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Relationship Survey!

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Anthemic, Apr 13, 2013.

  1. wolf of fire

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    When did you get your first boyfriend\ girlfriend?
    When I was 13
    Who gave you your first kiss?
    No one
    Have you ever fallen in love? If so with whom?
    My first girlfriend
    Have you ever broken anyone's heart?
    No
    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends\ girlfriends?
    No
    Do you have any feelings for any exes at this point?
    Beyond hatred no
    If so are they too strong to move on?
    No
    Do they know how you feel?
    Hopefully
    How long was your longest relationship?
    A week
    How long was your shortest relationship?
    A week
    Has anyone ever told you they want to marry you?
    No
    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    No
    Who was the last person you went on a date with?
    A girl who was like a girlfriend but we were not official (it's hard to explain)
    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single
    If you are single are you looking for love?
    Not really
    What are the things you look for in a person that are important?
    Share my madness
    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    I don't really
    What is more important looks or personality?
    Personality
    Which would you prefer true love or £1,000,000?
    The money
    If your boyfriend\ girlfriend cheated would you take them back?
    No
    Do you like someone?
    No
    If you could go on a date with anyone who would i be?
    Jen Law
    If you saw an ex out with another girl\ guy what would you do?
    Avoid them
    Do your parents have a big say who you date?
    No
    Do you friends have a say who you date?
    No
    If you could say one thing to you ex what would it be?
    ...
     
  2. Aspen

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I was 17. It was spring of my senior year of high school.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My first boyfriend.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    I'm not sure, actually. I might be in love with my girlfriend.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Yes.

    If yes, who and how?
    My first boyfriend. I was leaving for college, he still had another two years of high school and even though I wasn't leaving for a few months I couldn't handle the idea of a relationship with an expiration date. He didn't see it coming.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I don't speak to either of them anymore, but I got along well enough with my first ex-boyfriend until we lost contact.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Not romantic or sexual.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    No.

    Do they know how you feel?
    No.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    Eight months and counting.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    A little less than three months.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    No.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    My high school crush (it was a long-winded one, I had feelings for him on and off for five years) bullied me relentlessly until I hated him more than anyone I knew. I cried over my first ex because I hurt him and my second ex because we fought constantly toward the end of our relationship and the stress was too much.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Despite three relationships, I've technically never been out on an official date.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Taken

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Honesty, trust, empathetic

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Blue eyes, hair I can run my fingers through, a smile

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Probably not.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No

    Do you like someone?
    Yes

    If so, who?
    My girlfriend

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Her glasses. Her eyes. Her advanced fandom knowledge (I'm attracted to nerds).

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My girlfriend

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    If it was my first ex, I'd probably go over and say hi. I'd be really happy for him. If it was my second ex, I would try to avoid him.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Nope. They definitely wouldn't want me dating a girl. It's more of a "When you find someone (a man) you really love, bring him home to meet the family" situation.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Also no. They're not really the type to judge SOs so as long as the relationship is healthy I don't think they'd interfere.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    "I'm not sorry for breaking up with you. It was the right thing to do at the time and we never would have worked out. I am sorry for the way I broke up with you. I should have talked more about leaving for college, about how I felt that we were going to be in different worlds. I should have talked more about how much I wanted to escape our too-small hometown and just get away. I should have told you that when we struggled to find anything to talk about while I was away for spring break that I knew then and there that long-distance would never have worked for us.

    I shouldn't have sprung it on you like that, but I didn't think I could wait. I'd never broken up with anyone before. I hope that you're doing well and that you've found an amazing girl. I know I have."
     
  3. FancyGummy

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I haven't.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    N/A

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Eyyup. Kid from high school. Fell in love the moment I saw them (and I didn't even realize I was bi till' then!)

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    About to.

    If yes, who and how?
    A 15-year-old girl who I see every weekend. I need to explain to her that while I love her as a freind, I don't love her the way she loves me. I'm really scared, because I recently discovered that she's cutting herself. :icon_sad:

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    N/A

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    N/A

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    N/A

    Do they know how you feel?
    N/A

    How long was your longest relationship?
    If crushes count? 3 1/2 years.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    N/A

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Somewhat Ironically, considering the last answers, Yes. My cousin said that somewhat jokingly (we're very close)

    Have you ever cried over a guy/girl/anyone?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    I'm crying about the girl who I don't really love, because I'm afraid I'll hurt her. And I've cried over my crush, because they have been so miserable at times.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    N/A, but I'd like to consider some of the class trips I've been on with my crush dates, we were together the whole time for some of them :icon_bigg

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single, but considering myself taken until I find the courage to say something to the one I actually love.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Absolutely.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Compassion, Trustworthiness, open to different ideas, morally strong

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Their face, hair, butt... and, just the way they usually act (which
    can have a physical affect on them) (shy people are soooo cute)

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Both are important. When I see someone I find attractive, of course they catch my interest. But if they have a horrible personality, they automatically become unattractive. So I guess personality is more important. (STOLEN!)

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love is priceless. No amount of money can make me feel as complete as someone else's love. (ALSO STOLEN!)

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Hmm. Tough question. It would depend on the circumstances.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No. I don't find friends with benefits the least bit appealing. I have to have feelings for someone if I'm going to be intimate with them. (ALSO ALSO STOLEN!)

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    I have a crush on a friend (the one I mentioned from HS earlier) who might actually be trans MtF (which I only thought recently but am not very surprised by)

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Their gentleness, sense of right and wrong, quiet personality, the fact that their quite skiddish (funny thing to find attractive, I know) their hair (which they recently dyed, it goes perfectly with their eyes), their voice... Okay, pretty much everything :3

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My crush.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    If I had an ex, I would probably still say hi, depending on how they felt about me. I would strive to continue as friends.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No. All they know is that I have a crush on "a guy from school" (which isn't even true considering they do not consider themselves male anymore as far as I know)

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    None of them really know about this. I've heard people joke about me and my crush being together though :lol:

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex crush, what would it be?

    I just... wanted to say... that if anyone in the world should have self-esteem issues, it isn't you. I think you're the greatest person I have ever met, and I love you. I've loved you ever since I met you. A little confusion as to the parts downstairs doesn't change that at all. And if it means anything, I practically never saw you as male anyways. You have always just been you, and I love you for it. (If that bothers them, I'll shut up. If not... :kiss:)
     
  4. Candace

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I was 19 when I had my first boyfriend. We met at Election night 2012 when Obama got reelected, and we hit it off after that.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    He did. My first boyfriend.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes. I fell in love with a guy from Brazil, who was super attractive, loved my dorkiness, helped me master Portuguese, and would say the sweetest things to me.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Yes. Unfortunately.

    If yes, who and how?
    The guy from Brazil. I told him that I wouldn't want to move to Brazil and that having a relationship over that long of a distance would be insane.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Everyone except the first one.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Not at all.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    Absolutely not.

    Do they know how you feel?
    No. They don't care.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    Nine months.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    77 days.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes. But I'm sure that it was a joke.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    I hated that we lived so far apart and that for me to find a guy who would appreciate and love me for me, I'd have to travel so far. :/

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    My soon to be ex (unless things change). This was about a month ago. We went to breakfast at Panera Bread.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Taken, but I might change my mind soon.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Absolutely.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Good sense of humor, intelligence, loyalty, and companionship.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Eyes, arms, hair, and their smile

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Both, since the looks will initially draw me in, while their personality will make me decide whether or not they're dating material.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love, hands down.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    No. Like the garbage, they get put out on the curb.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nope.

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, whom?
    I have a crush on someone here on EC.


    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Their personality, loyalty, and face.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My crush.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    If it were the ex that I hate, then I'd tell the newbie "well, hope you have better luck with him than I did".

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Nope. I never really tell my mom (my dad doesn't know) about my relationships.

    Do your friends have a say as to whom you date?
    Heck no.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    "I'm sorry for wasting my time with you. I hope someone can treat you just as badly in order for you to finally realize what you put me through and that for once you can finally wake up".
     
  5. Gwendolyn

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    Not really much point in this, but I'll do it anyway.

    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Never

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    no one yet.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Nope

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Nope

    If yes, who and how?
    N/A

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    N/A

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    N/A

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    N/A

    Do they know how you feel?
    N/A

    How long was your longest relationship?
    N/A

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    N/A

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Nope

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Nope

    If so, why? Why not?
    N/A

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    nobody

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Yep. I doubt that'll happen anytime soon though.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Same views on life in general,

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Not really sure. It depends.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    More personality. Maybe looks to some extent, but not much.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    true love. I'm not sure what I would do with a million dollars. Buy more video games?

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Depends on the circumstances

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nope

    Do you like someone?
    Used to.

    If so, who?


    What are three things that are attractive about them?


    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    As of right now, not anyone I know of.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    N/A

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Nope.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Not really.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    N/A
     
  6. Ned B

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Girlfriend: never had one, though there's been a girl or two that have wanted to be my girlfriend. Boyfriend: 25, a little over a year ago.

    Who gave you your first kiss?

    My current and first boyfriend. One of only two guys I have kissed (the second wasn't supposed to happen).

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    I've fallen in love maybe three times. Two have been with people that I could never have (one straight, the other not interested). The third was my current love.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?

    Maybe.

    If yes, who and how?
    There was one guy I went on a few dates with for two weeks. He was really into me, but though I enjoyed spending time with him, didn't feel anything for him. It ended badly.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I don't have any yet. Both former crushes are still friends.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    I still have some feelings for the two guys I fell in love with, couldn't have, but are still friends. Sometimes it is a little complicated.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    I have mostly moved on from one. It helps that I rarely see him. I am working on the other, but it is sometimes challenging.

    Do they know how you feel?
    Sort of, but probably not really.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    1 year, 3 weeks, and still counting.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    1 year, 3 weeks. I've only had one.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Did so last weekend over one of those friends for whom I still had feelings.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Not including my boyfriend, it would be the guy whose heart I might have broken after a few dates. I met my boyfriend two days later.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Taken

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    N/A

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Someone that's looking for dedication, is a good confidant, isn't afraid to be emotionally open, has an open mind, likes to be active and is willing to try new things. Someone with life goals. They have to be at least a little geeky, iotherwise they won't be able to stand me.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    I usually go for taller guys. Great legs and a little chest hair are always a turn on. But usually it's the face, his smiles, and his eyes that seal it for me.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality first and foremost. I don't have a physical type that I go for as much as a personality type. That said, if there is no physical attraction, it's not going to happen.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love. Although my love happens to be a millionaire by inheritance (didn't know that when we met).

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Possibly. I would at least look at the circumstances.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No. I don't really want one either.

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    My boyfriend, thankfully.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Their kindheartedness and selflessness, dedication, and intelligence. And his handsome body (sorry that was four).

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Him.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Not having been in that situation, I don't know. But there's a good chance that I wouldn't take it well.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No. I've never really given them a say. Plus I didn't come out to them until very recently.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    No.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    I don't have an ex to say something to.
     
  7. Jenna0780

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I had my first girlfriend when I was 13, and my first boyfriend when I was 14.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My second girlfriend, when I was 14.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes. The first person I fell in love with was my second girlfriend, who later told me she identifies as a straight female. The next was my second boyfriend, who cheated on me after 6 years. And the person that I'm currently with, and have been with for almost three years.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I don't know. I think I was always the heart-breakee.

    If yes, who and how?
    N/A

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I am on speaking terms with all of my exes except for the guy that cheated on me.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    No.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    N/A

    Do they know how you feel?
    No.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    6 years.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    6 months.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Because he frickin' cheated on me.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    My SO, who took me to the horse races this past weekend.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Taken.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    N/A

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Intelligence, low temper, high self esteem, playful, good sense of humor, loyal, affectionate, and who isn't afraid to be a little weird sometimes.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Their eyes, and how they carry themselves.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality, for sure. If someone has an amazing enough personality, I will find them physically attractive.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love. Although I could certainly use $1,000,000.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    No.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No. It's never been something I desired.

    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    My SO.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Dimples, eyes, and the way they carry themself.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My SO. Or Penelope Cruz as a close second.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    I would wave and say "hi."

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    I take their input with a grain of salt, but I'd still take it. My parent has liked all of the people that I've dated, though.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    No. My loyalty is not as much to my friends as it is to my SO and my family.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    There's nothing that went unsaid, and I'm on good terms with my exes, except the guy that cheated on me, to who I would say, "screw you."
     
  8. ChibiXio

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I think I was fifteen...or maybe fourteen.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My first boyfriend.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes. With this one girl I know will never return my feelings.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I hope not :frowning2:

    If yes, who and how?
    N/A

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Ah, no. He still likes me.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Not anymore.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    Nope. At first they were.

    Do they know how you feel?
    Yeah.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    Two years.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Errr...two years. I haven't dated since >.>

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yeeeeaaah

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    All the time.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Can I just skip?

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    I'm um...technically not supposed to date...so never gone on one.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single as a pringle yet not ready to mingle.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Blaaaah. Love.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Funny. Geeky. Loves music. Fan girls/boys over some stuff. Loyal. Honest.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Tall...nice smile...awesome hair.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality. Screw looks.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    Hrmmm...someone who will eventually hurt me, or a niiiice guitar and amp. Hard to choose.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Depends.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nooo...all my friends are girls...and straight.

    Do you like someone?
    Yup.

    If so, who?
    Someone I can never have.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Her personality. The way she smiles. The way she laughs. The way she smells. The way she is modest.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Jinxx. (Jeremy Miles Ferguson from Black Veil Brides)

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Ignore him.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    ...they don't let me date.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Kinda ish. If they know the person.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    "You were awesome, I don't regret anything I did. Just please understand that I did love you. I just fell out of love with you, and fell in love with someone else."
     
  9. Gentlady

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I haven't had one. Not a real one.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My lips are virgins :grin:

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes, with my best friend.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I honestly don't know. I suppose not.

    If yes, who and how?
    -

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Okay there's this fake ex bf. And I do not get along with him. We hate each other.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Nope

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    -

    Do they know how you feel?
    I guess my answer is still "-"

    How long was your longest relationship?
    That fake one? 2 months

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Look the previous answer...

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    No. Kindergarten doesn't count :grin:

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Because I know I'll never have him.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    I've never been on a date.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Singleee.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Naturally.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    I don't look for anything. I keep my mind open. .....okay, .aybe I do want loyalty and honesty. But that's about all I look for.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    It's something different every time.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    I don't believe in true love, so the money.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Depends.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No, the idea disgusts me.

    Do you like someone?
    Definitely.

    If so, who?
    This one guy in my class....

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    His smile(that I so rarely get to see), his eyes and his laughter(that I so rarely get to hear).

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My crush or my love. I dunno.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    I'd be surprised and ignore them.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No. My date is my date, not theirs.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    No.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    I have nothing to say to him, really. I'm indifferent about him.
     
  10. QueerQueen

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    My first boyfriend was 9 or 10, first girlfriend was 18

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    The first guy I dated on a dare or spin the bottle type thing

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes. My first girlfriend Aimee and my second last girlfriend Alexis

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Probably

    If yes, who and how?

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Most of them yeah, my ex boyfriend used to be my best friend and I've always kept in contact with Alexis

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Yes Alexis

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    No, moving on is always possible it just takes time, but I don't want to move on from her.

    Do they know how you feel?
    Yes, we have mutual feelings.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    Over a year

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Not sure maybe like a week?

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes

    If so, why? Why not?
    It was more than one time.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Allison a girl I was seeing last year

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Technically single, but I'm pretty committed to my ex

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Still have it with my ex

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    The ability to make me laugh, affection, honesty, fun, intelligence

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Eyes, smile, dark hair, face, confidence

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality over looks, but I need to be somewhat attracted to her

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Probably not

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No

    Do you like someone?
    Yes

    If so, who?
    Alexis

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    God everything.. but her eyes, her voice and personality, the way she carries herself

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Alexis

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Depends who, if it was Alexis I'd go jump in her arms haha.. anyone else I would smile wave go up and say hey possibly.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    I would like them to get along with the girl I'm with, but I wouldn't break up with someone because of my parents opinions.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    ^ Pretty much the same as the previous question.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    Not sure I get along with pretty much all of my exes, If it was my first girlfriend I would try and befriend her
     
  11. DangerAlex

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    I had my first girlfriend when I was 14 and my first boyfriend when I was 25.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My first kiss was from the aforementioned girlfriend months before we were dating, but I'd say it was the kiss that made us realize we felt something more for each other.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Yes, I've been in love several times. But no two incarnations are exactly the same, and they're all at varying levels of intensity. I was very in love with my first girlfriend, whom I dated on and off from age 14 to 20. I was quietly in love with this other girl, and finally dated her briefly when I was 16. There was this girl with whom I worked at this summer camp when I was 19; I was quite in love with her and although we had a very heated affair, it was never official and lasted only through the following fall and winter. And then there was my roommate's girlfriend when I was living in MS; for obvious reasons, I couldn't let much come of that although we were definitely playing with fire at the time. Now I'm head-over-heels in love with my boyfriend of almost a year, and somehow I haven't scared him away yet.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    I try to let them down as easily as I can, but yes, unfortunately it has happened.

    If yes, who and how?
    It was a girlfriend in college that I dated shortly after things ended once and for all with my high school sweetheart. She said she felt like a placeholder for someone else, and--heartlessly--I said, "Well, you kind of are." I kind of regret letting it end in that way.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I'm not on speaking terms with those with whom I've had the most intense connections. I find that the more casual the dating situation, the easier it is to remain friends after.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    I wish I could say no with complete honesty, but I can't. I'm still not quite over the first girlfriend. It was a long, draw-out relationship with some very extreme highs and lows, and the way it ended was, to say the very least, very damaging. And I also never got any closure, which I find imperative to move on completely. But I'm with my boyfriend now and I now know that I love him more than I loved her, plus he's so good to me and better for me than she was. Maybe in time I'll be able to answer this differently.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    No. See above.

    Do they know how you feel?
    I think so.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    Age 14 to 20, though it was inconsistent. The longest stretch in that time was two consecutive years, although we were together way more than we weren't.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Three months or thereabouts.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes, two people... first girlfriend and current boyfriend.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes. My boyfriend left me back in early February. We didn't get back together until late March, so we were apart for almost two full months. It was one of the worst times of my life. And I was so consistently dehydrated from crying all the time.

    If so, why? Why not?
    See above. (These questions are kind of redundant.)

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    My boyfriend, yesterday.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Taken, and happily so.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    N/A

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    In my girls, I've always been attracted to long dark hair, deep and dark brown eyes, fair skin that tans in the warm months, stylish but not necessarily a label whore... funny, smart, independent, considerate, generous, and ambitious. In a guy, I like someone who takes care of his body, has a somewhat preppy/trendy style (without overdoing it), has a bubble butt (my boyfriend's is a Platonic ideal; it's absolutely stunning and I can't keep my hands off it), just a little body hair but definitely not hairy, something between light brown and blond hair, blue or green eyes... intelligent, funny (sarcastic preferably), kind of masculine (like the 'provider' type), outgoing, social, ambitious.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    See above.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    In a perfect world, it would be personality enhanced by looks--like my boyfriend. Personality is definitely the more important of the two, but most people want at least some looks to go with it.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    That's a tough call because I do love money (it's a necessary evil), but I can't imagine not having my boyfriend so I guess I'll have to say true love.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    I don't know, that's a tough call. I'd like to say no, but I don't think it would be so easy to walk away, even after being cheated on. I would probably give him one more chance.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    I don't right now, but I have before and, if single, I would again.

    Do you like someone?
    I actually am totally, completely in love with him.

    If so, who?
    My boyfriend.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    His personality, his body, his skill in the bedroom (shew).

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My boyfriend. Not the most interesting answer, but I love him and he's my favorite person to be around.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Maybe acknowledge her with a smile and a nod, but otherwise I wouldn't approach her.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No, not at all.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Nope, not at all. But having said that, I wouldn't tolerate a significant other who treated my friends badly for no reason, or vice versa.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    I'd say... "I've put a lot of time and effort into getting over you. Please, please let me go. Don't call me again because you know I can't stop myself from running. I'm really happy now, happier than you ever wanted to make me, and this distance from you has been the absolute best thing for me. But I do wish you well and all the best."
     
  12. SaraSempiternal

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Boyfriend.. I was 12.. I hate him..
    Girlfriend... I was 13... She's a psychopath now. LOL. We're still friends.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    My first boyfriend, when I was 12.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Once.. My now ex named Josh.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Yes.

    If yes, who and how?
    I've broken so many hearts.. my first was my first girlfriend actually.. She was just a crazy girl and too clingy.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    A few. My most recent ones mostly.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    I truly don't know. I'm really confused.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    For one I just can't..

    Do they know how you feel?
    Yes. They all feel the same way as I do.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    2 years.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    1 day.. Her mother didn't like me so I left her to not cause any trouble..

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes.

    If so, why? Why not?
    Mostly because I felt lonely.. but one because I truly loved them. I still do. Which confuses my sexuality. >_<

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Josh. Over a year ago.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    I don't know..

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Loyalty, Intellect.. And they have to care and be nice and understanding..

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Modesty and eyes. :/

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Looks disappear, personality doesn't.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    I'd rather eat crumbs with bums.. than eat steak with snakes..

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    I want to say no.. but I'm way to forgiving.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    We have feelings for each other..

    Do you like someone?
    I don't know..

    If so, who?
    I don't know..

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Personalities.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    The only guy I still truly love.. -confused-

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    It's not my concern.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Yes and no. If the person I was dating treated my friends badly, then I would not date them. But if my friends couldn't come up with a valid reason for me to not date someone, then no.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    To the exes who've hurt me in any way.. I have one common thing. "You hurt me, I forgive you. I don't want to hear what you have to say. I don't want your excuses or "I love you"s.. I want you to just accept that you hurt me.. Accept it's not being held against you.. And move on."

    To the person I still love.. "I know I'm confused. I'm sorry. I know I can't see a man sexually but yet I can see myself with you. Your gender never bothered me. I want us to work. I'm just scared and confused. I know we're only a FWB type thing.. I want to be more.. I know you do too.. Why can't we put the effort in..?"
     
  13. justjade

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    It was actually when I was engaged to my ex-husband. That's when I first met him. I was heading to a comic book convention and had a book I'd put together that I was getting printed. He was the one who printed it. However, I didn't actually become friends with him until I was going through the divorce.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    I was 18 in my freshman year of college. He was my first boyfriend.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    I fall easily. I can't even tell you how many times. :lol:


    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?

    Oh, god, so many times.

    If yes, who and how?
    I cheated on a lot of my old boyfriends. I mean, a lot. Like, almost all of them. I think, though, that the time that was the worst was with my ex-husband. He found out I was having an affair, and watching him cry absolutely tore me up inside.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Yeah. In fact, one of my ex-boyfriends is my best friend.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Yeah, I still love one. I will always love him. But I'm ready to let him go.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    No, not really.

    Do they know how you feel?
    Yes.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    My husband! He and I will be married 2 years on October 12th! The time we were dating doesn't really count because it was only like 4 months before we tied the knot.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Gosh, I don't even know. I didn't keep track of a lot of them. But I did go on this really terrible date once, and I never went out with him again. That was the only date I seriously tried to bail on.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes. I've been married twice.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yes. So, so many times.

    If so, why? Why not?
    It's usually been because I was blind-sided by the breakup, although I did cry a lot over my ex-husband quite a bit while going through the divorce.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    I don't even know where the line is drawn. I'm married, so we spend a lot of time together and do date-like things all the time. We have dinner and DBZ marathons and stuff a lot. I pick up ingredients, and he cooks for me. We have a lot of fun together.

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Happily married to the only straight guy I've ever met who would even consider staying with a trans partner! (!)


    If you are single, do you want to find love?

    Breakfast.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    I like my guys with a good sense of humor, wisdom, maturity, and compassion.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    I really like glasses. I know this is kind of cosmetic, but glasses are fucking hot. I also like a guy who knows how to dress. If a guy dresses like a douche all the time, something's going to have to give. And by give, I mean his clothes to Goodwill. As far as body type, I go for guys who have soft bodies, skinnier or bigger.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality. I can get past physical appearance issues. Except lack of style, evidently. :lol:

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    Love. There's no way in hell I'd even consider giving up what I have with my husband for anything.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    It depends. I'd want to give a second chance, but it really depends on their reason for cheating and who it was.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nope.

    Do you like someone?
    Yes. :3

    If so, who?
    My sweetie pie.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    His intelligence, compassion, and sense of humor.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    This is going to sound weird, but what even is a date?

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Probably wouldn't care.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Nope. I've twenty-five. I can date who I want.


    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?

    Yeah. I've learned that they tend to be right about people, even if I don't want to believe them.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    I have nothing to say to any of them.
     
  14. Toast8971

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    In 6th grade
    Who gave you your first kiss?
    Haven't kissed anyone yet

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Nope
    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Doubt it.

    If yes, who and how?

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    I get along with both of my exes
    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    I don't know.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    Nope
    Do they know how you feel?
    No.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    5 months

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    1 month

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    No
    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    No

    If so, why? Why not?
    I don't let myself care too much about a person until I know what type of person he/she is
    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    Technically, I've never been on a date
    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Yes

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Someone I can talk to easily

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Their hair

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality
    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    How do you know it's true love?
    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Dunno

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    No.
    Do you like someone?
    Yes.

    If so, who?
    Good friend of mine

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Personality, not too girly, smart

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    My crush.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Ignore them
    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    Kind of

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Nope
    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    "Just try to understand"
     
  15. Jethro702

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Haven't yet.
    Who gave you your first kiss?
    No one.
    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    Nope, just silly crushes.
    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    Nope.
    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    None to get along with.
    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Nope, none to have feelings for.
    Do they know how you feel?
    Nope, none to know how I feel.
    How long was your longest relationship?
    Haven't had one.
    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Haven't had one.
    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Nope.
    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Nope.
    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    No one. Never.
    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single!
    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    Yep!
    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Personality, morals, looks...
    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Hair, eyes, height, a slim but somewhat toned body.
    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Equal.
    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    Love.
    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Not sure.
    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    Nope.
    Do you like someone?
    Of course!
    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    The way they act, his hair, his body.
    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    I can't decide.
    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    None to see, but I wouldn't do anything.... maybe say hi if I walked by.
    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    They like to think they do, but nah.
    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    Nope.
    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    No ex to say anything to.


    Saddest survey ever......
     
  16. mobrien1993

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  17. Kaiser

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
    Never had one. Closest to ever having one, was in 6th grade. I had da feelz for a friend's older, 8th grade sister, who also liked me. But that never went anywhere... and she's a nurse now, married, and seemingly happy.

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    I assume this is from someone that isn't a relative. If so, no one. I've never been kissed on the lips. I have, however, received a kiss on the cheek, but that was more a customary thing, when I was visiting Europe.

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?
    To a degree. I've come to greatly care for people, but it never goes anywhere beyond a concerned companion. Blame the fates or some unknown factor. But I've never been with someone, and in love, in the manner I'm sure this survey is asking.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?
    In a romantic sense, no. In others, yes. But I've made amends for almost all of them, even if most of the metaphorical scars will never fade, they're healing.

    If yes, who and how?
    I was just a reckless and horrible person. I'd use and break people. 'Nuff said.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?
    Never had an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?
    Never had an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?
    Again, never had an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend, so this doesn't apply.

    Do they know how you feel?
    Once more, never had an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend.

    How long was your longest relationship?
    I'm not typing out the above answer, again.

    How short was your shortest relationship?
    Look above.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?
    Yes, a few, but not romantically. Primarily because they find me a pillar of comfort and a rock of support. They wanted someone to help them get through life. I've considered, possibly, that in due time, feelings may develop... but I declined.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Not a romantically-linked guy, no. But I have cried over a guy I grew up with.

    If so, why? Why not?
    This guy wound up committing suicide by jumping in front of a train. Why I cried was because he was someone I gave a hard time, but also someone I had a bit of sympathy for. He let himself be a punching bag for other assholes, and I not knowing better, contributed partially to that behavior. He definitely didn't deserve to ever feel like he did, or to be treated like he was. I feel a great regret and misery, and sometimes, I still have a hard time driving across those train tracks. But, when you're ignorant, you just assume no one would ever really give up on living. I learned then, I know now.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?
    With romantic intentions, no one. But I have gone out with some people, and usually had to wind up playing bouncer/protector for people, especially if we're in a loud and intoxicated environment. I've gained favorable impression from da womenz and da gaiz for this, so it kind of counts?

    Are you currently single or taken?
    Single, baby.

    If you are single, do you want to find love?
    It would be nice, yes. But focusing just on that, never allows you to build and guide yourself. You stay the same miserable, pining, naive kid that you were, when you sacrificed living your life to daydream about living your life. As you travel, be it within yourself, or to all corners of the universe, you will encounter people, ideas, situations, and identities, crime, opinions. These will either teach you what not to be, or what is possible to be -- and deciding whether to apply these traits and characteristics, become a crucial part of forming yourself. Unless I know and can love myself, how can I ever truly do the same with a significant other?

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?
    Self-Love, first and foremost. You don't have to be the King/Queen of Da Wurldz. But at least respect yourself enough to, be kind to yourself. As much love as I can willingly give you, I'm going to want some in return. Love is kind of like the fuel that powers the relationship.

    I should just write an 80s Power Rock Ballad, with some of this corny-ass shit, LOL.

    Passion. About something, anything. If you want to be down with Yahtzee, do you. If you want to be the best at juggling television remotes, do you. If you want to invent a time machine, hell, I'll help you! Lol.

    Communication. Kind of a given, I'd hope. Just the ability to, if need be, being able to talk and navigate through things. Yes, we might get mad, sad, or upset about something, but try to, as soon as possible, be willing to decide the next step. I don't want life to become all about one incident or misspoken answer. In general, just being able to talk about anything, or having the willingness to do so, is all I ask. You don't like politics? Okay, fine, but at least hear me out. I don't like Mathematics, so, you tell me about a new formula for measuring an angle's trajectory, whil-- not bad for bullshitting a math example, is it? LOL! Point is, communicating is a founding pillar of any relationship, at least a successful one.

    Affection. I don't want to be slobbered on, but a random surprise hug, or a playful tickling, is a-okay by me. This probably stems from my very limited physical contact in life, but the idea of cuddling is both a depressing and happy one. It doesn't even have to be intimate, it could just be random high-fives or fist bumps. Hell, if they can, we could throw up Wu-Tang, too! Lol.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    Ah, the aesthetics. How I detest such... but, this is probably going to be one of the more interestingly selfish glimpses into myself, so, why deny an audience?

    Towards the feminine side of things, I like curves. Not a Jessica Rabbit collection, mind you, even just a little is fine. It's silly to admit, but it would be nice to hold someone, arms around those curves, and be totally cuddly. I enjoy eyes, too. The color isn't too important, really, but the 'sparkle' in them. I like to see people either happy, in thought, or passion, in their eyes. Just the desire to do good, and to strive towards something. Make-up can be cute, but I'm an advocate for natural-looking. Maybe it's my slight hippie ways, or perhaps it's because I tend to accept others, but knowing a feminine spirit can take what she was born with, and making it work, not only instills positive energy, it leaves my heart aflutter. Confidence, not arrogance, also leaks into that. You don't have to know everything, just be willing to learn; you don't have to speak in fancy jargon, just be knowledgeable about verbal creativity; you don't have to always succeed, just be willing to stay driven. We all will fail, be embarrassed, or dislike ourselves at some point -- accept it, and keep going, with what and who matters...

    Okay, that was pretty corny. I apologize.

    In men, just generally fit. You don't have to be a bulking heap of muscle, but show that you take care of yourself. This is a given with women, too. Just treat yourself well, because it shows self-love. Be passion about something, even if it's beating the final boss in Final Fantasy 6 (fuck you, Kefka, for all those years of adolescent torment! LOL). Handle your business, but let me be willing to know and support it. There are times when, yeah, we need alone time, but don't always feel you need it -- bonding over trials and tribulations, is incredible cement for the relationship's foundation. I'm not picky about facial or body hair, only that it be well groomed. If you can rock it, well, you rock it, damn it! The waist area is particularly appealing, I suppose, as well.

    At the end of the day... girls, boys... love yourself, do you, and share in my hatred of Kefka, and we're good.

    What is more important, looks or personality?
    Personality. If you asked me years ago, looks.

    Since I've begun meditating, I tend to view people differently. Yes, I notice the color of someone's shirt, or that they have green eyes, or their bodily frame, but it vanishes fairly quickly. As I meet people, and get to know them, I begin to sort of see a thin blend of colors, almost like an aura. Given enough time, I believe I could fall for almost anyone, provided they weren't a total asshole or deliberately against it.

    However, I'd be a damn liar if I said, looks don't hurt. But they are negotiable.

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?
    True love. I'm confident my true love and I, would be making bank, so we'd wave that one million away. It wouldn't be nothing but chump change to us!

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
    Totally depends on the circumstances. For an elaborated answer, check this thread.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?
    In the intimate sense, no. In the networking sense, somewhat. I'm not exactly buddy-buddy with some people, but I'm respectful of them, when around, and we both gain something out of it. I, some leeway, and them, one less problem.

    Do you like someone?
    Sure.

    If so, who?
    [CLASSIFIED INFORMATION]

    I can't just put someone on blast like that. Not my style.

    What are three things that are attractive about them?
    Enough. Plain and simple.

    If you could go on a date with anyone, who would it be?
    Anyone, as in anyone in existence? That's a tough one, hm...

    If the intent was just to get something out of it, probably Oprah. Who couldn't use her wealth? Also, it'd be kind of cool to have the ability to meet practically anyone.

    If the intent was to just have the experience, probably [CLASSIFIED INFORMATION], a young lady I know is so far out of my league. I don't say that as in, it is impossible, but that it is not feasible. She is doing incredibly well for herself right now, and I'm not able to give back an equal amount to her life. However, a random date, just to get to know her better, I could dig that.

    I know, I know. I didn't list Johnny Depp or Constance Marie (George Lopez, you bastard! LOL).

    I'm boring. Sue me?

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?
    Considering I don't have an ex, I can't really answer this. I assume, if I did have one, I'd be slightly curious. It wouldn't dominate my thoughts, but it'd be interesting to wonder.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?
    No. Even as a kid, I had little supervision. My father would probably have been amused, and my mother curious. So long as I went to school and didn't drag them into my problems, they tended to give me leniency.

    Do your friends have a say as to who you date?
    No. I'd listen to them. Unless they told me he'd/she'd done something absolutely horrible, like slaughter an entire community, I'd allow the one I'm dating to help me decide.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?
    "Where were you? I don't have any ex stories to share. LOL!"
     
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  18. Akane

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    When did you get your first boyfriend\ girlfriend?
    -I was in the 7th grade, so 13?

    Who gave you your first kiss?
    -My first girlfriend

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so with whom?
    -Haha! I thought my first boyfriend in 7th grade was my true love!
    -I guess I fell head over heels with this one brainy girl my sophomore year of high school.

    Have you ever broken anyone's heart?
    -Yep! Most of them were my ex-boyfriends back in high school.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends\ girlfriends?
    -It was easier to do back in high school but nowadays, heck no.

    Do you have any feelings for any exes at this point?
    -Well, I always have some feelings for the ones I really think I feel for. I still got some feelings for my first boyfriend back in the 7th grade for crying out loud (we never really broke up :eek:slight_smile: and I still got feelings for one of my ex-girlfriends who I dated my freshman year of college.

    If so are they too strong to move on?
    -I can move on. It's not very strong at all. Although I would love to reconnect with one or both of them.

    Do they know how you feel?
    -No, they probably forgot about me... :frowning2:

    How long was your longest relationship?
    -Almost a year....at least 8 to 10 months.

    How long was your shortest relationship?
    -Geez, like 4 days? XD Does that even count?!

    Has anyone ever told you they want to marry you?
    -Yep, more than once actually.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    -Yep. *sigh* High school days. Gotta love 'em.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with?
    -An old high school acquaintance of mine (That was more than a year ago. lol)

    Are you currently single or taken?
    -Single

    If you are single are you looking for love?
    -Not really, I think I would rather love FIND me.

    What are the things you look for in a person that are important?
    -Same core values, spiritual (preferably Christian), very caring and has a sense of humor.

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?
    -Well I tend to see the body shape (and I love all shapes and sizes :icon_bigg) but it is the eyes that tell everything (they can make me melt into a puddle).

    What is more important looks or personality?
    -Personality. Looks is a bonus, if their personality is crummy then they don't look as attractive as I originally saw them.

    Which would you prefer true love or £1,000,000?
    -Hey, I'm a college student, OF COURSE I will take the bloody money, ask me again in 4 years and the answer will change.

    If your boyfriend\ girlfriend cheated would you take them back?
    -No...actually I don't know. Last time I got cheated on she stuck with the dummy and never asked to take her back.

    Do you like someone?
    -Not really.

    If you could go on a date with anyone who would i be?
    -Some people got the right idea to go on a date with Jennifer Lawrence, but I am stuck between that girl from my sophomore year of HS or Jen Law...
    ....Nah, it has to be Jen Law, I can't possibly resist her charms. :grin:

    If you saw an ex out with another girl\ guy what would you do?
    -Now when would that ever happen?
    Oh, depending on WHO the ex is I would either glare at them whilst trying to stop the itch to punch them in the damn face, or be a bit jealous but happy for them.

    Do your parents have a big say who you date?
    -No, thank God. But they indirectly influence who I date.

    Do you friends have a say who you date?
    -No, but they blindly encourage and root for me without even met the person.

    If you could say one thing to you ex what would it be?
    - *sigh* You know there is a lot of things I wish to say to you, and granted I probably typed it out on a blog some place on the internet, but all I can say is I sure hope Karma taught you something when you crossed me.
     
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  19. Cass

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    when did you get your first boyfriend/girlfriend
    I have never had a girlfriend
    I guess my first real boyfriend was when I was 14
    who gave you your first kiss
    I believe it was Blake: my first boyfriend

    have you ever been in love....
    A few times
    I was in love with Blake I guess, I was in love with a few others and now I'm in love again

    have you ever broken anyone's heart
    Oh so many times

    do you have feelings for any exes
    He's not really an ex because we were never a couple but I have feelings for one of my best friends who I almost dated

    do they know?
    No. He never will. He'll be leaving for the navy soon and he'll forget

    do you get along with any exes
    Some, not all

    longest relationship?
    4 years

    shortest
    Like a day lol

    has anyone ever told you they want to marry you
    One of my exes and my current

    Have you ever cried over a guy?
    Yeah

    Who was the last person u went on a date with?
    My boyfriend

    Single or taken?
    Taken

    What are things you look for ?
    Same values, kind, funny, smart

    Physical things that catch your eye ?
    A nice butt , eyes , a cute smile

    Which is more important looks or personality?
    Personality by far

    True love or $1000000000
    Love
    Although that's tempting

    If your SO cheated on you would you take them back ?
    Maybe . Probably not but there's always a possibility that I would
    If it was once

    If you could go on a date with anyone who would it be?
    Ed sheeren or Jen law

    If you saw an ex with someone else what would you do?
    Nothing

    Do your parents have a big say in who you date?
    My moms opinion is valuable but not enough to say no to who I'm with

    Do your friends?
    Same. Not enough to impact

    If you could say one thing to your ex what would it be?
    It depends on the ex
     
  20. Sabot Kitty

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    When did you have your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

    I was fifteen.

    Who gave you your first kiss?

    Have yet to be kissed; long-distance relationship... :c

    Have you ever fallen in love? If so, who?

    Yes, I fell in love with my current girlfriend three years ago.

    Have you ever broken anyone’s heart?

    No, not that I'm aware of.

    Do you get along with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends?

    We're not in contact.

    Do you have feelings for any exes at this current time?

    Nope.

    If so, are the feelings strong enough to be unable to move on?

    Nope.

    Do they know how you feel?

    Probably.

    How long was your longest relationship?

    Nearly three years.

    How short was your shortest relationship?

    About six weeks.

    Has anyone told you they wanted to marry you?

    Yes.

    Have you ever cried over a guy?

    Nope.

    If so, why? Why not?

    I've never had a boyfriend.

    Who was the last person you went on a date with? When?

    My current girlfriend, if online dates count. =)

    Are you currently single or taken?

    Taken, for life.

    What are some things you look for in a person that are important?

    Mutual love and caring <3

    What do you find physically attractive about a person that catches your eye?

    She has the most adorable face and is extremely huggable <3

    What is more important, looks or personality?

    Personality, but my girlfriend has both. =)

    Which would you prefer, true love or $1,000,000?

    The former.

    If your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?

    Yes; my love is unconditional. I would be disappointed, though.

    Are you currently having any friends with benefits?

    No.

    If you saw an ex out with another girl/guy, what would you do?

    Be happy for them.

    Do your parents have a big say as to who you date?

    Not at all; my mom approves though.

    Do your friends?

    Nope.

    If there was one thing you could say to your ex, what would it be?

    I have nothing to say to her.