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Another question: What's it like to kiss a woman?

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    God, I could have written both of these posts. When I realized there is no noise in my head when I kiss G, it is so - it is amazing. Of course, I have had bad kisses with a woman, but that was because she was not comfortable with more.
     
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    Isn't the practical testing the best? I love it!
     
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    (I think I'm caught up now - these threads move too fast!)

    These terms are so very meaningful to me, particularly homoflexible. I need that label for my ex, or I lose who I was, who I am, and I lose the very foundation of our relationship. Homoflexible grounds me in that space.
     
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    I just really wanna kiss someone now... Thanks ladies... :frowning2:

    HAHA
     
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    Yes! Like I don't have ENOUGH problems walking around my neighborhood and finding approximately every 5th woman attractive. Now I've got all this kissing on my mind... Thanks a lot. HAHA.

    This is an overshare, but apparently oversharing is my specialty now, lol. My husband so didn't like kissing and was so stiff and awkward about it that we stopped doing it about 12 years ago. Which means that for 6 years, we'd have sex, but kissing was NOT part of our interaction at all. That's weird, right?
     
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    So, who is going to go out and practice?:relaxed:
     
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    Damn! So wait if you don't mind me asking, how long has it been since you've been kissed?

    You're probably gonna spontaneously combust when it happens (I know I am and it's just been 3 years for me LOL)
     
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    It's been 12 years! And like I said, before that it was just my ex, and that shit was terrible. Never kissed anyone but him. I am OVERDUE.

    Jesus, I guess it's good that this is an anonymous forum.
     
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    Gosh I'm so excited for it to happen for you!! I feel like you're at the best moment of your life right now. Wohooo!!!!!
     
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    I don't think it's weird I've decided your ex was gay so this is just more confirmation.
     
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    Oh @RJay don't be embarrassed! I once dated a guy for 6 months and not once did we kiss. I was lucky to ever get a hug from him. And oddly enough, I was completely fine with that. Oh silly silly young girl.

    And now just think of all the things you have to look forward too! It is really like being a teenager again. A little awkward, kind of scary, certainly frustrating and oh so exciting.
     
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    Ha! Yep I agree! I hope he figures it out. Everybody thinks he is gay. V met him one day when I wasn't around and texted me immediately, "OMG your ex is soooooo gay." LOL

    And for what it's worth, our sex, when it was good, was super gay. The gayest. Haha.
     
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    Yeah don't be embarrassed. I've only ever kissed my girlfriend so before I met her I had never kissed anyone.
    Being inexperienced I think is an indearing quality :wink:
     
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    Same for me about 13 years so I guess not weird. I feel in a relationship it should be weird though.
     
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    My ex is gay and he's kissed me more recently than 12 years ago! Sure, it wasn't - well, more than a peck - for about a year before he came out to me, but still... That's insane. I agree - he's closeted; and I'm obviously the authority, having dealt with it! :laughing:
     
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    Wow. Y'all are beautiful women. Anyone would be lucky to kiss y'all.

    When you do get to have that kiss it will be so worth it. Good lord, I do think some of you are going to spontaneously combust.

    I kind of feel like the town you-know-what. Geez.
     
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    Yeah not embarrassing at all! On the contrary, I think it's exciting.

    I've kissed probably like 30+ guys (listen, I was a big partier in college) and I wish I hadn't kissed any of them at all. I can't say they've ALL been bad but the sex *shudders* lol

    Edit: to clarify, I haven't had sex with 30+ guys lol (not that I'm judging anyone who has!!)
     
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    LOL. You are A.O.K., @OED27x . Better than OK.
     
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    I love the way you write y'all :slight_smile:
     
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    I think perhaps rare in a completely happy relationship but then everyone's relationship looks slightly different so it's hard to say.
     
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