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When'd you lose it? (Virginity)

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Lucas16, Jul 9, 2011.

  1. QuestionMark

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    haven't lost it yet...sort of.

    @fidledeedee: seriously sorry :icon_sad: glad you're okay now, you're a very forgiving person :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank-you. (*hug*) I am glad for EC as it has helped me answer lingering questions about the abuse and help me think through it in a way I have not before so that I can be sure I have forgiven my brother. He is always at university now, so I often will not see him for the best part of a year.
     
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    I'm 19 and haven't lost it yet, but probably will soon (soon being defined as in a few months or so).
     
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    Well i don't know what this makes me though. When i was 12 years old i was raped by two big old guys (black) in a park. Till this day i havn't told my parents and would never. This though brought me to a situation where me and a riend tried to have sex in her mom's backyard a few months later but no matter what i did i couldn't get it up so we gave up and we never talked about it.

    I gave a BJ when i was around 22 and had sex when i turned 29 (to the guy i married lol)
     
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    I lost it at 18 to my current boyfriend. (I'm 19 now)
     
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    Not yet, but I'm only 16 and have a lifetime to screw around :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Haha, awesome attitude.
     
  8. Pepsi

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    I'm 19 Been kissed once and haven't done anything else I'd say Im sure I'll lose it soon but I've been thinking that way since I was younger so it will happen when it happens (if it ever does lol) I just hope I'm not a virgin when I'm in my late 20s although I wouldn't be surprised
     
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    You don't have to worry, things will happen when they are meant to happen, i mean i was a virgin until i turned 29... i had nightmares about being also a 40 year old virgin LOL

    My first BJ though happened around 25

    hope it makes you feel better
     
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    *sigh* iv yet to lose it.
     
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    I lost my virginity when I was 26 to my now girlfriend of 2 years.
     
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  13. XSethX

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    I lost my virginity when I was 12 but it was terrible, we didn't know what the hell we were doing and it was just awkward! I've tried to block that time out though, it was that terrible!
    I consider the first time I slept with my first boyfriend when I was 15 the time I really lost it!
     
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    Fuck I'm The Youngest One, I Lost It Whe I Was 11 To My Best Friend : P I've Never Fucked A Guy
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    With a girl, 13...jeez that's so young! It was epic though, lol.

    With a boy, 16...not quite as epic but have more than made up for it since, lol.
     
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    17, never done anything sexual or romantic ever with anyone of either gender. No kissing, and no one has ever even admitted any attraction to me.
     
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    Lost it to my high school sweetheart when I was 16 and he was 15 ^_^
     
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    With a girl, when I was about 11. With a guy it's a bit more complicated but I count my first time as when I was 14.
     
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    to a guy I was 14 (i'm still 14) all we did was Bj and Hj no kissing. nothing else. it was complicated I want to try and do something else but theres not gay/bi guys around here :frowning2: