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Who made you question your sexuality?

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  1. starlights

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    I did too, but it was more like a cycle of trying to ignore/deny/suppress it, then hormones raging, then guilt, then back to denying/suppressing. Not fun.

    My first real female crush was a Japanes exchange student who played intramurals. She wore these bright red sneakers, she had short-ish hair, and she was an amazing athlete...I never even spoke to her, just kind of watched her do her thing. And it wasn't a sexual crush so I could feel "safe" admitting it to myself that I was crushing on her.
     
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    This, exactly
     
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    A girl I liked for two or three years in secondary/high school. Man that was intense, and it blew any feelings I had for any guy at the time out of the water because my feelings for her were so strong compared to anything else.

    And also yeah, celebrities for sure.
     
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    Beautiful girls. In particular, Cay Rivvers from the movie Desert Hearts. Best movie ever. :slight_smile:
     
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    Female best friend when 15 I guess
     
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    Well, it was a pattern of guys throughout the years. I always had crushes but always chalked it up to being a phase. Once I realized that it was more than just curiosity, it was more getting the guts to come out.
     
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    This guy called Caleb.
     
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    I only allowed myself to question my sexuality in the beginning of this year. I had this platonic crush on a guy and when I confessed I felt weird, because I never wanted to actually have a relationship with him; when I saw him I'd be grossed out and ashamed, which is why we only talked via text messaging and when we met I'd try not to make any eye contact. But I remember struggling back in 2011 as well - I was upset that I could find much more attractive girls than boys in my school. I even forced myself to find a boyfriend, even though I didn't know what could I possibly do with one.
     
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    A group of 7th graders wearing tight pants I saw near the start of 8th grade. Yes, I'm that creep who checks out younger girls' butts and legs. :icon_redf
     
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    I had a dream that involved kissing a boy when I was 11 - that gave me a hint. I still know that person actually.

    Oh, and when I was 13, someone shouted that they had no pants on, and I immediately turned around to look.. that was embarrassing. Doh. I was already aware by that point though, albeit in denial.
     
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    Geri Halliwell way back when Spice Girls was on the top....(!)
     
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    When I was 13 or 14 years old, a close friend of mine did a bit of hip hop with some friends. While she was dancing, she looked at me and winked. Then... you get how I felt :icon_redf. Then I started having horribly inappropriate thoughts about her ever since.
     
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    I would so fuck that disney princess. Okay I know that was a bit inappropriate.. but I can't help it! Elsa is so fucking sexy! ♥

    Ah for me personally.. it was my 4th grade teacher. She had a nice body and some sexy green eyes AND to top it all off she sometimes wore glasses! Damn sexy :wink:

    There is a bunch of other things that made me question it.. Lesbian porn being one for sure. I felt electricity run straight through me when I watched my first girl-girl video. And cute lesbian romance movies just topped it off ♥


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    Omg i'm also a creeper on younger girls.. any younger then 16 and it's pushing it though :eek: I also feel like a sexual predator still because they are still underage! So I do my best to check out all the older girls :wink: I have no problem with that though. Older women= 10 times more experience plus 10x the sexy. :eusa_droo
     
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    I can't really say . . . just a combination of not being interested in girls and having general sexual attraction to other boys.
     
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    I haven't ever actually told this story before ;_;

    I'm a lil ashamed of it...

    Anyways I was an indoctrinated youth so naturally homosexuality was gross and wrong. I was I think 14 at the time and I got in this big internet argument with someone over how being gay was gross and I ended up revealing certain things about myself and I dunno they just kinda turned everything around and shined a light on me that I'd been hiding from and after that I had to accept who I really was.
     
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    Alright. I realize that I gave my smart-assed answer, but never gave a "real" answer to this. In fact, in this case the smart-assed answer *is* the real answer. I did not "question" my sexuality because of any particular person. Growing up, I accepted the defaults...assumed I was straight without thinking about it for even the tiniest moment.

    Most of my big epiphanies in life, however, come from inside rather than from outside. And one day, in the absence of any concrete thoughts about any specific person, I realized that I actually find both men and women sexy, that I would enjoy sex with any person I loved, and that I felt like could fall in love with either a man or a woman. And I never did question that realization.

    The flip answer in my original post sprang more from my knee-jerk response to the notion of "questioning your sexuality"...I have had many people question my sexuality, and it always pisses me off, like they think they have more/better insight into it than I do. So I gave an answer that both addressed this, *and* was accurate.
     
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    ChloeKiss, yes Elsa is probably the most gorgeous Disney girl I've ever seen! The part in "Let It Go" when her dress changes and then she walks forward, so sexy!
     
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    Not necessarily a specific person, but just females in general. I noticed my interest for the female body started to grow and I caught myself staring several times at boobs.
     
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    Well saw a gay couple at at baseball game and thought they were cute and started thinking I might be gay therefore going on a long interesting journey of discovery and acceptance.
     
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    Yes omg :wink: so sexy for sure. And when she lets her hair down! I don't care if she is a cartoon I got so turned on at that part! Also when she hurts Anna in the castle then backs away like shes some kind of monster. So damn cute but so sad!