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Would you date Bi and Trans people?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SeaSalt, Sep 2, 2014.

  1. Ruthven

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    me too


    but for me yeah to both. i mean, i'm a trans male myself soo i'm totally fine on the trans thing. and even if i wasn't my brand of bi or trans, i know i'd still be down with both
     
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    I would date a bisexual guy, no doubt.

    I probably wouldn't seek out to date a transguy, though. If I really liked a guy and he happened to be trans, I think I could make it work. But I won't deny that being trans might make the sexual aspect of the relationship a bit more difficult.
     
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    I like people. So yes.

    And like others I'd be a huge hypocrite.
     
  4. Wuggums47

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    If they're a human and a good person, I'd probably date them. I don't really care about wether they are trans or not, and I don't care what orientation they are so long as they are able to be attracted to me.
     
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    I would be up for it, attraction has no bounds. Whatever attracts my attention then I'm all for it
     
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    Yes to all of your questions.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    This is my opinion, and I think the hesitation with transpeople would largely be due to my ignorance. Joining EC has really helped in that regard by letting me learn about trans people's experiences.
     
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    Yes, and enthusiastically. I have a strong affinity with other multisexuals, and I have found many people who are trans, non-op, pre-op, and post-op stunning.
     
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    If they are my type, of course I would! :icon_bigg
     
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    I won't rule out a girl just because she's trans or bi, so yeah, I would.
     
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    Bi=Who gives a rat's ass. If they like me and they are hot why not.

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    {T-girls-No thanks.,T-boys-damn right I would}

    I was actually reading somewhere that gay men that date transmen where actually somewhere around 4-5 on the Kinsey Scale, not a perfect 6.
     
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    My last boyfriend was both bi and trans. So I have no issue with dating someone who is bi or trans.
     
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    Preach.
     
  15. Wuggums47

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    The responses in this thread are quite uplifting. I might have a chance after all.
     
  16. Fallingdown7

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    Yeah I would to both
     
  17. drwinchester

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    Of course I would. Funny thing is, my partner's bi and I'm trans. So I guess we cover both bases. But anyway, as a queer guy, it wouldn't matter to me if the man I'm dating (or the very rare woman), is trans or he's bi. As long as I love him, it's mutual- why does any of that matter?
     
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    I've dated bi girls before- if anything it makes them an even closer friend as you can talk about hot celebrity crushes regardless of gender :wink: but seriously it doesn't bother me really. Only thing is, sadly I can get quite paranoid and sometimes jealous so it would give me double the stupid thoughts. But as I've matured (slightly :wink:) I've learnt of ways to I'm that down so yeah I'd date bi. :slight_smile: as for guys- I'm sure it wouldn't bother me. Never tried dating a guy!

    And I am stealthy trans myself- and I don't like to be touched really, so if other trans are like me- I couldn't date them, as since being on testosterone, I've had a massive raise in sex drive. Haha plus I think I like to date people who take my mind off it. And I have a lot of trans friends and when we meet it's all we talk about (in a good way) so I couldn't be around it all the time or I'd never think of anything but!
     
  19. The whole "bisexuality does not exists" nonsense will eventually go away as people actually research and educate themselves. What garbage is that. As for dating them...of course.
    Then again I'm poly and the sweethearts I have in my life are all bi too, so that is a non-issue to me. I'd date the PERSON, never the gender. Same goes for loving them.

    James
     
  20. Oddish

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    Without any doubt nor hesitation to either.