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So how old were you when you lost your virginity?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by teluphone, Nov 3, 2012.

  1. Rosepetal

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    im so sorry I hope he gets what's coming to him and please feel better :slight_smile:
     
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    -9 months, I suppose?

    Does that even work?
    Someone please tell me!
     
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    Well I experimented in primary school in year 6 (I know young) with a guy and we did yes for a few minutes tried anal. Does this count? We also touched each other in class but strangely the teachers didn't even notice. I feel disgusting and immoral experimenting sexually at such a young age. Now, at 17 I hardly ever experiment apart from when I'm totally drunk and I haven't had full on sex since then... So does that even count?
     
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    Still a virgin.
     
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    Lost my virginity to a girl when I was 16.
     
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    Thank you <3 It was almost nine years ago now and I think maybe I'm finally starting to accept it and move on. You can't change the past but hopefully in the future fewer people will go through what I did.
     
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    What? :eek:. How did that happen? I want to know the story lol! I always thought about having sex with some of my teachers but I don't even think that any of them were gay lol.

    I haven't gone all the way and had anal sex (want to do it with the right person, make it kind of special) but I have done other things.
     
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    I was 16, with my high school girlfriend.

    Hooked up with a guy once when I was 19 or so but it was drunk and awkward.

    Late 20s, went to see a gay "masseuse" who tried to get me off but I couldn't perform because I was so nervous.

    Otherwise all hetero action. Makes it especially tough to wrap my brain around the idea that I might be gay. Really not comfortable with the idea of random gay hookup, especially since I am married to a woman.
     
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    Okay, I'm going to get so much hate for this, but...
    12.

    Still worth it.
     
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    In a million years.
     
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    It depends on your concept of losing virginity. Frottage with clothes on was 13. Oral was 14. Anal was 16 or 17. Only been with that one guy. Haven't had any sexual activity in 12 years.
     
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    I lost my virginity at about 20, so all the folks who are in despair about it don't need to feel so bad. I started very late indeed. Virtually everyone I knew at that time, had lost theirs before I did. But looking back now, who cares? Does it really matter? Is it a race?

    ---------- Post added 28th Aug 2014 at 02:48 PM ----------

    Now there's an idea. Come to think of it, my back has been really sore lately...(fyi as far as guys go, I'm still a virgin... :cry: )
     
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    I had my first two orals with 2 different people when I was in elementary school. And it's considered taboo to many people (too ashamed to talk about this part). I had my first meaningful oral at 20. But I still consider myself a virgin since I haven't done anything anal. Hopefully, I lose my virginity when I turn 21 next year.
     
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    No, and early results do not dictate future success. :icon_sad:
     
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    I've never even hugged anyone XD everyone in my year seems to be having sex and then there's me XD
     
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    you will get through it u are a brave person and a survivor .
     
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    I know the feeling! xD Mind you I'm in the closet, but that wouldn't make any difference, there are no other gay guys (out of closet at least) at my school :frowning2: I'm not in too much of a rush though...
     
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    13 i was at a boarding school .
     
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    Not yet. Haven't met anyone yet who interested me enough and felt the same way about me.