Feminine? Masculine?

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  1. singtoh1

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    So what do you think you are, Masculine or Feminine?

    Also how do you think others perceive you as?

    I believe I'm a little of both. Depends on my mood or what I'm doing at the moment. For the most part though I would consider myself more masculine then feminine. I'm just not the stereo typical gay guy.

    As far as people goes, I find that woman find me more masculine where as men find me more feminine so I don't know lol.
     
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    I'm more masculine... Everyone thinks I'm more masculine, I pride myself in it.
     
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    Emotionally more feminine.. physically, probably more on the masculine side.
     
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    Masculine, but with a feminine touch. :slight_smile:

    I can be a real softy sometimes.
     
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    i dunno.
    i think people perceive me as femme, but i am far from flaming.
     
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    I guess I'm mainly masculine, but with a few feminine traits. My brother is the same way, but with a few more feminine traits. But since he's straight, those traits are considered "quirks", whereas I'm gay, so in me, they're considered "proof". :slight_smile:

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    i guess i'm definitely more masculine than anything. everyone is like uber surprised when i come out. i mean, im not the most masculine, but i'm far from feminine i think. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm on the more feminine side.
     
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    I am very masculine, but as many people here say, with a few feminine traits, though I am more masculine than plenty of straight people I know...
     
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    lol
     
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    I'm feminine.
    People see me as feminine.

    Occasionally, I have some masculine quirks, but not often.
     
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    most of my friends see me as more masculine. some of my friends are even surprised when i tell them im gay. but then i sometimes do these gestures and my friend would tell me "oh stop it you little gay boy" and id jsut be like -__-. but yes. in most terms masculine.
     
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    Both really. For example, in the afternoon I might be at the auto wreckers tearing parts off junked cars, and at night I'm at H&M in my glory.

    Mood wise is the same, I can get very emotional and bitchy. Up and down :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Kinda in between. Tomboyish but not really masculine. I'm a t-shirts and blue jeans kinda
    lesbian. And...my hair isn't real short,either. I'm MEEEEE!
     
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    I'm more feminine and I could talk 'girl talk' for hours because I'm used to being around girls almost all the time, but sometimes I get really into sports that I'm playing and get really competitive.
     
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    I occasionally do the whole limp wristed thing, but rarely intentionally. I tend to cover it all up with a thick layer of music jargon. I make music a gender. (!) It tends to surprise people when I tell them I'm gay though, so it's not particularly obvious.
     
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    I guess that I'm somewhere in between. I don't really have any masculine qualities, but I can't say that I'm that feminine either. I guess it just depends on what traits are being considered.
     
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    More feminine in general looks and personality but probably with a masculine way of dealing with emotions and feelings. Plus I don't care about getting dirty, icky things bugs etc. So I guess I have a bit of a masculine touch.
     
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    I am definitely more masculine than feminine. I don't really have any "feminine" traits although i'm a bit more empathic and sympathetic than other guys. I also like working with kids a lot so i guess i have a "maternal" touch there. Other than that i have no "tells" and coming out will shock everyone :badgrin:
     
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    Hmmm
    I think I'm a bit more feminine
    I like fashion and clothes, but I'm not flaming, at least I try not to be.
    And I don't care for sports, just the boys who play them. And I don't hang out with many guys.

    But I have a more masculine approach to feelings and things - I don't really talk about them. It makes me kinda uncomfortable.