Would you have sex before marriage?

Already have

I don't have a very big sex drive, but I do crave sexual intimacy from time to time. And having had a number of less-than-satisfying sexual experiences, I definitely want to try it before I buy it, to ensure we are sexually compatible. And there has to be reciprocation. Fair is fair.

 

This.

 

I'm a christian and the bible forbids it and I want to honor Him so no

 

I know this feeling a bit too well. I don't really care for sex either, while it seems like everyone else is.

But then again, I don't see myself getting married, so any sex I'd have would be sex before marriage.

 

I already have. I think it would be a bad idea to treat sex as something more than it is; natural and not a corrupting act. It's very personal, but that doesn't mean that you should treat your virginity as an asset, a virtual moral dowry of sorts to bring into marriage. That way you're not able to explore yourself sexually with partners before settling down with them.

 

Sure. Gotta give my partner a test-drive! was my vote.

however, if I was with someone that didn't want that, which has yet to happen to me, I would have to take that seriously.

 

That boat sailed a long time ago.

 

Yes and I dont believe in marriage.

 

Yes.
Life is too short to stick to just one person.
Commitment like marriage is for when you've had your fun and you're ready to settle down

 

Any god that cares what I do behind closed doors with a loved one is a piece of shit, and I wouldn't obey that control freak. I feel really, really bad for people who worship a human made religion, and let possible great experiences expire, for nothing. It's horrible. I'm still not sure why people here are christian when the bible is against homosexuality, and the god of the old testament is one of the most brutal gods of all time. whatever, human belief is exactly what you would expect from evolved chimps imo.

anyways,

Have sex, alot of it, but be safe.

I've had limited encounters with men, but so far it's already been sex before dating, not the same for most the women I have dated in the past, that was sex after dating.

 

Would.. And have.. And would I do it differently? Probably not. (!)

 

I'd love to and I see it as a bonding experience rather than a test-drive I guess, although I'd have to convince my boyfriend once we were further along in the relationship- he wants to wait until after marriage XD

 

I don't see why not. I don't exactly need a test run with my partner but I see nothing holding me back from losing my virginity with a guy I care about.

 

Well... I my first sexual experience was at age 19...so I'd say too late for me! I don't regret having premarital sex. There have been times in my life when I didn't even like the concept of marriage. Now, I do. But still, I don't regret sex before marriage. It's nice to have experience I do regret having sex with some shitty partners. If I could have a re-do, I would only have meaningful sex.

 

Of course. I don't even know if I want to get married (leaning towards "no"). Marriage is kind of meaningless to me; I don't need it to be in a loving committed relationship. If I did get married it would be for the legal benefits. Considering my views on marriage, there's no reason to wait. I would been to be in a very serious relationship to have sex with someone though.

 

Been there, done that.

 

When I was 14 I thought I wouldn't, but I obviously changed my mind since then. Technically, I'm not even a virgin. And I want to find a partner whom I can trust and who knows what they're doing.

 

Yes. I would also have sex before relationship. Depends on the relationship too, but I could wait a while in a relationship also. I'd like to make sure I really liked them and they liked me. All in all, I would and I will have sex whenever it feels like the right thing to do.

 

I selected the first option but it's not about the test-drive. I think that sex definitely shouldn't be a dealbreaker for marriage.

I never wanted to get married and I seriously doubt I'll ever will. I enjoy my independence far too much. Hell! I'm shitty enough trying to maintain a normal romantic relationship.
I'm also a virgin and, in a way, I believe in the whole "waiting for marriage" thing, because if you're willing to marry someone, then that means that person is worthy of you giving yourself up to them.

I believe in waiting for the right person and for the right time, no matter how long that takes. Marriage has no impact in it, at least as I see it.

 

I'm already engaged, and we plan to not have sex. And I never have before. If I do it will be after her trying to convince me for a while,wich I think she wont do.