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Feminine? Masculine?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by singtoh1, Feb 1, 2009.

  1. fantasmo

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    I don't know. I guess maybe a little of both.
    It kind of changes depending on my mood and whatever the occasion/situation is.
     
  2. RainbowJay

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    I'm definitely on the masculine side, everybody notices it, and sometimes it's a bit embarrassing (like when they find out I wear boxers or that they mistake me for a guy)

    secretly though, I like being mistaken for a guy, 'cus it'd make sense

    I feel like I can connect to boys, and I usually played with toy cars and went over to play video games all day at a friend's house

    I'm sort of bulky and tall and I always wear boys clothing (my mom doesn't seem to mind)

    well, that's all of it, I think :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Imma a boy who acts like a boy. Never been told I'm too "effeminate" before. I've been told I have gay tendencies, but that doesn't count I guess.
    So I say masculine looking and acting.
     
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    defiantly masculine. my friends say i'm a flaming lesbian a lot, so i guess that's why.
     
  5. pookie

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    I(boy) alway's liked to think of myself as a tomboy.

    If that makes sense.
     
  6. Jacobs

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    I am def more Feminine!
     
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    I believe that I am more masculine. Im sure in some situations i have feminine qualities.But i def consider myself on the masculine side. I think that other people see me as masculine, most of the time anyway.
     
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    Before I came out, you could say that I was really masculine, because when I first started coming out some people couldn't believe me. Like one of my str8 guy friends didn't accept it for like a week. But now I guess I am borderline between the two. I have my "macho" moments and then again I have my "fem" moments. I guess it just depends on what mood I am in and what the situation is.
     
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    ME:
    i think im more on the feminine side
    but not overly so
    im flamboyant without being a give away

    WHAT I LIKE:
    uber masculine but that would be tolerant of my girly rambles and love for Britney spears
    someone that is masculine but can see more of an emotional side of him once you break down walls
     
  10. Mana

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    I am actually neither. I think.

    I think half the time I'm like a really stereotypically camp man :-/

    I wear men's t-shirts... from new look :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I have no idea to be honest...
     
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    Neither in particular, I like to think.
     
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    I don't think I'm either~!~! I've been told that I look very androgynous~!~! ^.^
     
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    Definitely more masculine. Don't care too much for clothes(I know my colors as red, blue, yellow, green, blue, purple, mixtures of those, and light and dark versions). I enjoy sports(watching and playing), though I tend to waiver in playing ability greatly pending the sport. I do hate people who over analyze sports. That is plain BS and annoying. I don't talk about much things either, but I have great compassion for others.
     
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    Hmm, I believe myself to be masculine in how I present myself (read: Outward appearance), but I definitely have a feminine mindset. A hybrid, really. I've always gotten along better with girls, and figured the guys at school realized I must be gay, until I actually came out to a few and they were utterly shocked, saying that I "didn't look gay" (whatever that means).

    So yeah; Masculine=Outside, Feminine=Inside.
     
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    I'm masculine. I'm pretty laid back, also.
     
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    It really depends on my mood. Some days I feel really girly and flirty, then other days I'm swaggering about like a guy wearing baggy jeans... Nobody has ever thought "hmmm... she's masculine... she might be gay?" Well, I don't think so anyway!
     
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    It's decided. I'm feminasculine.
     
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    I feel masculine but feminine sometimes... but people say that i'm more feminine so idk :confused:
     
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    I'm kind of in the middle.

    I guess I like clothes to an extent but I don't really care about what I wear as long as it matches and it's clean.

    I wear makeup sometimes, if I feel like putting it on.

    People say I have a boy brain and that I act like a guy, so. I'm not sure.
     
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    Are chapstick lesbians feminine or masculine? I think my friends consider me a chapstick lesbian, and that sounds accurate enough.

    I've been mistaken for a boy a few times when my hair is up, but I don't really see why or consider myself masculine. Nor would I say I'm a feminine person.

    Mostly I'm in a buttoned-up shirt, skinny jeans, and sneakers. No make-up.