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Would you date Bi and Trans people?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SeaSalt, Sep 2, 2014.

  1. gravechild

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    The first time I consciously realized that trans folk were totally within the realm of possibilities, I thought of it for maybe five seconds, then shrugged and decided, "Why not?" After all, I've never been caught up in the whole genitalia fascination many gay and straight men seem to be, and thought they'd "get" my gender/sex incongruity. People think you're a freak if you don't like to engage in stereotypical sex acts, or feel uncomfortable with any part of your body.

    Sure, it's different, but is different always a bad thing? If anything, it has its own advantages.
     
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    I am physically attracted to both sex's, which is bitter sweet. I'm only romantically attracted to men though so I just say I'm gay.

    I would date a bi guy.

    I would most likely not state a MtF trans and definitely not FtM (can't do vajayjays).
     
  3. C06122014

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    I wouldn't mind dating a bisexual MALE because I'm gay, but I might also be open to also dating a trans male FtM because I have seen a couple attractive Trans men haha cx
     
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    Yes, to bi people because I am one, although I am preferably looking for a guy at this point. Yes, to trans men and women. Most of you trans folks on here are downright breathtaking. :slight_smile: Genderqueer people are really cool too as they would seem to be even more open-minded in the bedroom. So, yes to all of the above.
     
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    Yes, I would date a Bi guy and don't see why anyone wouldn't. And yes, I would also date a Trans man if they truly looked like a man, for that's what i'm attracted to.. Men.
     
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    I didn't mean that you were pointedly victimizing the T community with that statement. I was just pointing out that you were making it sound like such a loss for the T community for someone to feel that way when each and every one of us are in that position at some point. There isn't a single person on earth universally attractive and "datable" to everyone. Some people will or can be attracted to trans individuals, and some can't be. Most of the time it doesn't mean anything more than that.
     
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    I don't see why not.
     
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    Yes and yes. And to hell with OP status on trans. If I like you, I like you.
     
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    I actually heard from a lot of gay men that they aren't into trans women .
     
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    I would date bisexual people and I would date transgender people.
     
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    Can we please dismiss the whole "there is no biphobia" garbage now?


    Kthnxbai.
     
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    Yes I date anyone
     
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    Who said there is no biphobia ?:confused:
    clearly they have been living under a rock whoever said that .:dry:
     
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    Certainly.
     
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    Same here .
     
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    If my girlfriend ends up having a bigger penis than mines, I'm calling off the relationship to go back inside my shame cave.
     
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    Well it makes sense to me that gay men wouldn't be into women of any kind, no?
     
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    Yes, I most certainly would date either if that person was a wonderful person with a wonderful personality, I wouldn't discount based on them being bi or trans at all.. If you have a good happy and wonderful personality and are what I am looking for in a partner, then yes.. I would.
     
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    if the person did "it" for me, then no problem. no matter what orientation or where they are on the gender spectrum
     
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    Yeah that's why I didn't get the whole only gay men and bi men would have sex with trans women , lesbians have sex with and date trans women too and bi women as well . Because their women .