Another question: What's it like to kiss a woman?

This sounds scary.

 

Ok, is there actual sucking involved? That's not right...

BUT I do want to stick up for all the sloppy wet kissers out there. (Ahem, I stand up proudly). Sometimes it cannot be helped. And it is way better than a dry kiss. For those of us with full lips, it's just damn near impossible not to be a little sloppy. It's not like you need a napkin afterward, but, you know. It's not neat and tidy.

 

Umm. I have thoughts.

@junebug99 Thank you for this very entertaining thread.

My husband was TERRIBLE. He said he didn't like kissing. So he was not into improving at all. And he's the only person I have ever kissed. What a catastrophe.

 

I have to stop reading these threads at work. I am in my office laughing and people are starting to stare.

 

I didn't like the way my husband kissed either which makes me feel awful. It always bothered me. And sometimes (often) I would think, do I not like this because he is not a good kisser or because I am gay? So, I hear you. I'm glad you can imagine kissing a woman and that it makes you happy.

 

My ex used to suck my entire mouth into his and then bite my lips... i was like, in what world is this good??

also when i say soft i just mean the overall feeling. It can be rought but like, lips are softer, no facial hair, soft skin.

 

I know what your saying, people keep walking by my office and asking what's so funny, and because I'm not out at work, I can't tell them!

 

My does this thing with his tongue. He tries to like shove it in my mouth. Drives me crazy but not in a good way.

 

It's at least as good as your dreams. Probably even better. I hope you find out!

And... what's with these guys?!? They sound like fish leaping for the lure...

 

Hey as long as its pleasurable while it's going on. It could just be the man part in the equation that we don't like.

 

You made me think of big mouth bass.

 

Ok, there is a trend here. I think the common denominator is that we are kissing men. Seriously, I have never had a bad kiss with a woman.
I have had some good kisses with men, but none that were memorable, you know.
My kisses with women were different.

 

Cause you're gay and so is everybody else here. So so gay. Haha!

 

Oh my...a new thread of fun! Leave this site for a few hours and you never know what you will come back to.

So, I haven't kissed a lot of women, but I have kissed ONE woman a whole lot!

.Totally agree on this. So soft. And right, even when it's hard it's soft. I think women do know exactly what to do when we're together--because we are both women. We know not to go to that 'suck your lips off or over-wet' place with kissing (or any of the OTHER 'errors' all the guys we kissed made with us!) There is something very sweet about kissing a woman. Even when you're INTO it and it's hot as hell--there is still this sweetness. IDK what I am even saying, but maybe some of you can relate. It's almost like effortless. And it can be a 'thing' in itself. Like with every guy I was with kissing=on course to sex. With woman there's no rush, and sex doesn't HAVE to be the endgame. Sure, it often is, but it's not required.

Truth! And maybe this is why straight girls are into lesbian porn too? Heck even they know it's hot as hell!

Pretty much agree with this too. To this day I had one 'blow my mind' memorable guy kisser I was with. It's a pretty sad commentary on the men I was with to tell you who it was AND how old he was. It was the first guy I was slept with (first kiss too-in the walk in freezer where we worked). He was 17, I was 16. He had some very smooth (and soft) moves to his kissing style. Of all the actual adult guys I would kiss in the years to come, none rivaled him, and he would end up being my ONE truly memorable guy kisser. A 17 year old. Sad. Sad. Sad.

Tangent alert: Oh and just to set the scene for you on that first kiss with 'R' . The restaurant we worked at was one of those western themed ones-so popular in the eighties. So I was in my uniform, an orange and brown POLYESTER button down with COWBOYS riding horses on it, paired with brown CHEENOS--wtf? Anyway, it was topped off with a ponytail with a required orange ribbon thing. Seriously? It truly is a mystery how anyone would want to kiss me in this clusterfuck of a get-up!

 

There's an old sports forum I was on for a few years that had an emoji eating popcorn for entertaining threads. We need one of those. Consider this my popcorn eating emoji post...

 

Why must kissing always lead into sex with guys. Sometimes you just want to be like a teenager and make out sometime and not have to get naked. I'm not a fan of lesbian porn, it just feels so fake to me.