Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Dodds, Mar 2, 2018.
I knew I read something about you going out How was it ?
I had a lovely 4 hours out wit the lady i like i haven't seen her for 4 weeks so was nervous at first but loved it didn't want it to end
How are you doing now?
And how's things between you and hubby ? Any thoughts on telling him ?
There pretty much the same no no plans to tell him yet
When are you back at work?
Do you think you will ?
Additional, I found some info that may make your mind up
So im currently on our family hol at a caravan ment to be a fun time for familys I'm not having fun
Oh dear, why not ?
Just not really feeling it got mind set of they would be a better family without me
Why do you think that ?
Becouse I'm a loser with nothing to offer any1
Why do you feel that? Do you feel like you've failed as a wife, because of your feelings for the other woman? (don't pick me up wrong, I'm not saying you have). Do you feel this way because of depression ? I think you need to go back to your therapist. Good luck
I agree with this poster, I think you need to go back to your GP and tell them how you feel. Everyone has something to offer but when you are low you can't see it.
How was your holiday in the end?
The holiday wasnt the best kids had fun but andy was off the whole week then on Thursday he tells me he thinks he got depression i asked him why what was making him down i asked if it was me he sad not .too be honest i wish ged said yes then at least i could have a reason to maybe take a break from each other
Maybe it's time to tell him things are over, strike while the irons hot.
Maybe you could suggest some couples counselling or something.
Yeah, should really think before posting :/ Have you decided on what to do ?