I'm 55 and just came out last year. I have never had a boyfriend, but I do want one! I have been in love with another guy for a little over a...
Thank you Mirko for your thoughts.
I haven't yet told my friend how that comment made me feel. I didn't really want to "get into it" at the time. At some point though, I'd like to...
I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. I empathize, as I am often sad as well. I think it's OK to like anyone, regardless of their gender....
I came out about a year ago. Today, while talking with one of my closest friends, he told me that he wished he could "fix" me. Kinda hit me hard!
Nickw, thank you for your assessment. I appreciate you sharing your experience, and your encouragement. I think what makes this all so hard is I...
Chip, even though I don't like what you're telling me, I appreciate it. And I'm glad to know what I'm going through is not uncommon. Thank you...
I went to see him again today. It had been a week since I last saw him. God, he is so cute! Am I ever going to get to hang out with him? Or...
This is what draws me so strongly to my crush. He seems so sweet and tender -- and vulnerable, and hurting, which makes me want to just hug him....
This! When I think of my crush, it's so much not about sex, but just snuggling -- physically, and moreover, emotionally.
Oh yes, I always make sure to tip him well. At least 20%. Definitely, my sadness and loneliness are signs I need change. I think this...
Well guys, I had been feeling stronger and less sad earlier today. It had been a week since I last saw my beloved bartender. But I was thinking...
Nickw, Thank you for sharing your story. I definitely can relate to much of what you went through. Wow, it really feels good to know that I'm...
Wow! Just wow! Thank you, DecentOne. This post really hit me hard. In a good way. I think you may have unlocked the riddle that had been...
OnTheHighway, Thank you for your post. I definitely can see how I'm going through a "second adolescence". This is very insightful! Although I...
Chip, Thank you for your thoughts. While naturally, I don't really like what you're telling me, I do see the truth init, and appreciate it very...
Oh I forgot to say that I know for sure that he is gay, because of what he's posted on Facebook.
Thank you, all, for your feedback thus far. The "second adolescence" is indeed something that rings true in my situation. I think I have a lot...
I came out at age 54 last February. What brought me out of the closet? This much younger guy who works as a bartender. He's young enough to...
