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  1. Markster
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    Planning on separate

    Your “upside” statement is SO resonant! It describes EXACTLY how I’ve felt since choosing to living authentically 20 months ago. For 28 years I...
    Post by: Markster, Sep 11, 2019 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    How long did it take you to feel comfortable with yourself?

    Amen to your last line: "I feel 18 again and realize I I thought it was the end of my life, but it turned out to be the beginning." The only...
    Post by: Markster, May 5, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Too Many Days Like This:

    And ruination is not urination.
    Post by: Markster, Apr 19, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Too Many Days Like This:

    Dear justaguyinsf, You've nailed it. Rumination will be my ruination, if I let it. The down down down down day is an example. It's a familiar /...
    Post by: Markster, Apr 19, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Too Many Days Like This:

    THANK YOU, greatwhale. Your thoughts are extremely helpful! I'll have to think a little on the concept of a conscious performance.
    Post by: Markster, Apr 19, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Too Many Days Like This:

    Well, here's another down down down down day: [(Background) I came out to my wife in January. Then to my 2 adult children in March. I've...
    Thread by: Markster, Apr 18, 2018, 10 replies, in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    I feel the need to come out at 61

    Reaching 100% self-acceptance is so freeing. In my case I finally put to death the false hope of finding one yet untaken pill, one yet unread...
    Post by: Markster, Apr 9, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Could I come out at 61

    Dear Jart56, Yes you CAN! On January 6, I concluded that I could not live ONE MORE DAY as an impostor. I am 61. My wife ALSO knew before we were...
    Post by: Markster, Apr 7, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    I feel the need to come out at 61

    Dear Jart56, You ARE not alone!!! On January 6, I concluded that I could not live ONE MORE DAY as an impostor. I am 61. My wife ALSO knew...
    Post by: Markster, Apr 7, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Ways to find a boyfriend

    Oh, me too. I just need to constantly check my own attitude and internal motivation.
    Post by: Markster, Mar 27, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    I may be alive, but have I actually been living?

    I am so happy for you, Jeff! You have taken a huge step! I just took that same step and am finally free from living for everyone else! Your...
    Post by: Markster, Mar 27, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Ways to find a boyfriend

    Can we edit our own posts? The last line of my first paragraph should read: " . . tolerate and love one another as we are . . . "
    Post by: Markster, Mar 27, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Ways to find a boyfriend

    The discipline of fitness is worthy, but probably not so much if it's solely about pleasing or attracting others with our appearance. When it's...
    Post by: Markster, Mar 27, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    Moving farther ahead...fear, excitement, reluctance, and relief.

    Thank you Caraldo for posting and thank you Patrick for the meaningful reply. My coming out, which started in January, has been the most...
    Post by: Markster, Mar 26, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Hitting the wall

    REPLY: I do not recommend staying in this holding pattern waiting for a solution that hurts no one and/or a solution that causes no pain. As...
    Post by: Markster, Mar 18, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Hitting the wall

    Post by: Markster, Mar 18, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Hi everyone, just another new person.

    Post by: Markster, Mar 18, 2018 in forum: The Welcome Lounge
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    Hi everyone, just another new person.

    This site is a really cool place. Its nice to see good people here and everything seems so welcoming. REPLY: Welcome Dustin! You are more than...
    Post by: Markster, Mar 18, 2018 in forum: The Welcome Lounge
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    Dear Mom

    " . . . Fixing the hole in the kitchen window screen with needle and thread, you on the outside me on the inside . . . No one meant to shoot the...
    Post by: Markster, Mar 16, 2018 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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    its difficult to be yourself

    YES!! No more closets for ANY purpose.
    Post by: Markster, Mar 15, 2018 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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