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How often do you think of your sexuality?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alexander, Jan 16, 2008.

  1. antje

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    So often I used to worry I was just a special snowflake heterosexual when I first came out to myself.
     
  2. Spurned

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    Not much, myself! Only when I read up about articles on sexuality, when someone asks me about my sexuality/etc or when I go to my LGBT group. It's kind of second nature now, no idea why though.
     
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    All the (rainbow) time (gay).
     
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    Fairly often. On a daily basis for sure to say the absolute least.
     
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    Very often. Whenever I see a cute guy I think about having gaybies with him XD
     
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    Uhm, like always? But doesn't everyone??? A straight guy sees a girl and thinks, "DAYUM", he's thinking of his sexuality. Dirty thoughts tour through his brain, as such thoughts do at every awkward moment, he's thinking of his sexuality. The same is true for a LGB person, though perhaps it means a little more to us. No big deal, really :slight_smile:
     
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    A lot... Way too much to be healthy. It just pops up on me through out the day, and it causes a large amount of stress.
    "Don't look at other girls too long, they'll figure out."
    "Would my lesbianism bother them?'
    "Goodness gracious- what is so appealing about men?"
    "Shit. Shit- he wants to go out on a date!"
    "Mama's going to ask if he's my boyfriend. No mama- he's not. I don't think he's cute."
    "I feel so uncomfortable."
    "Why?"

    Ugh. It's just... painful. Not homosexuality- I accept myself fully. Just thinking about it all the time unconsciously.
     
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    I think about it all the time
     
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    thought about it all the time when I was 18 after I came out. it made matters much worse it put me in a bad place because i was stressing so much . it took a fair bit of counseling to set me straight ( pun intended )
     
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    I think about my sexuality when someone mentions it, if they're talking about a particular boy/girl, when I'm with the girl I like :3, and it randomly pops into my head at random times.
     
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    24/7...It's impossible to just suddenly "forget"(so to speak) that you're a guy who likes other guys...
     
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    I think about my crush very often. I think about random people I'm attracted to on a regular basis, too. But thinking about my sexuality, that happens less often. Daily this past week, because being with my mother forces me to think about it, since it makes us both uncomfortable and awkward. But usually, not more than a few times a week, and then only because I'm currently working on a project related to sexuality and gender.
     
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    I wish I could avoid thinking of it; If only I weren't constantly reminded of how frickin' disgusting I am by everybody around me, I probably could toss it out of my mind.
     
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    often. less during the day while in school but more when I get home and I log onto EC.
     
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    24/7. Whenevr i start thinking of hot guys it usally leads to thinking of my sexuality
     
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    All the time.
     
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    Quite a lot. Since I like males and females I will find myself thinking in public "they're really good looking".
     
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    All the time, it's just not really something you can avoid thinking about whether it's worrying or just planning for the future it comes into most things
     
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    Constantly, Working in a male dominated environment it's difficult not to think about it
     
  20. I am a moose

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    Quite a lot!! :s