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Another question: What's it like to kiss a woman?

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    I know, isn't it the cutest? :heart:
     
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    Yes it is.
     
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    Does she know your our resident therapist?
     
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    Nope, not weird at all at least for me, we never kissed, I didn't like kissing him. Yet we had sex up until April when I told him I was gay. Hard to explain how I thought about sex with him, I wasn't emotionally there, just physically if that makes sense.
     
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    Yes. Makes perfect sense. I wrote something very similar the other day.
     
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    Bit of a break at work--knew I had to check in with the gang! As always, honest, raw, funny and just general kick ass posts from everyone.

    My husband and I surely didnt kiss at least the last two yrs of our marriage. (Which was a horror show altogether-I am SUCH a different person now! I look back like 'who was that girl.'

    @RJay I dont think its weird at all about your lengthy non kissing with your husband. NOTHING surprises me about anyones marriage. Some of my friends have lived in sexless marriages for years, some are living the high life but in soo much debt. Some have , well, kind of odd agreements within their marriage. . U know. All kinds of secrets in marriages. Everyone makes it look all sparkling on FB. But I think a LOT of couples hide a lot of shit. I am just never shocked by anything!

    At least we are all getting ourselves together and moving forward beyond all this crap now! :slight_smile:

    Carry on ladies. Staff meeting calls, a soul destroying experience every time. UGH
     
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    Oh how I feel your pain! I have a weekly two hour credit meeting (that I should actually be preparing for now) that leaves me wondering if it is still acceptable to be a day drinker.

    This makes perfect sense. I have always felt this way about sex and when I try to force myself to enjoy the moment because obviously there must be something I am missing, I just can't. That emotional connection has just never been a factor.
     
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    Erm I'm not sure, I don't think so. I mean she knows I come on EC and reply to posts and she knows EC because this is where we met but it's not really a term I use to describe myself so probably not haha
     
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    Erm I'm not sure, I don't think so. I mean she knows I come on EC and reply to posts and she knows EC because this is where we met but it's not really a term I use to describe myself so probably not haha
     
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    :grin:
    There is no emotional connection for me when having sex with my husband. I honestly and you will all think this is funny. My mind goes to other places and I think to myself " Did I forget to pick up milk?"
     
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    I laughed because I have done this same thing. And then I look at the clock and think, "I have to be up in ___ hours."
     
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    I don't think it's funny because I did the same thing!
     
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    Me too!
     
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    Oh, we are all such a beautiful mess.
     
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    We do positions where I don't face him. I find myself just staring at the wall, trying to make enough sound that he doesn't question if I like what he is doing.
     
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    Oh my god. I feel like we all know each other really well.
     
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    Right? What we've all been through... :frowning2:
     
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    My husband LOVED anal sex. I did not. He generally ignored that I didn't like it bc he LOVED it so much. Which infuriated me.
     
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    You guys are opening my eyes to a whole other world. You all have my deepest sympathies.
     
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    I'm sorry. He ignored that you didn't like it. That makes me stabby.
     
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