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Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by Dodds, Mar 2, 2018.

  1. CuriousG74

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    I knew I read something about you going out :slight_smile: How was it ?
     
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    I had a lovely 4 hours out wit the lady i like i haven't seen her for 4 weeks so was nervous at first but loved it didn't want it to end
     
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    How are you doing now?
     
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    And how's things between you and hubby ? Any thoughts on telling him ?
     
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    There pretty much the same no no plans to tell him yet
     
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    When are you back at work?
     
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    Do you think you will ?
     
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    So im currently on our family hol at a caravan ment to be a fun time for familys I'm not having fun
     
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    Oh dear, why not ?
     
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    Just not really feeling it got mind set of they would be a better family without me
     
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    Why do you think that ?
     
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    Becouse I'm a loser with nothing to offer any1
     
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    Why do you feel that? Do you feel like you've failed as a wife, because of your feelings for the other woman? (don't pick me up wrong, I'm not saying you have). Do you feel this way because of depression ? I think you need to go back to your therapist. Good luck
     
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    I agree with this poster, I think you need to go back to your GP and tell them how you feel. Everyone has something to offer but when you are low you can't see it.
     
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    How was your holiday in the end?
     
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    The holiday wasnt the best kids had fun but andy was off the whole week then on Thursday he tells me he thinks he got depression i asked him why what was making him down i asked if it was me he sad not .too be honest i wish ged said yes then at least i could have a reason to maybe take a break from each other
     
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    Maybe it's time to tell him things are over, strike while the irons hot.
     
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    Maybe you could suggest some couples counselling or something.
     
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    Yeah, should really think before posting :/ Have you decided on what to do ?