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So how old were you when you lost your virginity?

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  1. kosmusurfer

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    19 and I had no idea about sex or anything regarding that prior to that.
    Since I'm very shy and suffer from social anxiety, I used to talk with people online and meet with them. My first time wasn't that good, but I guess I needed to get it out of my system or something to move on
     
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  2. BethLauren

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    I was 15
     
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    21 and still a virgin. Hopefully i wont end up becoming the "40 year old virgin" Lol.
     
    #263 Thunor93, Jul 14, 2014
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    haha dont worry, i only lost it when i was 21.
     
    #264 Greeley, Jul 14, 2014
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    Never.
     
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    Eurgh this is an awful question for me. I was deep in the closet so lost my virginity to a guy at 17. Thankfully I've only ever slept with the one guy. So in a way I've not lost my virginity properly (never been with a woman) and being with a guy just felt so wrong so I really don't count it tbh. I never felt excited etc. it was just going through the motions. Meah. Wish I could take it back now.
     
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    17 with a girl 18 with a guy
     
    #267 Biboy1995, Jul 21, 2014
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    17 with a girl and apart from oral and me freaking out when it went to more still a virgin with guys... Hopefully change before too long though...
     
    #268 daniel27, Jul 22, 2014
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    Seconded, unless online interactions are counted. =P
     
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    No one is a virgin, for life fucks us all.
     
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    I was 23, with a guy. I've never done it with a girl.
     
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  12. C06122014

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    I'm a VIRGIN yeaaaaa! :grin: :grin: :grin: I'm in no rush to lose that, I'm 15 :slight_smile:
     
    #272 C06122014, Jul 22, 2014
  13. asdfghjk

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    :frowning2: one.... day.............
     
    #273 asdfghjk, Jul 22, 2014
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    It depends on how you define virginity. I was sexually abused as a child, so some might say that I am not a virgin. However, especially according to my ex-therapist, I am still consensually a virgin.
     
    #274 PlantSoul, Jul 23, 2014
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    I lost mine when I was 14. Curiosity got the best of me and I deeply regret it.
     
    #275 BlueCover905, Jul 23, 2014
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    It feels like the v-card is likely a lot more important to other people than it is to me. It's like there is magic "not a virgin powers". Wait do I get powers if I lose my virginity! Awesome!
     
    #276 Proginoskes, Jul 23, 2014
  17. Fallingdown7

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    You're a virgin to me IMO
     
    #277 Fallingdown7, Aug 26, 2014
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    I had it taken from me forcibly by my first boyfriend at 15. And then I thought that you were just supposed to feel horrible and dirty and sick after and that you're supposed to cry in the shower while you try to scrub the filthy feeling off. And so I kept trying to just be straight with my second boyfriend. It doesn't work that way don't do that it's not a good time 0/10 do not recommend.
     
    #278 Nekokoneko, Aug 26, 2014
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    I'm still a virgin. Thankfully. I don't care if it's not meaningful, but I want to feel ready, and make my own to choice as to when to have it, and not be pressured into it.
     
    #279 KingJude, Aug 26, 2014
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    19, and even then I felt like I was a late bloomer. In retrospect, I felt that it was a wise decision. It would have been wiser, I suppose, if it were a few years later, like at 20 or 21.
     
    #280 Candace, Aug 26, 2014
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