19 and I had no idea about sex or anything regarding that prior to that. Since I'm very shy and suffer from social anxiety, I used to talk with people online and meet with them. My first time wasn't that good, but I guess I needed to get it out of my system or something to move on
Eurgh this is an awful question for me. I was deep in the closet so lost my virginity to a guy at 17. Thankfully I've only ever slept with the one guy. So in a way I've not lost my virginity properly (never been with a woman) and being with a guy just felt so wrong so I really don't count it tbh. I never felt excited etc. it was just going through the motions. Meah. Wish I could take it back now.
17 with a girl and apart from oral and me freaking out when it went to more still a virgin with guys... Hopefully change before too long though...
It depends on how you define virginity. I was sexually abused as a child, so some might say that I am not a virgin. However, especially according to my ex-therapist, I am still consensually a virgin.
It feels like the v-card is likely a lot more important to other people than it is to me. It's like there is magic "not a virgin powers". Wait do I get powers if I lose my virginity! Awesome!
I had it taken from me forcibly by my first boyfriend at 15. And then I thought that you were just supposed to feel horrible and dirty and sick after and that you're supposed to cry in the shower while you try to scrub the filthy feeling off. And so I kept trying to just be straight with my second boyfriend. It doesn't work that way don't do that it's not a good time 0/10 do not recommend.
I'm still a virgin. Thankfully. I don't care if it's not meaningful, but I want to feel ready, and make my own to choice as to when to have it, and not be pressured into it.
19, and even then I felt like I was a late bloomer. In retrospect, I felt that it was a wise decision. It would have been wiser, I suppose, if it were a few years later, like at 20 or 21.