What was your first gay experience like?

I feel that coming out late in life during marriage I never got to or will ever get my 1st gay experence

 

I had a sexual experience with my then best friend when I was 12, "to practice for boys". We never did it again, but I fantasized about it for years afterwards.

 

Mine wasn’t until my late 30s. I met a guy online and went over to his place. It took several visits to his place for me to work up the nerve to go for it. Fortunately, he was extremely patient. I think the first time we had sex, I was mostly just thinking to myself, “I can’t believe I’m actually finally doing this” and didn’t allow myself to just enjoy the moment. The third time was actually when I realized how much more I enjoyed sex with a man than with a woman. Unfortunately, that was a few years ago and have yet to explore this further.

 

Hope yoy do get to eventually explore further

 

Same, it was only 1-2 years earlier and and continued

 

I masturbated at swimming pool with older guy when I was 14 years old.

 

My first lesbian experience (a kiss) was nearly 10 years with one of my best friends when we were around 16 ago who is also a lesbian and she is now my girlfriend! We started dating last year after years of ‘friendly’ affection and flirting and making out every time we got drunk either just us two or with friends which we passed off as joking around everyone knew before we did!

 

in middle school i realized I wasn't straight when I almost kissed a girl but I never told her that bc she left that school shortly after

 

That sucks

 

eh it's fine now I just wish I had gotten the chance.

 

Hope you someday you get to kiss a girl

 

hehe yeah me too

 

I had a boyfriend for a while... he was "straight" and ended it after a month or two, we never did anything and he got a girlfriend soon after we broke up. I blew his brother. twice.

 

At eleven, maybe it was twelve. First orgasm. I do remember like it was yesterday, I guess most people do. Lovely guy. We knew ech other for years. Only now, looking back at the things he said in the following years, do I realise what he felt for me. Sniff.

 

when I was 13 I was camping with a friend and her family. At night in the tent we made out. This continued off and on for the next three years until she moved away.

 

Boarding school from 8 to 18. I think I have had more boyfriends than girls I my life. Now, I'd like to have a boyfriend again. Sigh.

 

Haha, my first experience was strange. I was out with a guy, and he started dropping hints that he was gay. Later in the evening, we kissed, and it was sudden and awkward. But then, two days later, we stopped talking to each other. It was probably the strangest encounter of my life.

 

Seems it happens at camps . First time was also at camp. Suddenly "once at band camp" comes to mind..

 

Hmm D of E camping trip. I remember it well. So did my friend, years later!

 

Saw my "friend" again years later, he couldn't remember my name...blind