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How to talk to this person you're attracted to.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Anon1201, Sep 23, 2017.

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  1. silverhalo

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    Oh yes absolutely, it's a very difficult balance.
     
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    Wasn't sure how to respond on my page to your Happy Thanksgiving lol. Thank you and Happy belated Thanksgiving. How is everything going?
     
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    Yeah good thanks. If you click the little blue bit underneath the message which says show conversation it will bring up the conversation between us and you can reply or alternatively if you go to my profile you can write on my wall. Not that I'm saying you have to reply now but for future reference or for future messages :slight_smile:
     
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    You don't have PM do you? lol Sounds weird to ask but like to talk about things privately lol.
     
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    I do because I'm a full member but I can't pm you as you are a regular member. You can on the staff though so if there is something you really need to discuss they can help you.
     
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    Oh I see, that kind of sucks cause I feel fine sharing like my situation with you lol, but I understand lol.
     
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    Yeah I'm sorry. The only other alternative is to post it anonymously in that section. It would still be out there for people to see but they wouldn't know who wrote it.
     
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    It’s alright! How are things going? :slight_smile:
     
    #148 Anon1201, Dec 2, 2017
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    Good thanks. You ok?
     
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    Yea I’m doing good. I got a job offer so recently so probably will be leaving for it in a few weeks. I talk to the girl I think is cute here and there but nothing more lol.
     
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    Oh congratulations. Who knows what girls might be at the new place haha
     
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    Are you doing ok? Notice your mood is ‘grumpy’ so wanted to know if you wanted to talk. Yea there probably will be new girls but now the one I was crushing on wants to hangout more. I kind of just played it off cause I don’t know what she is trying to do but whatever.
     
    #152 Anon1201, Dec 5, 2017
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    Well why don't you take the opportunity to hang out. Maybe she realised that this is her last chance if you are going to be leaving and so she is being brave.
    Yeah I'm ok was just being grumpy.
     
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    Yea we will probably hangout and I guess see where things go. I just don’t want to get caught up. Why are you grumpy if you want to talk about it.
     
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    Yeah no pressure just look at it like hanging with a friend.

    Erm I'm not sure there was a particular issue. It was more last week I think, it was one of those situations where lots of little things go wrong or annoy you and each one on its own is nothing really but collectively they can make you grumpy or at least me grumpy. I had a couple of annoying things happen at work and then I was trying to do something on the computer and it wasn't working haha, plus I hadn't slept so well and was tired.
     
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    Oh I know exactly what you mean. When annoying things pile up I get frustrated and I don’t want to be bothered personally. That is how I felt at my current job that I will be leaving for the new one in a week.

    There’s like a confusing situation with this girl I like so that’s why I’m thrown off.
     
    #156 Anon1201, Dec 6, 2017
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    What's the confusing situation?
     
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    I heard around from a few people at the market I work at that she isn’t single and I was like that’s fine because I am not waiting around. Lately we’ve been hanging out a lot more and I know when she brings this person up she’s been using the term friend so I was like why can’t she just say it lol.
     
    #158 Anon1201, Dec 9, 2017
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    Why can't she say boyfriend/girlfriend? Maybe she knows it might upset you a bit, not that it will but maybe she senses you like her. I don't know people can be very strange
     
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    Not sure and she doesn’t know I find her attractive. Yea people can be very strange lol. I think she might just be a bit secretive about her life. I haven’t been showing her I like her I just talk to her as a friend cause I was done overthinking.
     
    #160 Anon1201, Dec 9, 2017
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