How often do you think of your sexuality?

24/7

 

Whenever I am on this site and about 5 other times a day when not on this site

 

Not unless someone mentions my sexuality, and then I get a little "oh yeah, so I am..." about it all. Or I'll think about it when someones questions my sexuality, so rather than lots of "how very dare you" I'll sit there, think about the question, and then come up with the same "nope, still that" about it all.

I thought about it more when I was heavily involved in rather conservative Christian circles, but that wasn't so much a struggle with sexuality as a struggle over whether expressing that aspect of myself was something I needed to moderate in order to live in the manner God calls us to live. So it wasn't so much me thinking about my sexuality but thinking about how I should express it, if at all. It's just not that important to me; my reactions to how important my sexuality appears to be to people I am not in an intimate relationship with, that sometimes crops up in my thoughts, but that's not really thinking about my sexuality; that's thinking about other people who think about my sexuality.

 

Every single day. Because I'm not out I keep thinking "what about now?" Or "who should I tell?"

 

Way more than a heterosexual person thinks about theirs (probably).

 

Every single day. Probably 45% of it thinking about my sexuality and the rest, other things.

 

right now, a lot. I think it'll be better when I've come out

 

All the time. It's kind of a repeating loop, a viscous cycle of I'm Gay--- Maybe I'm Bi---- I'm just going through a phase----
It takes up an unhealthy amount of my time -.-

 

it's always at the back of my mind, somehow everything seems to relate back to it.

 

Since coming out to myself, I think about being Gay all the time, 1st thing in the morning & last thing at night, I am always checking out other Guys all the time, always thinking about coming out & imagining scenario's out in my head of how I will come out to family

 

I do that too! Yeah, I did think about my sexuality a lot as well, now I've been thinking more about my gender and identity lately. So, my priorities seem to have really changed, I don't think about who I'm sexual attracted to as much, I think about simply who am I?:dry:

 

All the time, especially when I see a cute guy or gal

 

As often as a straightguy thinks about sex

 

I think about romantic and physical relationships A LOT but I wouldn't say that always has to do with my sexuality. I'm a person 1st and foremost and people are prone to obsess with Romantic and physical relationships at one point in their lives,

 

Unfortunately, I think of my sexuality way too much.

 

A lot. Every time I see someone who I am attracted to (even in the slightest way). And just a lot of other times too, like when I get lost in thought, or start thinking about what's happening in my life right now.

 

Eh not to often. Weird lol

 

All the time... -.-

 

All day long.

 

Daily. I'm one of those people who's mind is constantly thinking about one thing or another and my sexuality/relationship is a huge thought topic.