My future with relationships

:eek: what kind of people are you thinking of dating? :tears:

 

As a trans person yourself, you should know that "can't be too careful" should be the order of the day.

Good on you Monika and Claudette, always stay safe. Pepper spray and rape whistles, at least, for all us girls!

 

I agree but I guess I didn't think about it for guys until Doc chimed in. Even though it's my biggest fear, I just always assumed that I could scare someone off. (I inherited my dad's booming voice of doom :lol. *goes off to look for pepper spray*

 

I also took Taekwondo growing up, kick my heels off then kick you xD

 

I'd say for anyone who worries about not being able to physically fend off a perpetrator. I'm not exactly in peak physical condition. I live in a pretty good area but can't be too careful, especially since the part of town I'm in's not exactly the best.

 

I'm actually about to move to a city with one of the highest crime rates in the country and just for that, I plan to carry a hiking staff. In the snow, it'll help with balance. If anyone touches me... :***: <<< parental discretion advised.

 

^ Yup. Heaven knows even as a guy I couldn't fend off hardly anything with this scrawny frame.

:lol: I love this :lol: Get 'em, tigress!

 

Baltimore or Detroit? lol
I live in what was once a private white community in the 60/70s it is now a majority Spanish neighborhood

 

Even at my size (6'5" ~220 lbs) I am very careful about where and when I go dressed en femme - an extremely sad fact of life I'm afraid. I got a little freaked out the one time a creepy guy followed me through the mall even though I'm sure I could have kicked his butt.

 

I got hit on alot at the mall I work at, it's a relief knowing I have like 15 cameras on me lol I am 5'10" 145 lbs

 

Unfortunately, I get hit on by macho dudes and butch women... eww... Occasionally, a femme gay guy will flirt with me and it's like 'thank you, God! Someone who doesn't smell like Axe the same as me!' >.< Why don't femme girls ever like me? *sob* It's because I can't fix a car, isn't it...? -.-:roflmao:

 

Oh, and being stranded can be very sexy if you have an imagination.

 

<<< will die alone in the desert as an ascetic monk...

 

I could fix anything but cars as a guy, I like to keep my mechanical and trade skills a secret mow though lol it is after all unfitting for a female to know this stuff

 

<<< suddenly aspires to be a wayward nun that got lost on the way to the mission and stumbles across a very wooly ascetic monk.

 

You were that nun I was warned about in Catholic school... :roflmao:

 

I was frightened by a grease stain at an early age.

*is totally helpless with cars*

 

I can fix almost anything else... And I am the MASTER of furniture construction. But my dad taught me stuff and also woodburning. I was obsessed with tools as a kid and asked for them every year for 3 years. Finally, I got a giant toolbench so a BBQ grill was next!