Thanks Markieg64, I appreciate the advice you’re giving. The post you’ve replied to his about 9 years old though, and my life has turned around...
@RejectedAt8 I've read your post, and I am touched, and I say this with all sincerity - humbled by what you've said about my posts. I know this is...
I can't say that I have never looked back over the last 10 years and wished that life at that point was different. I'm single just now, and have...
I realised that the feelings I had ebbed and flowed through my life, sometimes never really bothering me but as time passed they got stronger and...
Sorry it’s full of typos - using a mobile and I have big thumbs
Still around. Rarely on here but did come back topmost that update a few weeks back. I revisited “him” and that time has Definitelt passed. I’m...
Wow. I dug out this thread as it’s probably the best place to post this update… There’s another thread here that talks about my break up from my...
And, if it's any help to you, this is the original thread, and tries to communicate how I felt and how it all went after I told her:...
This resonates so much @Joolz66. For me it was trying to square how I felt and the need to be honest with myself, but also try and protect my (now...
Thanks @PatrickUK, that’s a really helpful perspective. And one I had considered but was just unsure how to acknowledge. I’ve shared bits but not...
Thank you @Choirboy. I’m glad to hear that your are both still together ❤️ And thanks for your kind words. My ex and I are still in touch with...
Thanks. I get what you’re saying. And that all makes sense. I don’t want to attract guys who are “difficult”. Everyone has issues of some sort or...
So, I’ve not been here for a long time. My fiancé and I broke up during late 2020 and during the first major lockdown we had in the UK. His...
@Jevrett I was 40 when I finally acknowledged I was gay. It was a difficult decision to make in many ways - two small children, and still actually...
It depends on what it is that makes you feel the desire to be with a man. Is it the physical act of having sex - being penetrated with a toy -...
I've replied to your wall post JToivonen, but if you approach this with the focus that you are not destroying your family, etc, but being your...
It's about six years or so that I came out to my, now, ex-wife. I have children who, at that time, were quite young. It was the second most...
I'd tend to agree with silverhalo on this. I've dipped in and out of your journey and your break-ups which have, from the honest way you've...
I've been out for 6 years now. I was married and with my ex-wife for almost 19 years, with two children. I didn't plan it. I didn't believe I...
When my ex-bf and I broke up just over three years ago now, I realised that he'd been less than honest with me about a few things. How he really...
