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When'd you lose it? (Virginity)

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Lucas16, Jul 9, 2011.

  1. Lucas16

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    Well, i was bored and wanted to make a thread coexisting with the: "Are you a virgin?" thread as well, but this just asks when have you lost it, IF AT ALL. If not, say how old you are, and obviously that you haven't. :slight_smile:

    Me: 16, and have not.
     
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    With a women- 16
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    So im assuming you finally found you were gay after 16? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    there was a really awkward period of about 6 years where I didnt know what was going on.... I could actually say 8 years due to the fact that Im only recently comfortable with everything.
     
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    Oh wow.. that's crazy, but at least you have it figured out. :slight_smile:
     
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    I was sexually abused by my older brother when I was six; he did not penetrate me but used his mouth, hands and penis on/with me. Argh, I don't know how to phrase any of this. I call myself a virgin as I have never intentionally had sex.
     
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    I'm 17 and have done everything except going all the way with a boy. I've only kissed a girl.
     
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    That is very bad.. and how old was he? Why was it allowed? and did he ever get busted for doing it? That is disturbing... wow.

    ---------- Post added 9th Jul 2011 at 01:36 PM ----------

    Haha i'm sorta on that side too, but less on both parts.. never even touched a girl here, LOL. (in that way.. or kissing)
     
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    Lucas: my brother was 13, my parents never knew, and I am fine now. I don't want to tell anyone in real life as he might be prosecuted, and I have forgiven him and do not think he will do it to other girls/boys (he involved my other brother, aged 9, once or twice). I do wonder if what he did has contributed to me preferring girls to boys sexually, and I am a little angry (not the right word, but do not know what is) wiht him as it might have scarred me emotionally. As it is, the only time I have seriously considered running away was last year due to a variety of things like my parent's divorce but not anything to do with the abuse, or even my sexuality.

    But let's not get off-topic.
     
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    I was 20 the first time I had sex with a man.

    Still haven't slept with a woman.

    @Fiddle: I'm sorry you had to go through that. (*hug*)
     
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    I haven't had sex with anyone and am unlikely to have that experience for a while yet.

    That being said, I have kissed a guy and a girl, but this was when I was twelve and inexperienced, so I'm not sure if they really count. I clearly enjoyed the guy kiss more.:grin:
     
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    22 but if I had thought that meant men were attracted to me I was soon proven mistaken. My role has been that of the very ugly straight women i.e. a stand-in when someone is desperate. I have never been with a woman.
     
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    lost oral virginity for both at 15
    never done anything else
     
  14. With a girl: 14
    With a guy: 15 or 17 depending on how you count virginity
     
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    At sixteen ... around nine months ago.
     
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    I guess I will say 21. It was actually just on friday night. We did everything except for actual sex and it's weird but we also never kissed. haha I know some people only consider penetration as sex and not being a virgin anymore but I think that any sexual contact with emotions involved allows for one to not consider themselves a virgin. With that said it was amazing!! :slight_smile:
     
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    With a guy, I haven't done anything yet.

    With a girl, does oral sex count? If so, I was 20.
     
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    I'm 17 I've kissed several girls never kissed a guy but I really want to and I'm a virgin
     
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    Girl: furthest I went was a b/j, and that was at 16.
    Guy: Well it's complicated. My first real penetration was from my step-brother, I let him but I was 10, him 16 at the time, so I didn't know what he was doing was wrong. He didn't really go in at all really, like it hurt so much and was using soap as lube so yeah >_> I don't blame him...he was possibly curious, and I mean I think everyone knew I was/would figure out I was gay from day one. My first b/j was from a friend who still claims to be straight despite him always giving me one but not the other way around :S. And first real anal was at 17 with a black guy who lied about his age, said he was 27, turns out he was like 40 (found out from a friend who was oddly dating him at the time). He tricked me (at 17 i was really immature, mindset almost of a 14 yr old at times) and said when I got to university, guys would use me and toss me aside if I had my virginity so he took it...worst mistake ever, I wish I hadn't lost it to him...but I mean I'm still healthy I just hate that I gave that to him....so yeah....really interesting experiences with guys I've had >_<