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Who made you question your sexuality?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by bubbles123, May 14, 2015.

  1. bubbles123

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    If there was a certain person that made you suddenly think "wait they're super hot ahh could I be gay?" Was it a celebrity or a friend or just some random person?:slight_smile:

    For me, it was two people: Elsa in Frozen and my friend when she wore some pants that made her butt look really good.
     
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    Two events. My mom died. She held the key to my sole. About 9 months after her death, two gay guys who were hugging and holding each other affectionately. That was it. I said, hey there's nothing wrong with that.
     
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    I developed a strong crush on a male member of another forum around three years ago while in a straight relationship. Things haven't quite been the same since...
     
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    Summer camp and a Swedish exchange student. Lol, I knew something was up then
     
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    One of my fifth grade teachers... Also this other kid
     
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    Whenever I started noticing guys in the locker room. It really hit then.

    Then whenever I had my first relationship with a guy and realized how my romantic preference was for men.
     
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    a girl in my english class freshman year of high school. for some reason I never thought I was gay though lol until I thought about it a few years later and was like....oh
     
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    I've always checked out guys more than girls (I had next to no interest in girls) but it was an attraction to my best friend that really made me think wow I'm gay
     
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    Nobody has ever really succeeded in getting me to question my sexuality. I figured out that I was bisexual at 16...people have *challenged* this, and I have responded to those challenges. But I've never questioned what I feel in my heart (and loins *smile*).
     
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    I went into denial. So I never really acknowledged it.

    It wasn't really one person. Just hot guys in general.
     
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    Just hot guys in general; no one specific person really made me begin questioning rather I was bisexual or not.
     
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    I felt a bond with a much older guy a long time ago.
    He was about my age currently, and I was maybe eight at the time.
    It wasn't a serious-sexual attraction, but rather the impression of how he held and cuddled me.
    He was gentle and softly spoken.
    I knew I fell in love.
    It's a shame he moved on in life, I doubt he even remembers me.
    But I will always remember his name.
     
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    I was really bad at this in 7th grade, I'm surprised the whole school didn't know. But it still took forever for me to admit it to myself.
     
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    Sarah Michelle Gellar...
     
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    No one in particular made me question my sexuality, but I started thinking about it when I got asked out by a girl when I was fourteen. Too bad I wasn't remotely attracted to her. If I was I'd probably have experience with girls.
     
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    Poison Ivy :wink:

    Haha, no, but seriously, I started noticing girls in the same way I'd notice guys. People would tell me I was a lesbian, and at first, I didn't know what that meant. Then I found out and I realised, 'hey, I guess I do like girls, but I like boys too..?'
    If I were to try and guess, I'd say it was a girl who I will call 'Paige' in my secondary school
     
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    There was this group of boys back at my secondary school. They were quite good-looking, but they were also scary, which made them even more attractive :s I wished I was one of them.
     
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    A boy did that if you'll believe it
     
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    It's hard to say who, little crushes on guy friends as a teenager. Locker room as well.
     
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    While not quetioning as I know I like to "play" with boys from early age I always thought it will pass.

    When I fell hard for my brother's friend at age of 15 I had to admit those feeling are part of me and who I am. Just accepted it and move along.