When'd you lose it? (Virginity)

me nothing yet im just waiting for the right woman and its driving me crazy

 

Oral with guys (both ways) and hands etc when I was 11 at an all boys boarding school.

Anal with a guy (top) when I was about 27 with my first boyfriend.

Anal with a guy (bottom) never, tried it a couple of times with my ex but it was too painful and it is not something that appeals anyway.

I've never had sex with a girl, had a couple of attempts when I was hiding in my closet in my early 20s but couldn't get aroused (I blamed alcohol and nerves)...

 

I am, whay i like to call a super virgin. never done anything with anyone ever, not even a date (although some would argue otherwise lol).

I am the cheesiest of romantics and will wait for someone special. Its my body and while not perfect i respect it the best i can and hope to keep it that way.

While i would like a love life, Im in no rush to do somthing stupid and run into things blindly.

 

...apparently I should check and see if I've posted in threads already before posting in them. Definitely already posted on the first page of this thread lol. I was going back through and looking at everyone's post and got to mine, and I was thinking "gee that's funny, they were the same age as me for both guys and girls." and then I looked at the signature and realized it was me lol

 

neither for anybody.

 

16 with a girl.

 

17, I should've waited for the right person though, it was a bit rushed and just felt awkward lol

 

When I was 18 with my current boyfriend.

 

15 with my ex-girlfriend. I was nearly 16 though =]

 

still a virgin, 15.

 

27, 3 months ago with my current boyfriend. Just felt ready and he was the right one

 

I'm fourteen and a virgin - Which is good, I'd like to think. c: I have gone pretty far with a girl though, farther than I wish I did sometimes - I'd like to find the right person before I actually have sex though.

Question though - What's up with all the 'with a guy' and 'with a girl' virginity? I thought... You only had one virginity? c;

 

I messed around with a couple guys when I was 13, but I wouldn't exactly classify it as losing my virginity. Giving a bj was the closest I've come.

A date is the only thing I've ever "done with a girl". XD

 

Does cyber sex count? if so, 21.

 

To a girl, 6/19/07 (it was pretty terrible)

To a boy, about 3 months later (it was pretty amazing =P)

 

21, some random guy from a house party. I'd fooled around prior to that, but nothing serious. I regret that it was somebody random, but at the same time I don't consider virginity to be that big of a deal.

Slept with a few more guys at uni before I decided they don't really float my boat. Also made out with a few women at this point and found at that they did.

 

i've just recently come to turns with being gay and i was really socially arkward before then so i have to say that... i've never really done anything sexual with anyone. I kissed a few guys was i was young and one guys and i was young too but i don't really count them.

 

I want to give you a hug so bad (*hug*) When I was 15, and older man of about 20 took advantage of the fact that I had poor self esteem. I thought guys would only want me if I had sexual experience, so despite the lack of attraction toward him sexually, and in the aspect of personality, I let him have my first sexual experience. It was only oral, but felt horrible about myself for weeks. This doesn't begin to compare with what you went through, but I feel I can relate to a point. One hug wasn't enough (*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)

 

When I was 16 I fooled around with my boyfriend at the time... we did everything there is to be done EXCEPT go all the way... Of a 2.5 year relationship, I was never ready/into it and never realized why, until, well... :] He was my first and last boyfriend.

Then when I fell in love with a girl, I was totally into it and ready in no time... and went way beyond what I could willingly do with my ex-boyfriend. So really, I'd say I lost mine at 19, with a female.

 

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