "crush" was the first person of the same gender I had interest in.
     
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    I fell in love with my best friend at the time when I was 12.
    I remember watching those t.a.t.u girls on tv, kissing each other, and then the thought struck me: I wanted to do those things to my friend.
    She rejected me and told the whole school, but she later set me up with a female friend of hers, and then I knew for sure.
    It felt so natural to kiss her and hold her hand and cuddle with her, I imagined it must be how girls usually felt about boys.
     
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    The first time I saw Willow and Tara together on Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Something about it just... clicked within me, and now I've never looked back about it.
     
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    It was my "Big Sister" and she had told my that she was Homosexual. I knew what that was and I thought I had started to gain feelings for her. Also my other friend, who was Bisexual. I started gaining feelings for her and it was weird.
     
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    I just sort of always knew, since my whole life all my crushes have been on girls. Though I probably actually started realizing it after watching Harry Potter when I was 10, and noticing Emma Watson. :3 Also that year, there was a girl in my school who I became a little obsessed with, and my mom actually asked me if I had a crush on her. (I lied and said no. >.<)
     
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    For a long time I kept my feelings for girls buried deep inside, despite finding myself attracted to them in various occasions and to an embarrassing extent.
    Then in 2013 I started "crushing" really hard on a guy. It was the first time something like that happened to me. Still, what I felt was very platonic because I didn't want anything to come out of it, the mere thought of being in an actual relationship with him made me want to puke. I think I cherished some kind of immaterial connection I thought we had; like it was more than a friendship, but not even close to a romantic relationship.
    In the end we stopped talking to each other, which I sometimes regret, but it gave me the opportunity to think everything through. It bothered me that I wasn't capable to imagine myself in a relationship with a guy, even though it was someone I was very fond of. I labelled myself as bisexual then, but now I don't know I want to be with any man at all.
     
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    When I came out to my mother, she had talked me into questioning my sexuality. Which, of course I was mad at her for.
     
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    I always believed I was gay but one day it simply hit me: what if I am actually straight?

    Yeah, I have always known I was different. I found the "gay/homo" label around.. 10 y.o. (?)
     
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    My girlfriend. We'd known each other for years beforehand but for the few months before we started dating, we talked for hours, every night. I developed feelings for her and was jealous when she told me she had a crush on a girl but she didn't know if she was straight (it was me, I was jealous of myself) but I didn't really think of it that way. Finally, as I continued to be oblivious, she confessed feelings for me and I realized.

    Ironically, several months into our relationship, it hit me that she wasn't my first female crush. There was a girl in my high school that I shared a lot of classes with. I looked up to her and always wanted to hang out with her and got so nervous every time she talked to me. At the time, I thought I just really wanted to be her best friend.
     
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    Wow, just realized I posted on this and I was the one who started it. Smart me:slight_smile:
     
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    For me it was really me who made myself question my sexuality due to my thoughts about guys moving to sex, but one random guy I befriended on Facebook actually got me thinking about whether I was gay or not. I answered to him that I was asexual, but then I looked back and realized I did feel sexual attraction to the same sex. I just needed an outside opinion to prove it to me because I was a little bit confused about all gay men supposedly being femme like the stereotype, but I came on this site and asked the questions that I needed to and I'm nearing a pretty impressive goal, I've been out for almost a year.
     
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    Attraction to my best female friend.
     
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    Girls' amazing cuteness!!! ^.^♥♥

    Heh, well, more accurately, it was because there were rumors going around at school that I was gay, and I had never thought about it before, but once I did, I realized that dating a girl sounded like a pretty nice idea. :slight_smile:

    I started to question it more seriously and think about it more often once I started reading lesbian romance stories online.
     
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    I was already questioning when I was 11 :wink: But not because of a girl.. The first girl (woman I should say) to ever make me question my sexuality was a cute Irish backpacker who came to work at my uncles pub when I was 13. Despite our age difference I literally fell for her.. Not as hard as I fell for the next backpacker though! But I really wanted this girl in my bed :lol: I like them older it seems. She was still only in her 30's though :wink:

    Then there was a cute Canadian backpacker who came to work at my uncles pub when I was 15. She also was like 10 years older then me.. But God did I fall for her! I would leave the room and almost immediately think and say ''oh my god she's SO cute!'' She somehow knew I liked her but it was never a serious issue. Thank god. But yeah I was very love struck! xx

    That's my story anyway! Sorry it's a little long! xx