Would you have sex before marriage?

I don't wanna harsh anyones vibe, but I think it is actually very important to have sex before you get married.

It is an important part of a relationship and waiting until you're married to have sex holds it to this weird unhealthy ideal when it is, in all honesty, just a fun thing to do. Don't get me wrong sex is more than just a hobby, but it is not some grand be-all-end-all act which makes you a skanky skank for doing before you say your vows.

 

I am with Fallingdown7. But if my partner wants to save his virginity until marriage then I would respect it and wait

 

Yeah, but not for a "test drive." Rather because I place very little value on marriage, and absolutely none on Abrahamic superstitions that claim sexual activity prior to a marriage ceremony to be immoral.

 

lost count how meany times ive had sex with my partner alone then others before him I admit it am a slut

 

This sums it up for me.

 

100% yes.
Why would I wait? Besides, marriage for gay people only just got legalized.

 

My vote is not really valid. As I would only get married of my woman really really wanted to. I have no desire to marry.

I don't see any reason why you would wait. I think of you can resist the urge not to fuck your partner while in a relationship then you can't be that good together. ( provided your into sex of course)
I just could not wait. The longest I've waiting while in a relationship was 3 weeks:')

Also casual sex is fun too, so yea of course I didn't wait till marriage

 

Yes duh! i lost my virginity at 13

I don't believe in the whole "no sex until your married" thing i think that's silly. You don't see animals waiting until marriage to have sex. It's a natural thing that humans do go out there and live life instead of putting your self on hold. What if you never get married? then your going to regret it.