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Another question: What's it like to kiss a woman?

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by junebug99, Sep 11, 2017.

  1. OED27x

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    That is exactly the special thing about kissing women. You are 100% there in that kiss. Whether it leads to something or not. With men it feels like, I don't know, other noise running through your head. With women, there is no other noise, because you know it's right.
     
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    So fake! Netflix movies have some okay basically soft porn movies/scenes. But even they could step up their game. And the storylines are horrible!
     
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    Haha! Add a little :wine_glass:or:tropical_drink: or:beer: to the:popcorn:, and we're all set to sit back and enjoy!
     
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    Yeah, I'm pretty gay. :slight_smile:

    I have (and maybe will always have) romantic notions about men. But I'm going to accept that for what it is. And, also accept that I'm gay! The two are not mutually exclusive!
     
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    I've been learning lots of terms on that dating site. So many different names for sexual orientations these days. It's a bit much. But the most entertaining ones to me are "homoflexible" and "heteroflexible". OMG, I died when I saw that in people's profiles. But after asking my trans nephew about them, he gave me the following definitions:

    Homoflexible: I'm gay, but shit happens.
    Heteroflexible: I'm straight, but shit happens.

    LOL!!!!
     
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    I agree. For me, personally, it's a bit much. I really don't like that specificity for myself. But I get how some want to further identify for the sake of inclusion, or definition, or simply identity. I don't know. But I do know shit happens!
     
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    Whatever type of porn I like to watch woman's faces. This is more interesting than the rest of the acts for some reason. Plus you can tell if they are into it.
     
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    These are new ones to me. And I thought I was on top of it all, in that we are in diversity training about every other week at work, getting updated on all the new terms. It is really all too much!

    But I like this homoflexible and heteroflexible terminology. Shit happens... :fearful:
     
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    I think I would need a pocket dictionary with those terms. I wouldn't remember which is which rightaway lol

    It's been a while since I last kissed a woman. I do remember it as so soft.. hmmm... thats all I wanted to do at that time. Gosh we were sneaking since we're both closeted. It made it more exciting and memorable.

    And about men kissing grossly, lol I experienced the same thing with my exhusband. While I was reading the comments here I'm like maybe they made us more gay with all those yucky wet kissing :smile:
     
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    This thread manages to be entertaining and educational!
     
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    Amazing that's what it like
     
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    Hmm I'm not sure how to describe it........I'm going to have to carry out some more practical testing and get back to you
     
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    Practical testing???Any excuse eh????? :grin:
    We shall await your report with great interest.
     
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    She is on long days all week so I'm not sure when the results will be in :frowning2:
     
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    You'll have to stay up late!!!!!
     
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    LMAO EC just gets better and better.
     
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    Do you think I should tell her she is partaking in research?

    Ok ok I'll take one for the team and stay up late haha
     
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    Nah, don't tell her because that might affect her response and skew the results. I work in data analysis so I am speaking on a strictly professional level here of course. :slight_smile:
     
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