Relationship Survey!

When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
At the age of 20 I dated a girl who I met in school.

Who gave you your first kiss?
My first and only girlfriend.

Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
Yes, at the age of 16 I guess...with a girl who I was madly in love with but it was the game for one only

Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
Never..

Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
Nope!

Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
Negative.

Do they know how you feel?
Yes, but I've already moved on...

How long was your longest relationship?
6 months, not long at all.

How short was your shortest relationship?
Same!

Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
No!

Have you ever cried over a guy?
Yes!

If so, why? Why not?
I had a crush on him, and he is my good friend now...

Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
My ex-girlfriend and 1.5 years ago

Are you currently single or taken?
Single.

If you are single, do you want to find love?
Yes!

What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
Kindness, diligence, loyalty, intelligence

What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
Smile, eyes, body type

What is more important, looks or personality?
Both are equally important to me.

Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
Without true love there is no happy life

If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
Nope...

Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
No, it doesn't feel right for me

Do you like someone?
Yes, but I'm too shy to tell him...><

If so, who?
My good friend, I think I have a crush on him but I try to get rid of these thoughts because he's straight as an arrow!

What are three things that are attractive about them?
He's very kind and understanding, and he got a good body for a man!

If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
My crush

If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
Nothing. It's her life and I'm not interfering with it.

Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
Nope, they have no idea that I identify as gay.. ><

Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
Not sure...

If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
I'd want to apologize to her for dating her, because it was against my nature and it wouldn't work out anyways..

 

When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
I had my first boyfriend when I was a junior in college. It happened a few weeks after I came out to him. So...20.

Who gave you your first kiss?
My first kiss was given to me by my first boyfriend.

Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
Yeah. With some guy I met off the G app

Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
no.

If yes, who and how?
I answered no.

Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
I get along with my first ex

Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
I thought I did but then I realized I miss the idea of a relationship instead of him.

If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
Uh...I do not know how to answer this given the answer I gave. But I am able to move on.

Do they know how you feel?
Pretty sure they he can tell my feelings toward us.

How long was your longest relationship?
Almost 2 months

How short was your shortest relationship?
Almost 3 weeks

Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
No

Have you ever cried over a guy?
Yes

If so, why? Why not?
I loved him so

Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
A mutually agreed date? Uh...back in October with my ex.

Are you currently single or taken?
Single.

If you are single, do you want to find love?
Right now, no
In the future, yes

What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
Good sense of humor, intelligence, compassion, respectful, empathy

What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
Around my height, glimmering eyes, sort of skinny but not too skinny.

What is more important, looks or personality?
Personality.

Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
True love.

If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
No

Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
No. I can't do friends with benefits. My personality would defy the whole concept of fwb

Do you like someone?
Yes

If so, who?
That's for me to know, and you to never find out

What are three things that are attractive about them?
Eyes, smile, personality

If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
Hmmmm...

If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
Why would I care? I moved on, they moved on; it wouldn't be a big deal.

Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
No, I've dated two people behind their backs.

Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
Sort of.

If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
I talk to my ex on a consistent basis as he still is my friend so that kind of ruins the premise of this question.

 

Here I go:

When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
I have never had a boyfriend though I would love to have one

Who gave you your first kiss?
My cousin when I was 11, but we were just experimenting.

Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
Yes, two times. Second time was the hardest he was one of my best friends in high school when I was 16 but he was straight and made it clear that he did not like gays, I could never tell him how I felt and it still hurts.

Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
Yes.

If yes, who and how?
I had a friend confess his feelings for me but I just did not feel the same way. I felt horrible afterwards because I knew exactly how it feels to be rejected.

Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
When it comes to the person that confessed, we were able to move past it and are still great friends.

Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
I still have feelings for my second crush.

If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
Honestly yes, it's just the thought that no matter what that person will never love you in the same way you love them just hurts a lot.

Do they know how you feel?
No.

How long was your longest relationship?
Never been in a relationship though I've had my share of one night stands to know that I am ready for something more.

How short was your shortest relationship?
Same as above.

Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
Not yet.

Have you ever cried over a guy?
Yes.

If so, why? Why not?
Because I knew I could never tell him how I feel.

Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
Never been on a date.

Are you currently single or taken?
Single.

If you are single, do you want to find love?
Of course.

What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
Sense of humor, caring personality, honesty, a shoulder to lean on when I need it.

What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
I love blonde men, any eye color that is particularly bright dazzles me, when it comes to their body I was always into bears, height does not matter much but I would prefer they be taller than me (I am about 5'7" tall), also hands, the bigger the better.

What is more important, looks or personality?
Personality for me is more important than looks. I want someone I can trust, someone who will be there for me as I will be for them.

Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
True love beyond a doubt.

If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
Honestly, I can forgive a lot but cheating is one thing that I think is very hard to come back from.

Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
I used to, but I realized that I wanted something more than just sex.

Do you like someone?
Currently, no.

If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
My crush.

If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
Honestly it depends on how we ended our relationship, if it was tense then I would try to avoid them but if it was okay then I would be glad they found someone to be happy with.

Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
Since I have to hide my homosexuality from them, no. Anyone I date will be on the down low until I come out to them.

Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
Depends on the advice they give and what I see, if they are seeing something bad in a person that I can't see then I will keep it in mind but it also depends on how close of a friend, like my best friend would definitely get more say than a normal friend.

If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
I do not have an ex so...