Do you want any children?

I'm quite the same as the author. I want two children, but I don't think I could handle pregnancy, because... well, because I'm a man. But I doubt me and my beloved would ever have our biological children at all. So I think adoption would be the best option for us.

 

Excuse me, I'M LESBIAN. But, my girlfriend wants a child when we get married. I don't really want kids that much. I secretly would love to have kids but I'm not going to tell anyone that (in real life, at least). The idea of being pregnant freaks me out, mostly because of the way I'd GET pregnant. >~<

 

On the one hand, I think I have pretty wickedly awesome genes, and not passing them on would be terribly selfish of me, and bad for the human race. On the other hand, I'm not sure I can maintain a stable enough environment for kids. I can barely muster the energy to take care of myself as it is, and I've never had a relationship last longer than 3 years, at 30. But I can't let go of the idea. So I'm gonna try for it.

 

I might want kids, but I have absolutely zero desire to carry them. Plus, my family has horrible genetics with mental health and physical health problems, and I wouldn't want my kid to inherit that. I honestly don't care about my child being biological. I would adopt if I needed to.

 

I definitely want to have children: I love looking after my niece and nephew, although I guess actually having them is a lot different to the odd hour every now and again. In an ideal situation surrogacy would be an option, with my partner having his genetics with one child and me with another.

 

Nah. I echo the raising dogs :lol:

 

I would love to have children one day...I don't really like little kids but I want to be a parent so it's something I can deal with and since they will be mine I'm sure it would be different.i really like the surrogate mother idea however what I would want is the baby to be related to me and my wife carry one if she wants to have kids and then vice versa I would carry the baby but it would be related to her then that way both of us kind of has a part in it

 

At some point, yeah.

 

I might plan to have a child one day, if my fiance wants one in the future. But I don't want more than one, since that's the most we both could handle. I also feel like having more than one child would disrupt my future career as a nurse. I'm unsure of whether to adopt or go through pregnancy. Probably adoption, since my family has a history of mental problems & one case of a terminal neurodegenerative disease (nobody's sure if it's a genetic thing or not). I don't want to put a possible biological child through that sort of hell. Besides, pregnancy seems scary (0_0)

 

Not really. I don't see why someone would want a kid; it's a lot of responsibility and pretty expensive, and I hate most kids anyway. I don't want to have to go through childbirth, either. It sounds terrifying. I guess I might adopt a kid someday, but I do not want to give birth.

 

Exactly my thought, also is a huge responsibility that i'm not ready for, it was kind funny how some people said they are annoying or irritating because that's how i feel the few times i run across kids on the streets, they forgot to add, ''loud to the ears'' irritating

 

I wouldn't be bothered about giving birth tbh. Adoption seems like a good option.

 

I think I would be okay with one but no way am I carrying it! I am a man and if I end up marrying another guy I would adopt.

 

Me and my boyfriend would like to have kids someday. =]

Since pets are discussed as well, a cat as well. Too bad a Savannah is so expensive.

:lol: Cats for the win.

 

I'm gay, scared of kids, and most likely infertile, so a definite no here.

despite the world being overpopulated people around here have them like crazy anyway.

 

^This

 

I kind of do, it just gives me a weird feeling thinking about all the happy and difficult times I would go through and have my significant other with me.

 

No

 

Hell yeah! ^-^