So how old were you when you lost your virginity?

I've said it before, but I haven't done anything sexual and I don't consider myself to be a virgin. I always say that I lost my virginity, or at least the IDEA of it the day I realized it was a sexist, outdated social construct.

 

I'm not in a rush either, I'd like to maybe be in a relationship (and to have hugged someone XD) before I leave school but there's a shortage of un-closeted lesbian/bi/pansexual girls in my school too. :/

 

19

 

I would quite like to have hugged someone before I leave school too xD Nearly everyone my age already has, except me I'm trying to go to a LGBT group where I might be able to meet somebody, but I'm not sure... I hope you are successful in finding someone! (*hug*)

 

16 with a girl
18 with a dude

 

I was 25, with a guy.

I've never really felt any sexual attraction to women and I had to get through the process of coming out, at least to myself, first before I could imagine having sex with anyone, otherwise it might have happened sooner.

I don't really feel bad about waiting though, since I got to explore physical intimacy together first with my boyfriend, rather than a series of random hook-ups during my closeted days.

 

16

 

14 with a girl (too young, but no regrets) and 24 with a guy, whose ring I now wear on a certain finger.

 

15, although it wasn't really by choice