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Relationship Survey!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Anthemic, Apr 13, 2013.

  1. RedDev84

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Never had one

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    ....as above

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    I'm not sure. I've had some pretty strong crushes, one on someone I know pretty well. Does that count as love?

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    No

    If yes, who and how?
    N/A

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    N/A

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    N/A

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    A/N

    Do they know how you feel?
    /NA

    How long was your longest relationship?
    Any number of years you can imagine, divided by 0. *le calculator explodes*

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Any number of years you can imagine, MULTIPLIED by 0. *le calculator giving you strange looks*

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Pff no

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Hmm. Over a specific guy? Not really, but over lack of guy in general? A little.

    If so, why? Why not?
    I think everyone wants to feel loved now and again. (other than from parents, which thankfully I have)

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    I've always hoped there would be a 'last' date. Hopefully that will mean I have had a successful one who has then become my life partner (*hug*)

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Very much single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    I am fairly certain I do.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    I find it hard to describe what I want in a person. But understanding, loyalty, a very good sense of humour (to cope with my poor taste of humour!), trusting etc.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Because I feel and physically appear younger than my age, I believe I am probably best suited to someone younger than me/similarly younger-looking like me (not under certain limits of course!). I'm only 5'6-5'8, so the much taller folk might not be very interested in me either. With that said, I don't like to rule anyone out with physical appearance.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Simply put: looks become irrelevant with poor personalities. With looks, I think it's great if you really like what you see.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love cannot be bought with money. If that true love lead to a long and happy relationship, of course I would take that first.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    I don't think I could do that. In short: Cheating isn't an accident, it's a choice.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No, don't really plan to ever get involved with anything like that.

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    A friend I met several years ago.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    We are very alike, similar opinions on many things of life + a lot of shared interests.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    If he were gay, 90% sure he isn't - the guy I just mentioned.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    I've never had an ex, but if I could avoid it, I probably would. It feels like it might be a bit uncomfortable all round to meet your ex with a current partner. Assuming we still got along, if I saw them alone I would probably greet them.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    I doubt they would get too involved.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    I don't really have any friends that would give a damn :eusa_doh:

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    Dear future ex, if we aren't going to work out when we get together in the future. Perhaps you could let me know and possibly why? I imagine would save time and heartache....Thanks.
     
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  2. Xeno

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    Out to everyone
    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I was 14, when I had my first boyfriend and I was 17, when I had my first girlfriend.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My ex-bf, when I was 14.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes, with my girlfriend.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Not that I know of.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    My ex-boyfriend and I do not get along. At. All. I think I would still be getting along with my ex-gf.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Yes.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    Little bit, because I still miss her. But I think I would still be able to date someone else.

    Do they know how you feel?
    Unfortunately, she can't.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    5 months.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    4 months.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Nope.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Oh, yeah.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Because we broke up for really horrible reasons.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    On a physical date, that would be my ex-bf, a few years ago.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Definitely.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Good sense of humor, nerdy, compassion, empathic and outgoing.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Unnatural hair (like blue or purple) and their eyes.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality, definitely.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    I would really like all that money... but I'd rather find someone to love.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    No.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nope, not sure whether I could do that.

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    I have a crush on a guy who works at the game store in my city

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Good sense of humor, nerdy, and his stubble.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    The guy who works at the game store or James McAvoy.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Stay far away to stop myself from saying somethings that I'd regret.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Not really, they've never met any of the people that I've dated. Even if they met them and didn't like them, I'd probably keep dating them.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Yes and no. If the person I was dating treated my friends badly, then I would not date them. But if my friends couldn't come up with a valid reason for me to not date someone, then no.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    To my ex-bf: :***: you.
    To my ex-gf: I miss you.
     
  3. IceKunoichi

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    My first boyfriend was when I was 12 about to be 13 and my first real girlfriend was when i was 18

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My guy friend when I was 12,Kinda unpleasant XD

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes with my well now ex girlfriend.I still love her and I hope that we can be together again.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Yes.

    If yes, who and how?
    My last boyfriend I had when I was 17,He was a great guy and we were together for awhile and I felt bad that deep down I didn't want to be with a man.But I ended up hurting him pretty bad when I broke up with him.I feel like Karma is getting me back for that now.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I don't speak to any of my ex's except for my ex gf that just broke up with me.We still talk everyday.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Yes I still love her.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    Yes.I am not going to move on until I know there is no chance for us.But as of right now there is still a chance.

    Do they know how you feel?
    Yes

    How long was your longest relationship?
    3 years

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    2 months

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    My last ex boyfriend.I cried because i felt so bad hurting him.I really loved him just not in a relationship kind of love.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    My ex gf last summer when i visited her.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Its complicated

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    I want to keep the one i had.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Funny,Loyal,Relaxed,Loving,Energetic.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Curvy women.Nice eyes

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    I wanna say both but Personality out weighs looks.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love.I would live in a box if it meant having my girlfriend back.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Only if it was her.I say that but if it happened my feelings might change.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nope

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    My ex gf.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Her personality,Her curves,Her voice

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My ex gf

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    I would only be upset if it was my recent ex gf.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No they don't really care.They know I can handle myself.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    No,I don't really have many friends.If I really have friends at all.There my friends when they want to be my friends.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    I love you.And you know I would never hurt you,But you need to learn to trust me.We had something great and we can still have that,But I need you to trust me.I need you to give me a chance and stop closing me out.
     
  4. Andrew99

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    When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend?
    10

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    A girl when I was 9 and she was 8.

    Have you ever fallen in love?
    I don't know. It's complicated.

    Have you ever broken someone's heart?
    Yes

    If so who and how?
    My ex and a lot of people who liked me and I didn't like them back.

    Do you get along with any of your exes
    No. I no longer speak to any of them.

    Do you have feeling for any of your exes?
    Not at all.

    Do they know how you feel?
    I don't know and I don't care

    How long was your longest relationship?
    8 months

    How long was your shortest relationship?
    5 months

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Nope.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    No.

    If so why? Why not?
    Because I don't have any guy to cry over atm.

    Are you single or taken?
    Single.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Someone who doesn't drive me crazy, someone who has patience someone who's tolerant someone who's creative someone who doesn't judge someone I have a lot of stuff in common with someone who can make me laugh and make me feel better.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Oh god there's so much I could list I could be here all day typing.

    What is important looks or personality?
    Both

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000
    Both

    If you saw an ex with another girl/guy what would you do?
    I could care less.

    Do your parents have a big say in who you date?
    Not really.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    No and if they did then I wouldn't talk to them unless I could agree on what they're saying.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    Go fuck your self! You lieing piece of shit!
     
  5. Buttermilk

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    A few people
    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Never.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    No one as of yet.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Crush-wise, yes, with someone in my gym class.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I wouldn't know, but I assume not.

    If yes, who and how?
    N/A

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    N/A

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    N/A

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    N/A

    Do they know how you feel?
    N/A

    How long was your longest relationship?
    N/A

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    N/A

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Nope.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yep.

    If so, why? Why not?
    I'm trying not to remember. x)

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    I have never gone on a date.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Guess.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Absolutely.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Loyalty, open-mindedness, hard-working, can save money

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Eyes, general condition of body (e.g. on the thinner side).

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality, though looks are probably what attract me to a person in the first place.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love; assuming I don't screw up my education I should make enough money to live a decent, middle-class life.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Depends on the situation, probably not.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nope. I think I'm too young for that. x)

    Do you like someone?
    At the moment, kind of.

    If so, who?
    My first crush, mentioned in the third question.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Nice blue eyes, nice hair, very friendly.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    I don't know; I mean, my crush is straight and I don't personally know anyone else worth dating at the moment.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    I have no idea; I hope I don't have to find out.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No, because I wouldn't tell them who I'm dating or whether I'm dating at all.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Not really. I mean, they can have an opinion on the person I'm dating, but I don't think they will impact the choices I make.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    N/A
     
  6. loveislove01

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    At age thirteen, girlfriend

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My girlfriend, as mentioned above

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Im almost 100% sure what I feel for her is love. It's a lot more than empty foolish fantasies during a crush. It's a lot better. It's seeing we aren't perfect, we fight, but eventually make up because oir connection is more important than a silly fight.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Not that I know of. Not that anyone would like me, except my girlfriend. I almost broke her heart by rejecting her because I didn't want to "choose to be gay"

    If yes, who and how?
    N/A

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I have no exes and hope I won't have any

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    N/A

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    A/N

    Do they know how you feel?
    /NA

    How long was your longest relationship?
    four months and going strong~

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    ^same. It only my first relationship.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    My girlfriend has

    Have you ever cried over a guy/girl?
    Yeah, when fighting with her and when she almost broke up

    If so, why? Why not?
    I love this girl more than anyone else in the world. I was so scared of losing her

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Girlfriend, not sure what counts as a date but we do things together

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Very much taken by a lovely girl~

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Yes
    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Romantic, monogamous, not highly sexual, takes things slow, best friend, loyal, open communication, fun, can be myself around, funny, maybe a little physically attractive too.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    their eyes and smile, totally!!
    Girls have hot legs....

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    personality all the way for me
    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love is priceless. I choose love
    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Never.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No, and I wouldn't

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    Girlfriend

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Hard to say...
    I can be myself around her. No judgement.
    We are very open around each other. No secrets.
    She's just fun to be with and if I could, I'd spend many hours on end to be with her

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Her

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Say hi politely then start to cry when I go away from them.
    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    I'm thirteen. Yes. They also hate gay people.
    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    No, they "ship" my girlfriend and I, and respect our love.
    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?[/B
    Nothing. I'd barely talk to them because heartbreak.
     
  7. Nekoko

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Well I had a girlfriend when I was a kid buuuut my first real relationship was in high school though

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    The girlfriend from when I was a kid :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I don't remember it that well though

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    I'm in love right now, absolutely.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I didn't mean to.... But a few times.. I feel like shit about it still...

    If yes, who and how?
    I... Don't want to go into detail...

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Pfffff... I haven't seen any of them in years...

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Eh, mostly just some regrets, but knowing what I know now I think I'm better off...

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    Nope. I'm pretty good at the moving on part.

    Do they know how you feel?
    Nope, don't really care either.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    My current one which is going on six years

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    A day xD I was a little kid, it happens

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yeah, though most often in jest... I won't share any of my kitten's personal conversations with me though...

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Eh, a friend who treated me like shit, I wasn't attracted to him but he was like a brother...

    If so, why? Why not?
    Because he decided to be a complete shit to me after all the times I'd been there for him, friendship break ups are just as hard as romantic break ups...

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Taken, technically an open relationship buuut I'm not really looking for others atm, just open to the possibility...

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Not single, totally have love~

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Open minded, intelligent, strong willed, loving, cuddly.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    I do find certain facial structures more appealing than others...

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    The word true love turns my stomach most of the time. I'm not looking for the perfect love, just love, someone who loves me and I love them back. Our relationship doesn't have to be perfect, just strong! So gimme the money.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Ehhhhhh depends what you count as cheating, at worst I'd probably give them a spanking or some other fun punishment~

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Ehh nothing physical no.

    Do you like someone?
    I like a lot of people!

    If so, who?
    My friends! My parents! My siblings! My boss! My EC peeps! And of course my love!

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    To many people! Nyah!!

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My kitten, she's pretty much the main person on my mind.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Nothing, if they saw me I might wave politely but I wouldn't bother them or anything.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Nope. I appreciate their input and I love them, but it's none of their business.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Nope, and again, I appreciate their input, but I don't really like mixing friends with girlfriends...

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    Enjoy yourself, it's later than you think~ enjoy yourself, while your still in the pink~ the years go by as quickly as a wink~ Enjoy yourself, enjoy yourself, it's later than you think~! In other words, go have some fun! :lol:
     
  8. MrSkittles

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    When I was 14. Me and this Girl went out for 6 months

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    Never Had a First Kiss

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes. The guy I have Crush on

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Yes and I Regret It

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Yes. We are Best Friends

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    No

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?

    Do they know how you feel?

    How long was your longest relationship?
    6 months.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    6 months.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Nope.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes

    If so, why? Why not?
    Because I no he is straight and we would never date

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Ex-gf. About a year ago before we broke up

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Yeah
    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?


    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True Love

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Hell No

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?

    My Crush

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Hair,Eyes,Personality


    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My Crush, Chris Evans, or Channing Tatum
    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Just say Hi and Smile

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Nope
    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Nope
    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be

    "I'm sorry I was a bad bf and didn't tell you I was gay sooner"
     
  9. iiimee

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    Relationship Survey!

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Some boy I dated in 3rd grade... very cute, but little in common.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    The boy I dated in 3rd grade... we kissed behind a green folder.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Twice. First with this chick from my class named Kaitlynn, but we split things off rather quickly, and once she left, I felt a little empty. Then the person I currently love, a guy named Campbell.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    At least 3 times. First, Kaitlynn broke up with me because she thought I didn't love her, since I struggle expressing my emotions usually. The 2nd time was with this girl I've known since Elementary named Alexis, who is two years younger than me... than this guy named Kaleb, though he is my super close friend.

    If yes, who and how?
    Oh, I already said this above...

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Kaitlynn. I don't know what the other one even looks like anymore.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Nope. Just as friends!

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    NA

    Do they know how you feel?
    NA

    How long was your longest relationship?
    4, almost 5 months and still going strong!

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    a week... 3rd grade again...

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Campbell, my current lover has.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Because he briefly flirted with another person... I don't know if they're male or female. It's hard to tell, even though I am friends with the person he flirted with.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Ummm... date? Like, going out... I guess I went on a FRIENDLY date with this one chick whose in high school... close to my age though...

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Taken.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    NA

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Personality, intelligence, and loyalty.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Black hair, pale skin, and a very cute smile.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality 100%

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    Let's be honest, I want the money...

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Depends if I trust them not to do it again or not.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No, though my friends have offered to be so.

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    My lover, whom I call Camp.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    His eyes, his smile, and his erm, body...

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    I can't think of anyone besides my current lover... unless I could bring the perfect manga boy to life... *nosebleed*

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    If they were dating, I'd be happy for them. If I didn't know whether they were or not, I'd strike up a friendly conversation due to curiousity.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Nope. Just no murderers or drug dealers... unless they're mafia men. My parents love mafia stories...

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Nope. If my friends try to interfere in my love, they're not my friends. If my lover tries to interfere in my friendships, then they're not my love.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    "I am so glad you taught me to joys of Homestuck".
     
  10. guitar

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    When did you have your first boyfriend/girlfriend?
    I think 13, but first "serious" girlfriend was 17, boyfriend around 25.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    Girlfriend at 13, boy at 24 I think.

    Have you ever fallen in love?
    Yes, and I'm still very much 'stuck' in that hole :slight_smile:

    Have you ever broken someone's heart?
    I believe so, not on purpose. They wanted me more than I wanted them.

    If so who and how?
    See above.

    Do you get along with any of your exes
    Not really. 1 or 2 I'd probably be fine with but we no longer speak, just doing our own thing.

    Do you have feeling for any of your exes?
    Not at all.

    Do they know how you feel?
    I don't know and I don't care

    How long was your longest relationship?
    Almost 2 years, coming up on my longest with a guy, nearing 1 year.

    How long was your shortest relationship?
    Hard to say depending on what counts. 4-5 dates?

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Kinda sorta, but not a proposal.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so why? Why not?
    I'd rather not get into it.

    Are you single or taken?
    Taken.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Mutual interests help, but mutual perspectives mean more: wanting kids, lifestyle, outlook on life, beliefs, etc.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Really hard to say, I much prefer a "pretty boy" to a "lumberjack" if that makes sense.

    What is important looks or personality?
    Both.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000
    Both. Preferably at the same time :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    If you saw an ex with another girl/guy what would you do?
    I could care less.

    Do your parents have a big say in who you date?
    Not really.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    No and if they did then I wouldn't talk to them unless I could agree on what they're saying.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    You were an alright first boyfriend. Sorry it didn't work out, truly it wasn't going to long term, but you were the right person at the right time. I wish you well.

    Some answers I took from Andrew mirrored my own so I kept or modified them.
     
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    I noticed that and I'm like hmm these look a lot like my answers. :lol:
     
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    Hm... Lemme see. I usually don't like talking about myself much, but this is tempting.

    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I was 17. First year of uni.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    A guy at uni who decided he loved me after knowing me for a few days. We still see each other sometimes. He's a cool guy and we even have stuff in common; I just wasn't looking for anything serious at the time.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    I fell in love when I was 14 and I fell hard. There were instant butterflies and sparks. The feelings lasted for three years. Guy was my best friend. Also, he was gay.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I've turned down people who I know were hurt by it, but I don't think I broke their hearts. I hope not.

    If yes, who and how?
    A good friend in middle school asked me out, I declined, and we hardly ever spoke again.
    A friend at uni was struggling with depression, and I was trying to be his rock. Unfortunately, he fell for me when I wasn't single. I had trouble dissociating my extreme concern for him from deeper affection, but I wasn't going to cheat or leave my boyfriend, so... I hurt him.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?

    One of them I'm okay with. We hang out occasionally, we see each other regularly on campus, and we're pretty comfortable around each other.
    The other, I would rather not talk to again, if I could avoid it.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Other than those mentioned above, no.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    N/A

    Do they know how you feel?
    Oh, definitely.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    10 months.
    It shouldn't even have lasted two, but there were circumstances.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    A month. Maybe 3 weeks? I don't know.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    If someone told me that in earnest, I would be very concerned.
    Now, jokingly... Yes, it has happened. My best friend and I have a running joke about it, actually, and got pretend-married a while ago. I call her my wife.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?

    I think so. Not sure.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Possibly the only guy I've been in love with. I don't remember crying, though, so I might not have.
    Then I cried about the guy with depression I already mentioned, but not quite in the context you're talking about, I think.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    My girlfriend. Um, a week ago we had a picnic. We had our finals, so it was hard to go out -- we've been mainly seeing each other in our rooms these past two weeks.
    But we have a date scheduled soon. ^^

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Taken.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Not single, but it was an accident. I've never walked around hoping to find love.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Intelligence, sense of humor, open-mindedness. Someone who owns their uniqueness.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Smile, laugh, eyes, hair. Seriously, anything can be attractive, but these I probably notice first.
    An uncommon fashion sense is eye-catching, too.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    I can't be attracted to someone I think is an asshole, but I can be attracted to someone who has a great personality even though I initially thought they weren't my type. Only one of the people I've dated was someone I had an initial physical attraction to.
    So for me, personality.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    I'll take the money. I won't come by that kind of money in the near future, and it would make things a lot less stressful for me.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    It would depend on the context, but it's a definite possibility. If we both wanted to salvage our relationship, I would consider it. If they cheated because they were sick of me, then no, obviously. ^^

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nah.
    I'm taken, but anyway, I'd be worried about someone catching feelings in a FWB situation. I wouldn't want to hurt someone. But if the opportunity came up while I was single, I would consider it.

    Do you like someone?

    Yes.

    If so, who?
    My girlfriend.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Just three?
    Her hair.
    Her vulnerability.
    Her strength.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Emma Watson.
    Yeah.
    Definitely Emma Watson.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Has happened. One of my exes had a girlfriend earlier this year (they might still be together, I don't know). I met the girl before he did, and she's adorable. We hung out together occasionally.
    Now, if it was an ex with whom I had no contact, and I didn't know the girl, I'd just walk past and not say anything. And I wouldn't care.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    My mom tries. She was devastated when my ex and I broke up. And she's spent the past few months hoping I'm not serious about my girlfriend. She doesn't get a say, but she'd like to.
    I tell her about my relationships, which is good enough in my opinion. I'm an adult.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    I value my friends' opinions, but no, I make my own decisions.
    I wouldn't date someone who treats my friends like shit, obviously.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    Leave me alone.
    (Thankfully, I think he already got the hint.)
     
  13. KingJude

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

    I wouldn't say any of the things I had with girls really constituted a full-blown relationship, and I've never been with a guy. Ever.

    Who gave you your first kiss?

    Yet to have it :/

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?

    Eh. Love is a strong word. I like a guy right now. Totally straight, obviously, but it's not love, fortunately.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?

    I highly doubt it.

    If yes, who and how?

    -

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?

    Don't really have any to get along with.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?

    -

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?

    -

    Do they know how you feel?

    -

    How long was your longest relationship?

    ~3 days, although I don't count it.

    How short was your shortest relationship?

    About the same length.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?

    No.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?

    No.

    If so, why? Why not?

    -

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?

    Never been on one.

    Are you currently single or taken?

    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?

    Absolutely.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?

    Kindness, intelligence, sensitivity, romantic, intimate, funny, 'cute,

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?

    Defined facial features, muscles, hair etc.

    What is more important, looks or personality?

    Personality, although for me to be interested initially he'd have to look good too, I guess. :lol:

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?

    Why is this a question? True love.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?

    My hypothetical one, yes. If I trusted him enough, and felt he was truly sorry.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?

    No. It's hard enough for me to find normal friends. :lol:

    Do you like someone?

    Yes.

    If so, who?

    A boy who goes to my school :icon_wink

    What are three things that are attractive about them?

    Good looks, laid-back attitude, dress sense :slight_smile:

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?

    That dude ^

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?

    Assuming I had an ex, I would hope to be friendly. Depends on how bad the breakup was, I guess. :lol:

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?

    No.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?

    I doubt it.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?

    -
     
  14. blueshadedsoul

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    14

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My first (and only) boyfriend

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    I don't think so.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I have no idea, but probably not.

    If yes, who and how?
    N/A

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Only have 1 ex, I don't really talk to him anymore.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    No

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    N/A

    Do they know how you feel?
    I guess.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    7 months

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Only had one

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Lol nah

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes

    If so, why? Why not?
    My boyfriend, I don't remember exactly why but it was mostly before we started dating.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    It wasn't a ''date'' but I went out with a girl I kinda liked a couple months ago.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Yeah

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Open mind, kindness, determination, sense of humor, adventurousness, understanding

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    It varies, but in general I like long hair, nice teeth/smile, cute face, nice hands (kinda weird I know), sporty/athletic, tall (guys mostly, idc about a girl's heigh). And a tomboy style (girls) is always attractive to me.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    I hate this question lol personality is obviously what makes me like someone, but I have to be attracted to them physically too.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    Love

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    It depends, but probably not.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Eh

    Do you like someone?
    Not really

    If so, who?
    N/A

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    N/A

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Jenna Mcdougall :grin:

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    That happened many times, idgaf

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Nah

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Nope

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    I wouldn't say anything.
     
  15. biAnnika

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    Holy crap...over 30 questions?? Remind me never to sign up for another EC User Interview!

    I have a hard time believing anyone will even read this...but here goes with an attempt at answering a subset.

    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

    Decline.

    Who gave you your first kiss?

    My first kiss was actually with my first female crush, on a (long) band trip bus ride, during an impromptu game of Truth or Dare. When we were paired, and it was clear she was going to do it, my mind was screaming. We gave 'em the show they wanted...she was the first to use tongue (which I never expected, but holy shit, was it hot)! Somehow I was only asked about that incident once *blush*.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?

    More times than I can list.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?

    At least once. *sigh*

    If yes, who and how?

    I am the sort who can love more than one person at once. In fact I can't not. But I didn't always know that, and when I was young and stupid, I believed my parents and friends who said you can only love one person. I'd been seeing Y for 1.5 years before meeting my partner, whom I'd actually dreamed about for 6 years, previous to meeting her. Y and I were not perfect for one another, but we really cared for one another, and yes it was love. But when I met my partner...and got to know her...it became clear over time that we were deeply in love. Logically, I could only draw the conclusion that what I felt for Y must not be love...I *had* to be with my partner...omg, it was an evil decision and time, and although I did my best, I'm afraid I hurt Y pretty badly. The fact is that I wanted them both so much...it was my first sign of having a polyamorous nature, but I had no clue then...thought monogamy was the only real possibility for a real relationship. Don't think I could have sold either of them on anything else anyway, but I wasn't able to even consider it or try. *sigh*

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?

    Yes. It was important to me that Y and I stay friends, at least. With work and time, we have, tg.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?

    I do believe I've answered that.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?

    No. I think I've effectively moved on. She has her life, and I would hate to do anything to risk hurting her again.

    Do they know how you feel?

    Probably not, although Y knows I care about her.

    How long was your longest relationship?

    29 years and counting.

    How short was your shortest relationship?

    Assuming a single date doesn't count, 2 months.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?

    Decline.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?

    Shit yeah. Multiple times.

    If so, why? Why not?

    Once because he was moving away, and I knew the relationship was over. Several other times (different people), because I was in love, and already was in a monogamous partnership.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?


    Define date. Interpreting *very* broadly, my partner, earlier today. It was lovely. Interpreting a bit more narrowly, my partner, 2 weeks ago...we went boating down a creek together with flasks of [ALCOHOLIC POTION]. It was lovely.

    Are you currently single or taken?


    Neither. I am not single. Nor do we believe in ownership, so I can't say I'm "taken".

    If you are single, do you want to find love?

    I'm not single, but I have no doubt I'll find love anyway.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?

    Somebody asked me this once, and I gave this answer...I liked it, so I'm reusing it:

    Sensitive. Intuitive. Stable. Employable. Competent. Reasonable (should have been #1). Rational. Can compromise. Can admit fault and/or wrongdoing. Has integrity (and will hold firm on what he/she knows is right). Beautiful eyes. A strong face (much more important than a strong body...though that can be a turn-on). Good kisser. Can enjoy being quiet together. Great kisser. Sense of humor (should have been #3)...and can laugh at him/herself. Incredible kisser. Finds me attractive *first* for my mind, but also appreciates my body. Is self confident without being egotistical (should have been #2). Likes to kiss. Sexually experimental. Up for adventures (sexual or otherwise). Trustworthy (should have been #1-3). Intelligent (should have been #1-3). Enjoys long walks. Likes to play games (not mind games).

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?


    It kinda runs from top to bottom. Face, eyes, and hair first. Then moves progressively lower from there.

    What is more important, looks or personality?

    Personality. Even when looks have been an initial turn-off, I find myself growing physically attracted as I get closer to the person.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?


    I believe I already have true love. Therefore I'll take the million, as long as I don't have to give up my partner for it.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?

    Would I take her *back*? You said "cheated on you", not "left you", right? I would not dump her based on one incident. But we would have serious words, and I would need to understand why, after I have been killing myself for *years* to maintain monogamy, she was able to violate that understanding...why she couldn't talk to me to discuss a more open arrangement, as I've done with her.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?


    I cannot say "friend with benefits". But I love multiple people (and my partner has no problem with this), and one in particular is extremely close.

    Do you like someone?

    Sheesh, I like lots of people. For that matter I love quite a few.

    If so, who?

    Thorough decline. You don't know most of them anyway.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?

    Picking one in particular: he's sexy in mind, body, and soul; he respects my intelligence without it impacting his ego; he complements me (not compliments...though he does that too :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:), personality-wise and respects the differences as much as I do.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?

    Sheesh, if I don't say "my partner" how can I pick one person??

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?

    Go up to them, and assuming they don't tell me to fuck off, ask them how life has been treating them.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?

    None.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?

    None.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?


    Let me pick a different ex: K. I would tell K that although I loved them, I forgive them, and understand their choice, and have come to see it as a rather good thing for me, overall.
     
  16. conster

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    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My first girlfriend, when I was 15.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    I'd say yes, it is a long story. One girl in Year 10/11, she liked me and I liked her, she was amazing, friendly, nice personality but for some reason, I don't know what it was, I just didn't want to go into a relationship with her. The way I went about saying that was wrong, and I am sure I made her very upset. We haven't spoke since, so 3 years now. Shame how it ended but was completely my fault, the reasons for it, I still do not know to this day.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Yes.

    If yes, who and how?
    Same as above.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I don't speak to my ex-girlfriend, different education establishments now.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    No not at all

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    -

    Do they know how you feel?
    -

    How long was your longest relationship?
    5 weeks haha

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Same as above, only been in one relationship, so 5 weeks

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    No.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    No.

    If so, why? Why not?
    -

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Year 11, relationship mentioned above.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    In the future, for sure.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Humour and intelligence.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Think everything really, facial features, hair, smile.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Both are important. But in my case anyway, If I have a crush on someone, I find them more attractive than they actually are.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    To avoid a cliche, love is priceless but money would be my choice.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Probably not.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No.

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    I have on one of my friends (male) from university

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Humour, whit, caring

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My crush.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Couldn't care less, just smile really.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No. My parents have no idea in my first relationship.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Not at all, its not something I would go out blagging about. If they ask, I'd say who or whatever but not their life really.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    Nothing much, just how is university going/life going?
     
  17. McShuggles

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend? -
    My first girlfriend was when I was like...9 lol. Just stupid childhood relationships that didn't really mean anything.

    Who gave you your first kiss? -
    A girl that stayed close to me, before my first girlfriend.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who? -
    Yeap, I've fallen in love once before, really had intense feelings for him. But apparently he never felt the same way though.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart? -
    Nope.

    If yes, who and how? -
    I said no OK!?

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends? -
    I don't speak to any. But I always imagine myself being able to yes. I'm that kind of person who doesn't let feelings ruin a relationship.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time? -
    Of course I do, I loved this person. I believe love never goes away, and that you just learn to cope without them.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on? -
    Not at all. After 8 months of gloating, I am finally ready to move on.

    Do they know how you feel? -
    Unsure, they used to.

    How long was your longest relationship? -
    Like a month, ha!

    How short was your shortest relationship? -
    Like 2 weeks.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you? -
    I don't know. My "ex" and me used to joke about it, but I will never know if it was serious (even though I kind of was).

    Have you ever cried over a guy? -
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not? -
    The first time I cried over a boy I was young and stupid and I thought it was the end of the world. The second time I loved this boy and he abandoned me. The third and most recent was because me and the guy I have a thing with and myself just really admitted to each other our feelings and I cried with happiness and when we argued for the first time I cried because I hated the thought of losing him.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When? -
    I guess if my "ex" was really into me like I thought was September '14, we went for dinner and went to the movies afterwards, and went and relaxed watching horror films on his couch afterwards - although this was never an official date, it felt like one.

    Are you currently single or taken? -
    Half and half.

    If you are single, do you want to find love? -
    I think I may have finally found it.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important? -
    Similar sense of humour as me, cares about how I feel, open-minded, intelligent, spontaneous, adventurous and looks.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye? -
    How tall they are (around same height as me 5"10), and I don't really go for specifics, but generally dark qualities, like eyes and hair.

    What is more important, looks or personality? -
    Both are equal to me. You don't have to be amazingly hot, but you don't have to have an amazing personality either. As long as you match with me and you're you I don't mind.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000? -
    True love is priceless. But if I had £1,000,000 I'd probably be OK for the rest of my life. 1 million please. You get hurt too easily with love.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back? -
    No.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits? -
    Nope. I don't think it's appealing in the slightest. I only want sexual relations with people I am in love with.

    Do you like someone? -
    Yes.

    If so, who? -
    A friend of mine whom I met not too long ago, he's perfect for me, as far as I can tell.

    What are three things that are attractive about them? -
    His facial features, his personality and his accent.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be? -
    My crush.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do? -
    I'll presume you mean the ex I had feelings for. I would congratulate him on finally finding love and then punch him in the throat for betraying me.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date? -
    No. It's my choice. My mum will support me 100% with whomever I choose, within reason of course.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date? -
    No, it's my choice again and they support me, just like my mum. But again, within reason obviously.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be? -
    "Why did you do what you did to me? We're over now. And there's no going back, but you destroyed me. For 16 months I couldn't get you out of my system and everyday killed me being without you. Why did you put me through so much pain and suffering and uncertainty? Even after all of that I don't hate you, and I wish you the best in life. JK I hope you rot you inconsiderate piece of *beep*"
     
  18. awdru15

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    Location:
    worksop nottinghamshire
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    17

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    A boy at school it was a bet he had chocolate spread on his lips

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    yes am marrying him in a couple of months so it must be love ?

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I think I have once been heart broken a few times also.

    If yes, who and how?
    It would have been a guy I was seeing when I was 18 I will be honest I was just using him because he had a bit of money the sex wasn't that good I ended up being honest with him


    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    sort of .

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    no not at all

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on? NA

    Do they know how you feel?
    NA
    How long was your longest relationship?
    18 years

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    about a week when I was 17

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes and it happens in October

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    yes

    If so, why? Why not?
    we had a big argument about my lifestyle early stages of current relationship

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    we have had a few date nights in current relationship it feels good to be on a date with him like starting over again .

    Are you currently single or taken?
    taken

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    NA
    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    smile, personality, body

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    same as above

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    you cant put a price on love.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    I dont know we have been together years at the beginning we both cheated me more than him but I have always loved him not cheated in over 14 years

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    as if :roflmao:

    Do you like someone?
    Nope!

    If so, who?
    N/A

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    N/A

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Partner

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    nothing at all

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    My family are fine with my partner

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    they are fine with him

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    am sorry but I was to young at the time and am sorry I hurt you .
     
  19. Formality

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I had a girlfriend for 3 weeks when I was around 11-12.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    The girlfriend I had when I was 12.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Not really. I've had huge crushes on people but I've never felt "love".

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Not broken someone's heart but I've heart people "romantically".

    If yes, who and how?
    A girl that I later found out liked me saw me kiss another girl and she cried because of it. I was very drunk and for me the kiss was nothing but platonic (obviously) and just for fun but I realized afterwards that it might not have been the smoothest move.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    The one girlfriend I had was also one of my best friends, but another one of my friends got in a fight with her and we ended up never talking again.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Nope.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    No feelings.

    Do they know how you feel?
    ...

    How long was your longest relationship?
    3 weeks lol.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    3 weeks still.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    No

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    No.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Nope

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Never went on a date.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    YES PLEASE!

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Adventurous, happy, smiling and laughing a lot, humorous, open-minded, loving and not afraid of their emotions.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Smile, eyes, the way they move their body, tall slender yet athletic body, interesting clothes.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Both are important. Obviously personality is more important since I don't want to be with someone who is a bad person. Yet looks is also important, I want to be with someone that I am physically attracted to.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love. If I met the love of my life I could live out my days as poor and I'd still be happy.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    No chance in hell. Trust is priority. If you cheat on me you don't love me enough.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No.

    Do you like someone?
    Yesyesyes.

    If so, who?
    A guy at my school who I've had a crush since the first time I saw him.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Face, hair and body.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Him.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Nothing.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Not out to my dad nor do we ever speak about dating. They won't have a say when I do come out.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    They don't know I'm gay, but even when they do they still have no say.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    That I'd like to be friends with her again because we used to be very dear friends.
     
  20. tulipinacup

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I was around 20 when I had my first serious bf

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My first (and probably last?) bf

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yeah..to my exbf

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I have

    If yes, who and how?
    It's not something I want to talk about

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Nope. Still trying to heal each other's wounds

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Mixed feelings.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    I'd like to think that I have moved on.

    Do they know how you feel?
    I hope not.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    3 years.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Never had any relationship unless you're talking about the not so serious ones so it's probably like weeks.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Because I broke his hurt and lied to him.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    This guy 4 months ago but turns out that he's still in a relationship.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    I still don't know.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Someone who is driven into something, someone who is passionate with whatever they do, I'd like someone who can get my sense of humour and also good taste in music :grin:

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    I'm all about finding muscular guys attractive but that's just physical so I'm not really expecting anything other than that (unless they talk about that finds me interesting)

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    The first thing I would mostly notice is their looks but one thing that lasts is their personality. Both are important but I guess it just ends up with how they treat your in the end.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    Shit I'll take the money. True love can wait tbh.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    I'll give them a second chance but that's it.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nope.

    Do you like someone?
    Sure.

    If so, who?
    They're like 7 people I like right now

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Mostly comes with their physical attributes lmao

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Someone who finds me interesting? I'm willing to go on a date with anyone.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Nothing. It's better for me not to see them lmao

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    My parents would want me to date a girl so lol

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Kinda. I listen to their advice though and I either take it or have decisions on my own.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    I hope all the best for you.