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Would you have sex before marriage?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by anthonythegamer, Jun 25, 2015.

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Sex before marriage?

  1. Sure. Gotta give my partner a test-drive!

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  2. No

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    3.7%
  3. I'm not interested in sex...

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  1. myheartincheck

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    I had managed to hold off until 22 but women are too sexy to resist... :icon_redf

    But I do think there's value in waiting. I told my boyfriend I wanted to but well I really suck at waiting... My sex drive is ridiculously high! :lol: However, we were both already fully committed to each other, in love, knew each other a while, and dating a few months.

    I don't care if people are into casual sex as I did have it as my first consensual experience with a girl... But I'm glad I took it more seriously the second time around. I guess I'm a bit old fashioned hm
     
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    I have and will continue to do so.
     
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    Yes I would, but not because I want to be sure to marry someone who is good in bed. I mean if I like someone and like to be close to him I enjoy having sex with him even if it's technically bad. It will still be emotionally good. And also, I don't even know if I will marry the person I'm in a relationship with? My current sex partner and I aren't even in a relationship at all, we are just friends with benefits so to speak (well, it's a kind of relationship but not a romantic, boyfriend-ish one I mean). Our sex was really technically bad in the start but we still enjoyed it VERY much, we had much fun failing and experimenting. I think to be that relaxed to someone and have an unpretentious approach to it is more important than having technically perfect sex. So I don't understand that "test drive"-thing.
     
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    I'd be a complete and total hypocrite if I said no. My partner and I are certainly not married as of this point and time. :wink:
     
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    No sex before marriage? Oops... :icon_wink :lol:
     
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    Haha well I'm not married :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Yup as long as your safe I don't see any reason not to
     
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    i have done it many times. wont mind doing it again
     
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    Already did.
     
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    I still have the v card, I'm not sure, what if they are not the right person and we end up not wanting to be in the marriage any more? so I'd say maybe.
     
  12. waitwhat

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    Absolutely. If I love someone, heck yeah. Plus, I get way too sexually frustrated and sometimes going it alone is not enough.
     
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    Of course, if I love someone enough and feel that way about them, they feel the same about me - and they give consent; then why not?
     
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    To late for that... :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    It would take a considerable amount of trust but yes, I would.
     
  16. Gandee

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    Well, this is insensitive of me...but I can't. just. stop. laughing :roflmao:
    And ofc I'd have sex before marriage! Lots and lots of it, boy won't know what hits him :grin:
    That is if I have a boyfriend :***:
    I don't want to marry my right hand and with my left as a concubine :frowning2:
     
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    Sure, it'd be fun!
     
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    I've already had sex and I will NEVER marry anyone so in answer to the question yes
     
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    Of course.
     
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    One could loose their balls if they have sex for more than four to five times a day. =O

    ---------- Post added 30th Jun 2015 at 09:44 PM ----------

    Its too late for me, he he. But despite my raging sex drive, I don't allow a lot of people in my bed...at all. My body and mind are at a constant battle with each other. D: