How often do you think of your sexuality?

A lot especially since I can't decide if I'm bi or gay. Plus my mom badgers me nonstop about seeing hot guys.

 

Wayyyy to often. ( o3o)

Like, while I'm driving, while I shower, on the computer, making lunch/dinner, basically it's something I always think about.

 

All day. I always feel like i'm hiding something. Like i'm lying to people. Most of the time I speak to people I think about it.

 

Can definitely relate there. Sometimes it's like living a double life.

I work at a warehouse. I'm basically the second youngest there and the only one in relatively good shape. And they have no idea that I swing both ways.

One of the most awkward times was when they were joking, "there's no telling who swings that way - everyone knows someone." :icon_redf Little did they know...

Plus my extended family has no idea nor one of my friends.

I come home from work with either a girl or guy on my mind. Tonight just got finished watching a gay film and checking out a guy finder app. Lots of cute guys around here. Been leaning more gay lately, so just rolling with the flow. Tomorrow morning back to putting on the mask that I'm just another straight warehouse worker with no sensitivities about him.

But, hey - it's easier thinking of yourself like a superhero. Blending in or just straight by day but bi or gay by night lol. Kinda used to double lives though too - four parents, two sets -

Rambling now. It's late. But, yeah, can definitely relate.

 

I would say a fleeting thought to actual reflection comes at least 95% of the day. But it depends on life events, and currently I'm dealing with coming out to both an extended and new family because of my brother's wedding.

I think sexuality is more forefront on our minds than our straight counterparts just because it goes against societal norms. We are confronted with images, experiences and ideas that assume the "normal" straight orientation, and so we are kind of constantly reminded of it. Definitely nothing wrong with thinking about it a lot.

 

I think about it a lot. I will find a really hot guy, and ask myself if i am attracted. It's always me preferring a girl. Lol.

 

I don't often think about my sexuality itself, but I frequently (read: all the time) think of boys I find attractive, and how I want to date a boy... But I don't align "my gayness" to "my interest in boys"... You know? It's weird.

King x

 

Basically always.

 

Constantly when I was in the closet. Now, not so much. What a relief!
Still have te declare myself "open" about it, but my parents went well so it's amazing how it went from sky high, to little bounces.

 

A lot. I don't think of it half as much as I did about a year ago, though.

 

I used to think about it non-stop when I was in the closet... Now I do much less, but when I'm thinking about guys... I don't think specifically to myself "i am so gay" I just think about him.

 

I think about it way too muchh

 

All the time... there isnt 30 minutes that goes past.. even randomly when working or chatting with someone I think about it.

 

Too much.

 

Almost all the time.

 

All the time

 

24/7

 

Not too much. I think about guys a lot though, and a future with a guy etc, but I don't think it's the same thing.

 

It's official. I'm Homoflexible- but I did think I was bi for a really long time... Now I'm gay most of the time . I think about my girl nonstop, If that's saying anything, I'm not quite sure..... XP

 

Pretty much all the time. I'm not totally out about much so i, always thinking about how i can keep it in the closet, and then since i am in the closet im always worrying about me being wrong (Which i know i'm not...) I mainly spend a lot of time worrying. Haha.