Thank you @quebec - that was very kind of you - I was little hesitant to post this because I didn't ' want to imply I was 'cured' of a sexuality-...
Update: I still feel the same as above - and the (gay) fantasies have pretty much stopped altogether, and I now I have straight ones. I also feel...
I have been posting here for awhile but finally started therapy last year. I chose and LGTBQ therapist with the specific intent of fully accepting...
I have had a sense it's the reverse with me.
I am curious how did you actually do this? writing it out or role playing in your head? So true and we treat the real us as an a flaw. When I...
Before I accepted myself, this was the part of me I was most ashamed of. It was one thing to have these fantasies and desires, but it was another...
Yes, this is familiar! I am single so I know it's more complicated for you but even for me there were some people I couldn't feel 'real' around...
The funny thing is I first thought "there's a nice butt, wow - this proves I am not gay.. oh wait... " :slight_smile:
I have posted this elsewhere but I had a pivotal moment when I was watching a dance performance and the men and women were in the same leotards...
On me or a cute guy ? :) I like meundies boxer briefs.
Really this was the key for me to understanding I was gay. Sexual fantasies came naturally, with acceptance, romantic fantasies as well, where it...
I think it can be extra hard if you spent time over compensating, as I did, that's why I think it's better to just move forward.
Or sex! :) or that you have to close your eyes and think about a guy! :) Yes! It 'proved' I wasn't gay and I had some hope that I would become...
The label 'bi' never seemed to stick with me, but looking back there was a period that I was convinced I was still attracted to women and that I...
what do you feel bad about? What do you feel good about?
community is not the same as your sexual orientation. There are many gay men who don''t march in parades or get involved in the visible part of...
Both of these things happened to me when I finally started facing that I was gay. Ok but do you fantasize about men? What actually makes you...
I think it could -it did with me because I had a lot of fear or being gay, so when I was fighting it, I told myself this proved that I wasn't gay...
Sorry I didn't mean to try to push anything on you- only you can decide but look what you wrote: And from there, all the objections are about...
Yes. What makes you think you are gay (or not gay?) ?
