Hola, I just recently went through something like this, the problem with advice on this is it really depends on you and your spouse. Only a few...
Things like that do make it harder.... try not to get in your head about it tho. She came up to you, she put her arms around you. You were...
Hey Jrock, I don't what it's like to be on the gay spouse side but from the straight spouse side anything with marriage and kids is just that much...
Thank you, it's a work in progress
The way i look at it is a big spectrum from one side to the other. And there can be a decent amount of movement on that spectrum over time. I'm...
Good luck, these things can be tough. I have a book i no longer need i could send lol. I bought a book on poly relationships when I thought that's...
:) That's the spirit, and it's ok to respond to her being flirty, respond don't react. About the hubby part, you've had a gf in the past so would...
I read this as you're still open to something happening if she changes her mind.... I don't mean to "mind read" but i worry that if you are still...
Seems like she might be a bit of a player. If you can stay firmly on the friend side it shouldn't be a problem but it kinda feels like you might...
Yah I figured that about school. I don't think I'm too concerned with school, my wife would probably try to avoid it, but I think she's about...
My wife came out to me a little over a month ago. We're on good terms and we'll be moving into a larger apartment soon so we'll have our own...
I might not win but I'm not giving up just yet.
Eh... that's very optimistic of you heh. I do appreciate the feeling but I'm not looking into the future right now. As of right now, I have no...
Yah it's a very sobering thought. I am the only one that has my best interest at heart. So I need to be the one to take action.
At this point it really depends on the day. I'm still working on the acceptance that my marriage will one day be over.
Yah at the time it felt right to be involved. I thought we were still in a poly relationship, just without the sex. Now that it's clear to me that...
Hey long time no post on this thread, things have been all over the place. About this last post of mine, I realized it might of come off that way...
Hey, relationship baggage is real, and first love "I use this a little loosely" is the worse. I feel for you it's easy to forget how that first...
What @LostInDaydreams said, really understanding what's making you unhappy is the first thing. If you can find the core of what makes you unhappy...
I needed to come back to reread this, now that my wife and I are not looking to stay together long term we're going to need to have these...
