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Another question: What's it like to kiss a woman?

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by junebug99, Sep 11, 2017.

  1. junebug99

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    I have been wondering what it's like to kiss a woman? I can dream about it or imagine it. In my dreams it's wonderful.
     
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    Umm, wow, ok. How to describe...??

    Ok, the first time I kissed a woman was in college. It was like what kissing is supposed to feel like! That's what I remember thinking. It was tiny fireworks over my head :slight_smile:

    I haven't kissed a lot of women, but I've enjoyed every kiss.

    It's feels...right.
     
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    Soft

    That's all Ive got. My kissing experience is quite limited... lol but I do remember thinking "this is so freaking soft" in a good way
     
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    I am going to second that.

    Soft. So soft.

    And somehow, women just seem to know what they are doing?? I don't know how to explain. It's like very natural.

    But, believe it or not this is one of my self-conscious areas. I think I'm an aggressive kisser. And other women are softer kissers. I'll work on it. :slight_smile:
     
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    Now I'm really curious!
     
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    I think it can be either soft or hard, depending on the moment...:slight_smile:
     
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    It totally depends on the moment, but - wow. It's - definitely wonderful and so natural. Even as a bi woman, I am much more enamored of kissing a woman than a man. So for a lesbian, I can only imagine that the "this is the most natural thing in the world" feeling is 100% more.
     
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    My husband is a sloppy kisser. It's yucky!
     
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    That is yucky. And actually - my experience that I conveyed? That's the second woman I've kissed. The first one - it was all *peck* on the lips and she would pull back from anything more (and then complain about me not initiating anything), so it is a spectrum of course. But when it's right - gods, it's right.
     
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    I feel like i am very invested in this thread lol.
     
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    Ok, so, what is this? I think this may be me. Too much spit involved?
     
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    He like puts his entire mouth over mine. I feel like I'm being sucked in!
     
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    More of an airlock than a kiss, then. Ugh.
     
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    Lol, oh my god. Ok.
     
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    That is the worst lol. I think mine does this too but honestly it has been years so not completely sure. We are a quick peck on the lips phase if even that. I think watching two women kiss is the best turn on. I hope to change the answer at some point though.
     
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    Yeah. It's not pleasant.
     
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    So do I.
     
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    I am glad you keep asking the questions I am too embarrassed to ask! :slight_smile:
     
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    So is mine! I can't stand it. Way to wet. Like not only my lips but above my top lip and below the bottom lip.
     
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    Yes, this is my partner exactly! I tried gently teaching him the way I wanted to be kissed, but 10 years later we have made no progress.
     
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